Thinking about moving out...

Zysoclaplem

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Can't take my ex, who is still my room-mate, bringing other guys over and stomping on what is left of my bleeding heart.

I have never lived by myself in an apartment. Does it suck?
 

ggnl

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It's not bad at all living by yourself, although you might want to find a roommate just so you won't be alone while you're recovering from your previous relationship.

On a side note, it's really fvcked up that your ex is bringing new guys over to your shared home. He should at least have the decency to not make you witness that kind of stuff.
 

blackdogdeek

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i preferred living by myself to all other living arrangements.

excepting of course living with my wife.
 

PricklyPete

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Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Can't take my ex, who is still my room-mate, bringing other guys over and stomping on what is left of my bleeding heart.

I have never lived by myself in an apartment. Does it suck?

No it is quite awesome. I've always had roommates up to a couple of months ago...couldn't be happier. I've always gotten along with all my roommates...but there is something about having your own place.
 

ravana

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Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Can't take my ex, who is still my room-mate, bringing other guys over and stomping on what is left of my bleeding heart.

I have never lived by myself in an apartment. Does it suck?

Get your own place.
 

Adica

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Nope, It does not suck, actually it's really great.

Like Blackdog said, it's the best except living with my husband.
 

JasonSix78

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Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Can't take my ex, who is still my room-mate, bringing other guys over and stomping on what is left of my bleeding heart.

I have never lived by myself in an apartment. Does it suck?

Wow, she sounds like a real winner. Why should you be the one to move out? Biotch slap her and tell her to get out.

-Jason
 

Platypus

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Originally posted by: JasonSix78
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Can't take my ex, who is still my room-mate, bringing other guys over and stomping on what is left of my bleeding heart.

I have never lived by myself in an apartment. Does it suck?

Wow, she sounds like a real winner. Why should you be the one to move out? Biotch slap her and tell her to get out.

-Jason

He, not she.
 

Zysoclaplem

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Originally posted by: ggnl
It's not bad at all living by yourself, although you might want to find a roommate just so you won't be alone while you're recovering from your previous relationship.

On a side note, it's really fvcked up that your ex is bringing new guys over to your shared home. He should at least have the decency to not make you witness that kind of stuff.

I guess he just doesn't understand or care. He wanted to break up, and he wanted me to stay. Now he wants to bring other guys over and expects me to be fine with it. May'be I thought I would. But I am not. I am stuck back in my area, miserable, because I wanted to stay together. I have given three years of my life to that fvcking relationship, put up with sh!t I shouldn't have, and for what?

Sorry.
 

DanTMWTMP

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Oct 7, 2001
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i hate living alone. One time I had to stay at my apt over an extended break. My roommates were gone, but i was still down in SD due to work. It sucked. It was boring as hell, and I couldn't sleep ahahha
 
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Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: ggnl
It's not bad at all living by yourself, although you might want to find a roommate just so you won't be alone while you're recovering from your previous relationship.

On a side note, it's really fvcked up that your ex is bringing new guys over to your shared home. He should at least have the decency to not make you witness that kind of stuff.

I guess he just doesn't understand or care. He wanted to break up, and he wanted me to stay. Now he wants to bring other guys over and expects me to be fine with it. May'be I thought I would. But I am not. I am stuck back in my area, miserable, because I wanted to stay together. I have given three years of my life to that fvcking relationship, put up with sh!t I shouldn't have, and for what?

Sorry.

Sorry to hear that. I suppose we all have our crappy relationships (well except for me, I have no relationships :p). I do hope you can move past it and feel better though. :)
 

funboy6942

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Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Can't take my ex, who is still my room-mate, bringing other guys over and stomping on what is left of my bleeding heart.

I have never lived by myself in an apartment. Does it suck?

Sucks bass man I wouldnt move out. Its so bad when you can do what you want when you want and not disturb anyone esle. You want to walk around naked you can. You want to leave you house a mess with dishes piled up in the sink you can. You want to leave the toilet seat up you can. If you want to bring the boys over and get wasted puking on your own floor or furniture and leave it to smell and dry up you can. OR better yet you want to bring home some tail (or tails) and be descrete and not let the other tail know about it you can. So as you can see I have proven several ways how living on your own can suck big time and no one should ever just cut the line and take the jump to be on thier own. Its just wrong :p
 

Platypus

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It might be hard on the wallet but it's probably better than watching your heart get put through the shredder every morning :\