this staying home by myself is getting to me....

skim milk

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First of all, I have nobody to blame but myself. I shut everybody out from my life except my immediate family and a close friend.

I'm not depressed or anything... but I feel so pathetic.

I'm a college student, I met and hung out with people my freshman year but then when my sophomore year started, I shut everybody out because I wanted to be alone, in the depths of solitude. (they weren't my kind of group anyway)

At first I was happy but now, staying home every weekend with no one to hang out with anymore is starting to get to me.

How pathetic is that.

The only thing I feel like I'm misssing is the maturing process that many people go through in college and the process of learning how to deal with people (girls, etc.)


I should just starting volunteering or working on the weekends.....
 

Ness

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how about just introducing yourself to people in classes, neighbors... asking people to sit with them during lunch...

Grow a pair and stop thinking that people will laugh at you... cause even if they do you probably won't see them ever again when you are at college.
 

Koing

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Get a bar job. YOU MEET LOADS OF PEOPLE. Very good atmosphere, but if you don't like bars yo probably wouldn't want to work in a bar unless you really need the money.

Well I am home alone as my mates are 30miles away and I got to look after my bro. But hey at least I am seeing my gf tomorrow :D

Koing
 

hawkeye81x

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That was the way I spent most of college, except I was in a single club that keep me connected at least.
 

MazerRackham

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Yeah, I agree with the others who say to get a job! Movie theater, restaurant, some campus job in an office somewhere; anything! Get out of the house on a regular basis and you'll be amazed at home much better you'll feel after a while. Good luck dude--
 

Reel

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Organize an ATOT meet. Brxndxn set one up last year about this time actually. We went to Hooters. Got 4 people to show total but hey that's more than none.
 

Lager

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Start a ATOT meet around your neighborhood.

I want to see how pathetic you look. :D