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This person makes me uncomfortable.

Zeze

Lifer
[atot blog]

Time to time, this girl I know messages me. She's my friend's now ex-wife. She's a little bit.. crazy. You know those types that kind of make you uncomfortable when you talk to them.. because they just flood you with personal information? Yea... here she is at it again- talking about her ex. The last time I talked to her was over a year ago.

Sorry about the crappy formatting. It's from FB. It should be easy to follow (spaces separate me and her).

hows life zeze
are you living in nyc

hey hey
no im in JC now

Oh cool
How's married life

haha not married yet

What
U were married two years no

no no
i only proposed recently

Oh....
OH!
Rift
Right

wedding day is this sept

Well are u and fiancé
Ever in city
Come visit my apt

cool
where are u at

Upper east side
Yeah I became the evil bitch we all thought I would become
And single

what
who says you're an evil bitch

Hahaha Jeff
Blast from past

it's in the past
shake it off

Yeah hahaha
How about u u talk to that group
I gchat w Lisa
Sometimes

I chat with jeff here and there
not really

Ah
Good good good
Don't tell me he prob doesn't want u to
I can't believe I didn't stay friends with him oh well he doesn't want to
I still text him sometimes he hates me
So

why do you text him

Did u buy house
In jersey
Just bc I think it's ridiculous
That I wrote his law school application and got him the career he has today and I did it as a friend
Even when I don't want to stay with him
And he does not want to be friends

i see.
well no house yet

I do things for people not for relationship reason
Kk

we kinda want to move to west coast

Why KC
Oh
Kk
JC

not settled yet
so we'll se.

What are determining factors
For leave or stay

i want that suburb life
ny or nj doesn't cut it fo rme

Hahahahahaah
You and jeff are of one mind
Why don't u take him and his wife with u
Hahahahaha
(wtf)

this has nothing to do with jeff..

No I know i know
It's just funny bc after him I have all friends that are die hard
Manhattan
I know one girl
You'd like her
Anna park
37 yo lawyer
Who wants suburb odor
Life
Hahaah iPhone said odor

Lol
So what do u and your fiancee do again
Oh Anna park organize this social called a dinner and a movie
And I know this Korean lawyer just had dinner with him tonight that will be organizing Korean parade 2013
And this Korean doctor that has private surgical practice in fort lee
Hahaha and now I've listed every Korean I still know

Eek. She's a nice girl... it's just that she comes on very strong and it's quite off-putting.... and crazy.
 
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Wait, so you say she gives out personal info easily and you do so by following the post with the private conversation you had with her.
 
You want to know how to deal with crazies? As soon as you find out they're crazy, cut ties. Stop going where they go, boot them off your facebook or add them to a special list that has everything blocked, and get the friends and contacts you value to do the same. Whenever they text or you run into them in person, just be nice and agree with everything they say while not committing to a single thing. It's all fairly easy to do, the only hard part may be accepting that sometimes it is ok to be a bit of a dick.
 
Lol. Sounds like she's got some issues.

Koreans are bunch of superficial status whores. All they care about is status. Even reading that you can see that everyone is defined by their job and nothing more.
 
You are some sort of secondary contact to an ex that she is hung up on. She drops personal details hoping to get some about him in return, and hopes that her stories make it back to him.
 
I'm struggling to find anything redeeming in this thread. No pics of crazy Korean, nothing remotely interesting in the back and forth conversation, not a single Korean kung fu reference... this thread blows.
 
why don't you delete her from friends? She was crazy and didn't talk to you for a year, you could have chalked it up to cleaning house.
Now it's fresh so it will be clear, maybe that's even better. Delete.
 
You are some sort of secondary contact to an ex that she is hung up on. She drops personal details hoping to get some about him in return, and hopes that her stories make it back to him.

this.

also, this is why i never have FB chat turned on.
 
lolkoreans.

Lol. Sounds like she's got some issues.

Koreans are bunch of superficial status whores. All they care about is status. Even reading that you can see that everyone is defined by their job and nothing more.

LOL, look at these internet stereotyping being fueled.

She's not Korean. 🙄😀

That's why she keeps dropping 'Korean' people to me because I am one (as if people being Korean is what I need for meeting new friends).
 
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You are some sort of secondary contact to an ex that she is hung up on. She drops personal details hoping to get some about him in return, and hopes that her stories make it back to him.

This.

Remember how limited text conversations are. It's so easy to misread the other person's intent. The same convo face-to-face might have left you with a different impression.
 
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