The ladies are impossible

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Siddhartha

Lifer
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Originally posted by: TechnoKid
phonecall theory. I meet a girl on the second day, wednesday, of class at the bookstore on campus. She calls later that day; we talk for a little over 2 hours (yeah I know.....). Have a decent conversation. Two days later, today, I call, but she doesn't pick up, voicemail. I'm not about to call everyday; thats too desperate. I'll call back on monday or tuesday, if she doens't call sooner, maybe sunday, who knows.


The ladies are impossible.

edited the un to im......

She might not be interested in you.

Don't worry about it. There are a lot of other women out there who will want to spend time with you.
 

TechnoKid

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Feb 12, 2001
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Originally posted by: Siddhartha
Originally posted by: TechnoKid
phonecall theory. I meet a girl on the second day, wednesday, of class at the bookstore on campus. She calls later that day; we talk for a little over 2 hours (yeah I know.....). Have a decent conversation. Two days later, today, I call, but she doesn't pick up, voicemail. I'm not about to call everyday; thats too desperate. I'll call back on monday or tuesday, if she doens't call sooner, maybe sunday, who knows.


The ladies are impossible.

edited the un to im......

She might not be interested in you.

Don't worry about it. There are a lot of other women out there who will want to spend time with you.

I've thought of that, and maybe im overanalyzing it, but I figure because I gave her my number first, and then she contacted me....I did not ask for her number first. She gave it to me in text message after I gave her mine and thats how i called her. If she wasn't interested at all, I don't think she'd be inlcined to call me at all...

"At the bookstore, I was actually buying scatrons for tests (on the second day of class!) during break and was already late for break, so I gave her my number first, then she text me later on wed, I called her, then she had to go, and then she called me back later at night; that when we were on the phone for a little over 2 hours. " ---thats from a previous reply of mine.
 

yoda291

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Aug 11, 2001
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really, you should adopt my philosophy on this:

If you said you'd call, be a man, suck it up and call.
If she said she'd call, you have voicemail so why do you care how long it takes?
 

TechnoKid

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Feb 12, 2001
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Originally posted by: sm8000
Maybe you should IM her and talk about marriage....

Heh. If I know one thing its that this is prob not the best idea. I dont' even have her SN, i dunno if she has one. I just have her # thats all.

Imma just wait for her to call me, either that or wait untill i see her at school again. I am not going to call her again anytimme soon; she already knows i'm interested in her.
 

TechnoKid

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Feb 12, 2001
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Originally posted by: Blazin Trav
Talk to her in person buddy.

I feel this is the best way to communicate. For sure if I bump into her again at school, I'll definately try to talk/conversate with her.
 

aidanjm

Lifer
Aug 9, 2004
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Originally posted by: TechnoKid
phonecall theory. I meet a girl on the second day, wednesday, of class at the bookstore on campus. She calls later that day; we talk for a little over 2 hours (yeah I know.....). Have a decent conversation. Two days later, today, I call, but she doesn't pick up, voicemail. I'm not about to call everyday; thats too desperate. I'll call back on monday or tuesday, if she doens't call sooner, maybe sunday, who knows.


The ladies are impossible.

edited the un to im....

Leave it til Sunday. Or mebbe even Sunday the following week.

Or maybe even wait a bit, to see if she calls you. Don't want to do what that other dude did, and freak her out. Don't mention the m word. (marriage) :)
 

aidanjm

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Aug 9, 2004
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Originally posted by: TechnoKid
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
for noobs waiting 2 days is the money but for us old pros we wait 6-7 days and that is the money.

Its either I run into her again at school which hasn't happned since wed, or I'll wait to call her.

:thumbsup:

 

aidanjm

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Aug 9, 2004
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Originally posted by: Nitemare
Maybe I should let her out of the basement...

<random ATOT stalker>"it puts the lotion on its' skin, or else it gets the hose again"

where does that "it puts the lotion on its skin" thing come from?
 

TheLonelyPhoenix

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Feb 15, 2004
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Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Maybe I should let her out of the basement...

<random ATOT stalker>"it puts the lotion on its' skin, or else it gets the hose again"

where does that "it puts the lotion on its skin" thing come from?

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