The pain of a broken relationship

[Doomer]

When a man finds himself in the aftermath of a broken relationship and hurting badly because he truly loved the one he lost, why is it that women will avoid him like he has the plague ?

This is the time in a man's life when he really needs a friend yet women treat him like a leper.

The truth is, we heal. Some faster than others and when we emerge from our cloud of grief, we are stronger and better for having been through it.

Why are women so damn blind to this simple fact ?

 

[Deeko]

hahah, are you kidding? Maybe you're just ugly. Women love a man on the rebound...he's easy to extort money/sex from.

 

[PricklyPete]

You are either is a sea of self pity...and thus completely unattractive to women....or you are ugly as Deeko said...as women do generally love guys on the rebound.

 

[Red]

Stop being so clingy and get over it. Go fvck a bar chick and get the ex off your mind.

P.S. Try not to sound so Middle-Englishy, it makes you sound like an artsy french woman.

 

[Aimster]

because you annoyed the hell out of her. That is why she broke up with you. You gave her no freedom and no room to be herself.
You = problem

 

[DivideBYZero]

I'm on the rebound and get lots of sex. Get out there you puss.

 

[Modeps]

*shakes magic 8 ball*

"Oh, Magic 8 Ball... Tell me! If someone talks of a woman on ATOT, must it always be a soap opera?"

*all signs point to yes.*

 

[moshquerade]

maybe because you are feeling sorry for yourself and acting like a big downer. who wants to be around that?

 

[Lash444]

Yeah, dont talk about her around them. That doesnt work so good. Act like a friggen man about it.



Oh, and change your emoticon, you are being a wuss!

 

[StageLeft]

When a man finds himself in the aftermath of a broken relationship and hurting badly because he truly loved the one he lost, why is it that women will avoid him like he has the plague ?

Women like confidence, not some dejected loser who's feeling sorry for himself. I don't mean that personally, but that's how a person in pain from a relationship comes of as, and nobody wants that.

 

[Red]

Originally posted by: Skoorb

When a man finds himself in the aftermath of a broken relationship and hurting badly because he truly loved the one he lost, why is it that women will avoid him like he has the plague ?

Women like confidence, not some dejected loser who's feeling sorry for himself. I don't mean that personally, but that's how a person in pain from a relationship comes of as, and nobody wants that.

On a lighter note, and to completely disregard the OP's Middle-Englishy ways, WHAAAAAT UP Skoorb? =) How's the baby?

 

[J Heartless Slick]

Originally posted by: Doomer
When a man finds himself in the aftermath of a broken relationship and hurting badly because he truly loved the one he lost, why is it that women will avoid him like he has the plague ?

This is the time in a man's life when he really needs a friend yet women treat him like a leper.

The truth is, we heal. Some faster than others and when we emerge from our cloud of grief, we are stronger and better for having been through it.

Why are women so damn blind to this simple fact ?

How would you react if you broke up with someone and they kept calling you and trying to get back together?

I am sure almost everyone are familar with your situation. My experience has been it is best to stay away from this person and let time take care of your feelings.