"the perfect one out there for you....."

[bigbootydaddy]

is probobly in austrailia somewhere!!!

i always get the, there is one special person for you mumbojumbo as advice, and i get to think:

~4.5 billion people in the world
im only one person
lets say half total population are women
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chances to find that "unique for me" person (excluding age constraints)
1/2,250,000,000

and then i get the, "love at first sight vs compatability"
im more of a peson who finds a reason to love someone, compatability helps, but do you really want a clone of yourself, or one who can open your eyes to things youve never known.

thoughts?

 

[Philosopher]

Well, odds are you'll find that special someone...or find a different special someone.

Me I thought I found that special someone, but it turns out shes a little too radical of a christian for my tastes(I hope I'm wrong!)

 

[fir3wir3]

Well I believe there's probably a few people that would be perfect for any one given person.

in my opinion you never meet that person though.

 

[Viper GTS]

I didn't used to believe in the whole "there's one for you" concept, but lately my ideas have changed. There's no way somebody just "happened" to match me, complete me, & compliment me like she does. So I guess I'd have to agree with the advice you've been given thus far... You may not find them today, tomorrow, or even this month, but you will.

Viper GTS

 

[konichiwa]

I found my special someone, but, unfortunately, she had already found hers.

 

[trmiv]

The odds of finding "that person" are worse than the lottery. So, if you really have found "that person", consider yourself really lucky (and don't plan on hitting the lottery for millions too, you've had your luck for your lifetime ) Of course, I could just be bitter.....

 

[kuk]

Well, I found that special someone ... humm ... today

I'm still a little offtrack from what happened ... need to think about a lot of things ... but I'm feeling great!

 

[Total Refected Power]

Its naive to think it is not possible to find more than one "soulmate" but when you do find that special person hold on tight.

We are the same, but different, family, friend, lover and partner.

 

[kranky]

Even if it's true there is one and only one "perfect" person for you, there are millions of "99.9% perfect" people, and you'll never know the difference.

 

[kohutek]

welp, lemme tell ya, there are people out there who are just right for you.

I've met two people that I think I could be happy with for the rest of my life ...

randal

 

[stormbv]

I doubt there is someone out there for me...:frown:

Will someone hold me?

 

[DannyLove]

i honestly don't think it's an issue of "finding" the person. What is this a women/man hunt? of course not, i dont think everyday "finding the person" is the objective. I see it as the other concept "things happens for a reason." Finding the right person utilizes the other concept, and you pretty much evaluate it from there. I'll stick with the other saying.

 

[smp]

A bowl does not exist without the space that fills it. Don't look for the ONE that suits you.. any girl could, you just have to open your eyes. Our media has ruined us, as passive consumers we've allowed ourselves to be skewed in our tastes and our ideologys... I'm still fighting that, tryin hard.... things like love can't be explained. They can't be explained because they defeat the rational mind.. so don't look for love rationaly, through pro's and con's and such "I like her cause she's into hardware, I dont' like her cause she's into nsysnc".. just DO.
ps.. not like nike.

 

[DannyLove]

dont blame the media, why is it that for everything the media is blamed....

 

[trmiv]

I found the person that I *think* is "that person", too bad she is taken and "thinks of me as a friend."

 

[Elledan]

I've a theory that on this planet, the average person can find more than 15,000 possible partners.

Anyone willing to check this theory?

 

[DannyLove]

i hate that friend crap!

 

[ChrichtonsGirl]

My opinion changes depending on what time of the month it is (ha, I can admit it), but right this minute, I think if there is someone who's "perfect" for me, he's probably either dead or in Siberia. But that could just be a cop-out and maybe I'm too lazy to look very far right now.

 

[DonaldDuck82]

i think that the chances of finding that "special other" are higher than what we think, because it would make sense that this person would be involved things that we are involved in, making the two compatable, i think that finding that one person isn't as unrealistic as it seems

 

[atomicbomberman]

I'm 18, and I already think this "perfect" one crap is totally full of sh!t.

I mean, common! I never meet a person like that before, and i don't believe I will

 

[Total Refected Power]

ATOMIC:

With an attitude like that, be careful.

 

[kuk]

trmiv: Hold on in there.

Just some hours ago, she wanted us to be just friends ... now everything has changed. In a matter of seconds, your life changes in an unbelievable way.

 

[trmiv]

kuk: I wish I could be that positive, but we have been "just friends" for a long time. I used to stress about it and try to think of all these ways to get her to come around, but now its not a big deal. If it happens it happens, I'm not going to stress about it anymore.

 

[bigbootydaddy]

Update:

ok, i got the friend crap...and lied to.

a week ago she calls out of the blue...and she says "I love you"

then i find out shes been seeing another guy at the same time.

Where's that vodka.

 

[Taz4158]

When I was a teenager I always thought it was hilarious when a friend would say "But he or she was PERFECT for me". Funny how that perfect person always lived 15 minutes away rather than halfway around the world.