Originally posted by: mcurphy
So I went to a strip club tonight in Rockford, IL
Per city rules, they can
not get completely nude. Pretty much they can strip down to a bikini. No bare tops or bottoms. (I know...it is lame as hell!) I'm glad I live in Wisconsin and can see some real strippers when I want to
So, anyhow, I sat at the bar having a few drinks and I notice this guy next to me at the end of the bar, has all the girls coming up to him. He is
not a good looking male. He is overweight, with glasses, and has frizzy hair. Definitely not the type of guy you would think is getting all of the girls attention.
But...he is feeding the strippers money like it is growing on trees, and buying them drinks left and right.
I could tell this poor soul was just starving for attention. I watched this go on for awhile, and as soon as he had a break from the strippers, I took it upon myself to lay it all out for him and tell him the truth.
I said, "Hey man! Seriously, can't you see that all these chicks are just after your money?"
He mumbles, "ummm, nah, uh uh"
I say back, "You're just giving them all your cash for nothing. They aren't going to go home with you. They just want your money."
And again he mumbles something or another that wasn't coherent. But he wasn't drunk or messed up, he was just shy and didn't want to talk...
He wasn't drunk.
He just didn't want to admit to the truth.
He was enjoying the attention he got from these half naked girls, and was living out a fantasy.
I tried to tell him not to spend his money (he threw out at least $200 from what I saw). All for nothing...except maybe his own personal pleasure (although I can't see what that could possibly be if it wasn't going further than chit chat at the bar!)
So should I have told him that he was wasting his money?
Or should I have just let him be, in his fantasy world, letting the whores take advantage of him?