Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Originally posted by: gwarbot
Originally posted by: intogamer
Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Originally posted by: MantisFistMonk
Report the kids to child services.
They will take care of them way better than some... erm how do I put this poslitely... meth addict.
Indeed. if they can't feed the baby, then the situation isn't a whole lot better than having a meth-addict mother. At least child services will be able to take care of the baby appropriately.
That my friend is a true statement but the situation is better. Atleast the child is in a place where people show love,compassion,and actually care about him. So things are getting better. It just needs a little bit of time that's all.
As callous as it sounds to say it, you can't feed a child on love and compassion.
If these people can hardly afford formula and still pay the bills, what are they going to go if the baby gets sick? Does he have health care? What if some complication arises because of the mother's drug use? What about the baby's other needs? (toys, clothes, etc.) It sounds like one hell of a precarious position to me.
There are government programs that will provide aid, but I don't think they'll kick in until custody has been decided. Call Child Protection Services and have them take care of the baby until the legal wrangling is done. It really is the best thing you can do to protect the child from harm.
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Originally posted by: gwarbot
Originally posted by: intogamer
Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Originally posted by: MantisFistMonk
Report the kids to child services.
They will take care of them way better than some... erm how do I put this poslitely... meth addict.
Indeed. if they can't feed the baby, then the situation isn't a whole lot better than having a meth-addict mother. At least child services will be able to take care of the baby appropriately.
That my friend is a true statement but the situation is better. Atleast the child is in a place where people show love,compassion,and actually care about him. So things are getting better. It just needs a little bit of time that's all.
As callous as it sounds to say it, you can't feed a child on love and compassion.
If these people can hardly afford formula and still pay the bills, what are they going to go if the baby gets sick? Does he have health care? What if some complication arises because of the mother's drug use? What about the baby's other needs? (toys, clothes, etc.) It sounds like one hell of a precarious position to me.
There are government programs that will provide aid, but I don't think they'll kick in until custody has been decided. Call Child Protection Services and have them take care of the baby until the legal wrangling is done. It really is the best thing you can do to protect the child from harm.
No offense, American Gov't programs for those who need welfare are one of the biggest (if not THE biggest) crock of sh!t in the history of man kind.
Originally posted by: gwarbot
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Originally posted by: gwarbot
Originally posted by: intogamer
Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Originally posted by: MantisFistMonk
Report the kids to child services.
They will take care of them way better than some... erm how do I put this poslitely... meth addict.
Indeed. if they can't feed the baby, then the situation isn't a whole lot better than having a meth-addict mother. At least child services will be able to take care of the baby appropriately.
That my friend is a true statement but the situation is better. Atleast the child is in a place where people show love,compassion,and actually care about him. So things are getting better. It just needs a little bit of time that's all.
As callous as it sounds to say it, you can't feed a child on love and compassion.
If these people can hardly afford formula and still pay the bills, what are they going to go if the baby gets sick? Does he have health care? What if some complication arises because of the mother's drug use? What about the baby's other needs? (toys, clothes, etc.) It sounds like one hell of a precarious position to me.
There are government programs that will provide aid, but I don't think they'll kick in until custody has been decided. Call Child Protection Services and have them take care of the baby until the legal wrangling is done. It really is the best thing you can do to protect the child from harm.
No offense, American Gov't programs for those who need welfare are one of the biggest (if not THE biggest) crock of sh!t in the history of man kind.
Finally someone understands. everytime we call one of them they say they can't help us because we don't have custody of the child.
Originally posted by: gwarbot
Originally posted by: CRXican
not every child is meant to survive
What's that suppose to mean?
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: gwarbot
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Originally posted by: gwarbot
Originally posted by: intogamer
Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Originally posted by: MantisFistMonk
Report the kids to child services.
They will take care of them way better than some... erm how do I put this poslitely... meth addict.
Indeed. if they can't feed the baby, then the situation isn't a whole lot better than having a meth-addict mother. At least child services will be able to take care of the baby appropriately.
That my friend is a true statement but the situation is better. Atleast the child is in a place where people show love,compassion,and actually care about him. So things are getting better. It just needs a little bit of time that's all.
As callous as it sounds to say it, you can't feed a child on love and compassion.
If these people can hardly afford formula and still pay the bills, what are they going to go if the baby gets sick? Does he have health care? What if some complication arises because of the mother's drug use? What about the baby's other needs? (toys, clothes, etc.) It sounds like one hell of a precarious position to me.
There are government programs that will provide aid, but I don't think they'll kick in until custody has been decided. Call Child Protection Services and have them take care of the baby until the legal wrangling is done. It really is the best thing you can do to protect the child from harm.
No offense, American Gov't programs for those who need welfare are one of the biggest (if not THE biggest) crock of sh!t in the history of man kind.
Finally someone understands. everytime we call one of them they say they can't help us because we don't have custody of the child.
I'm Canadian, I think all things about the American social system sucks ass. I must admit that there are somethings I respect about america, but it's come at a cost.
Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Way to make a meaningless, unsupported blanket statement about American government programs and perpetuate the Canadian stereotype of being elitist socialist pricks. Go back to your ice-fishing.
Like I said in my post (which apparently no one read), give the kid to CPS until custody gets decided, THEN ask for government child support. In this way, the child be guaranteed adequate food and medical care throughout this process and you will still have custody of the child when all is said and done.
Originally posted by: xaeniac
No one is giving money you any money. Everyone would beg for some cash if that was the case. Give it up man. We feel sorry for the baby if it's true, but have problems of our own. Start in the community and try to get state funding through gov't programs. Get the chick off drugs, etc. Sorry to be so harsh, but if others want to bash me, why don't you give this guy some money then.
Originally posted by: meltdown75
Originally posted by: xaeniac
No one is giving money you any money. Everyone would beg for some cash if that was the case. Give it up man. We feel sorry for the baby if it's true, but have problems of our own. Start in the community and try to get state funding through gov't programs. Get the chick off drugs, etc. Sorry to be so harsh, but if others want to bash me, why don't you give this guy some money then.
he already said he didn't want cash. read the thread.
Originally posted by: Bryophyte
Originally posted by: meltdown75
Originally posted by: xaeniac
No one is giving money you any money. Everyone would beg for some cash if that was the case. Give it up man. We feel sorry for the baby if it's true, but have problems of our own. Start in the community and try to get state funding through gov't programs. Get the chick off drugs, etc. Sorry to be so harsh, but if others want to bash me, why don't you give this guy some money then.
he already said he didn't want cash. read the thread.
He said in one post that formula was preferable over cash, but he didn't give any indication that cash wasn't wanted. He was asking about getting a paypal donation thing set up.
Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: gwarbot
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Originally posted by: gwarbot
Originally posted by: intogamer
Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Originally posted by: MantisFistMonk
Report the kids to child services.
They will take care of them way better than some... erm how do I put this poslitely... meth addict.
Indeed. if they can't feed the baby, then the situation isn't a whole lot better than having a meth-addict mother. At least child services will be able to take care of the baby appropriately.
That my friend is a true statement but the situation is better. Atleast the child is in a place where people show love,compassion,and actually care about him. So things are getting better. It just needs a little bit of time that's all.
As callous as it sounds to say it, you can't feed a child on love and compassion.
If these people can hardly afford formula and still pay the bills, what are they going to go if the baby gets sick? Does he have health care? What if some complication arises because of the mother's drug use? What about the baby's other needs? (toys, clothes, etc.) It sounds like one hell of a precarious position to me.
There are government programs that will provide aid, but I don't think they'll kick in until custody has been decided. Call Child Protection Services and have them take care of the baby until the legal wrangling is done. It really is the best thing you can do to protect the child from harm.
No offense, American Gov't programs for those who need welfare are one of the biggest (if not THE biggest) crock of sh!t in the history of man kind.
Finally someone understands. everytime we call one of them they say they can't help us because we don't have custody of the child.
I'm Canadian, I think all things about the American social system sucks ass. I must admit that there are somethings I respect about america, but it's come at a cost.
Way to make a meaningless, unsupported blanket statement about American government programs and perpetuate the Canadian stereotype of being elitist socialist pricks. Go back to your ice-fishing.
Like I said in my post (which apparently no one read), give the kid to CPS until custody gets decided, THEN ask for government child support. In this way, the child be guaranteed adequate food and medical care throughout this process and you will still have custody of the child when all is said and done.
Originally posted by: Bryophyte
"We" who? I don't understand why you keep talking like it's your family.
