It seems reasonable to give these guys additional credit towards their retirement and to try hard to steer them into college so they can be moved into training positions and up the command structure so we continue to benefit from their knowledge. It also seems like people in positions that will never see combat don't need a pension in the 38 - 42 age range.
Agreed, although I suspect that this guy could have easily moved into a physical training position or even a recruiting position where he would never again pick up a gun, had he desired.
20 years till retirement is already pretty short. Also, they get a lot of extra pay for what they do already. While we don't know the details here, generally he could have rotated back to different duty had he so chosen. I really can't figure out what would have happened that would leave him unable to re-enlist but wouldn't give him disability or medical benefits. I mean considering training time and deployment schedules, how long do you want to shorten it?
Again, this story is mighty fishy.
Well, the story is almost certainly to promote a book and gain public sympathy for getting that book published. He's going to want to publish things that the government isn't going to want published; maybe this is a pre-emptive strike in the war for public opinion? In any case, sixteen years as a SEAL isn't just a job, it's sixteen years of life-threatening, sphincter-tightening missions where death even of the whole team is a very real possibility. Very few members of our military are actually on the point of the spear, as infantry (and even including others such as armor combat units who go toe to toe with the enemy) are a small minority. SEALs are commonly BEYOND the point of the spear, a tiny minority within an already small minority who regularly intentionally become surrounded, often out of artillery range.
One other possibility - it could be that the author had pre-determined the story's slant and merely drove the conversation and took quotes to meet that requirement. Wouldn't be the first time.
You havent met many SEALs have you

Pretty much. SEALs get special treatment across the board, and you don't take four or five friends into a country/region where almost everyone wants to kill you unless you have a VERY high opinion of yourself. I don't know I'd say prima donna though. It's sorta like the old saying - it ain't bragging if you can do it.