The importance of Boy Scouts

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Feldenak

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GeekDrew and others, I'm sorry you either had a bad experience with the Scouts or cannot get past some aspect of it you don't like. I know when I was coming up through the ranks there were several homosexual scouts around and it wasn't a big deal to the rest of us.
 

Jawo

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Originally posted by: sjvlad
Eagle Scout as of Jan 5, 2000. Some of my best memories growing up were from Boy Scouts; camping at least once a month, making new friends, learning a lot of things I'd never had experienced otherwise.

I agree that I'm not happy with certain stances they take gays and athiests, but in the 60s they were really struggling, and were propped up by the LDS church. Since then a LOT of Mormons become boy scouts and they exert a lot of influence in it.

I still think it is a fantastic organization, and if I ever have sons, I would definitly encourage them to join.

Couldn't agreee more!! Eagle Scout 2000. I may not remember all my knots, but I really learned about volunteering in the community and emergency first aid for all the stupid stuff I tend to do. Went to Philmont in '97 and had a time of my life, even though it rained most of the days!
 

Feldenak

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Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: GeekDrew
Originally posted by: NFS4
You just don't get it. **Sigh**

Then explain it to us, the many of us, who do not "get it".

How do I explain a concept to someone that doesn't seem willing to accept the benefit of scouting?

I learned about first aid, plants, animals and how to use them to my advantage in the wilderness. I learned about survival skills and how to find my way when lost/seperated from my party. I learned about tieing sp? knots, wood carving, astronomy, learned to become a better swimmer, learned about fire safety, etc. etc. I could go on and on.

In my time in scouts I earned 68 merit badge and achieved Brotherhood in the Order of the Arrow.

My parents were middle-classed folks and they tried to provide the best for me. Even so, they wouldn't have been able to afford all of the trips by themselves that I went on with my Boy Scout Troop (which used funds that the scouts raised to pay for most of the trips and equipment).

We did:

White Water Rafting
Skiing
Repelling
Rock Climbing
Canoeing
Mountain Biking
Numerous hiking and camping trips
Visited historical sites (battlefields, warships, etc)

And it also tought me about self awareness, respect for myself and others, respect for mother nature and one KEY aspect: TEAMWORK.

Wow, you're the first person I've "known" that had more merit badges than me (51). :)
 

BornStar

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I started scouting when it was first opened up to me (2nd grade?) and continued on to get my Eagle Scout in 1999. I learned a lot in the Boy Scouts but my one regret was not joining a troup that was a little more serious about it.
 

0roo0roo

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Originally posted by: thepd7
Originally posted by: 0roo0roo
Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: 0roo0roo
well currently there aren't really any. but in the past many in the south did justify racism with religion. and well not that religion is a valid excuse for bigotry anyways. racism in church has become unacceptable. the same should go for homophobia. until the boyscouts become tolerant its just a deal killer for many people. childrens groups that go on camping trips and such are nothing new after all, just look at germany under hitler, they had plenty of hitler youth camps that promoted many good things. team work, leadership skills, survival, appreciation of the wilderness etc. and well we all know what else they had. so the good doesn't over come the bad in such things.

Wow, I think someone said it best on MSNBC last week. You know that your opponent has run out of meaningful things to say when the Hitler references come out :D

That being said, to tell you the truth, I really don't care what others think about the Boy Scouts or what they do. All I know is that I thought that it was beneficial to me as a youth and when I was going through the scouts NOT ONCE did the issue of race or homosexuality enter the equation.

The rest can do as you please. No skin off my nose.

no, you can't trot out that internet "law", just look into the youth groups during that time and you can see they do have strong parallels. and their strong points did not make up for the evil involved. and it doesn't matter if your troop leader is specifically homophobic, many aren't. i never got a talk about homos in scouts ever. but the simple fact is there is no way to join without supporting the organization and its leadership which is clearly bigoted. there is no joining while flagging yourself as objecting to things. you join, you place yourself on their side and in effect bolster their position. as for being benificial, i think it would be more benificial to be morally/ethically consistent and teach children not to lend support to bigotry in any way. even if its personally no skin off their noses as its another group thats subject to rejection.

By the definitions of bigot at dictionary.com here you are a bigot because you have just as much intolerance for those that think being gay is wrong as they have for gays. Interesting.

if you want to get technical you couldn't be against racists without being a bigot ok? the specific bigotry here is homophobia, and in the boyscouts its not just a belief, its enforced. so stop playing games.
 

Jawo

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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Do they make the adults wear those ridiculous costumes still?

The troop really depends on the Scoutmaster to set the "feeling" and promote the scout values. I was lucky enough to have a really great Scoutmaster who more concentrated on real life skills and not so much on the ridulous complete uniforms, religion, and gay rights. It's kinda like Islam...you will always have a few "wierdos" that are on the fringes of the group and tend to draw enemies that hate the entire group.

I did not ever have the complete uniform and neither did most of the people in the troop.
 

JulesMaximus

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Originally posted by: GeekDrew
Originally posted by: NFS4
Gay bashing? WTH? Are they up on soap boxes preaching against gays? It doesn't really make sense at all.

It's not so much that they run around wearing their uniforms, holding rallies... it's more that the same people that participate in the scouts go to a particular church that is well known for bashing gays, driving them out of town. Those that aren't in the scouts generally aren't as fierce and homophobic as those that are.

Then, of course, there was the time that one of the most respected scout leaders stood up in front of a congregation at church, gathering a round of applause when he publicly made fun of several gay men that had been chased away from the church, and that he would do everything he could to make sure that "the queers" never came around again.

Yeah. I've not been back to that church again, nor have I spoken with anyone that participates in scouts in that area.

I think that's more of an intolerance in Christianity especially in the bible belt areas. Like you said, the scouts in your area largely go to that same church. Idiots...I have no tolerance for the intolerant.
 

lokiju

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Originally posted by: 0roo0roo
oh he gets it. the main skill i retain from boyscouts is the ability to tie a real noose. so if theres a lynchin going down i'm invaluable man.

For some reason I know how to do this also but never attended any kind of Scouts club.

:confused:

 

Jawo

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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: GeekDrew
Originally posted by: NFS4
Gay bashing? WTH? Are they up on soap boxes preaching against gays? It doesn't really make sense at all.

It's not so much that they run around wearing their uniforms, holding rallies... it's more that the same people that participate in the scouts go to a particular church that is well known for bashing gays, driving them out of town. Those that aren't in the scouts generally aren't as fierce and homophobic as those that are.

Then, of course, there was the time that one of the most respected scout leaders stood up in front of a congregation at church, gathering a round of applause when he publicly made fun of several gay men that had been chased away from the church, and that he would do everything he could to make sure that "the queers" never came around again.

Yeah. I've not been back to that church again, nor have I spoken with anyone that participates in scouts in that area.

I think that's more of an intolerance in Christianity especially in the bible belt areas. Like you said, the scouts in your area largely go to that same church. Idiots...I have no tolerance for the intolerant.

Neither do I...I am tolerant of nearly all people reguarless of religion, sexual orientation, or other topics. I may believe in one religion, but I will not promote my religion onto others who are "unsaved" I like to learn about other religions!
 

Alienwho

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I was also in scouts and made it to Eagle. I loved it as well. I would say 50% of my cherished childhood memories are linked to scouts somewhere. We would go cattle driving, cattle branding, canoeing through yellowstone lakes, sitting quiet in our tents as the bears in yellowstone went through the fish guts one of my idiot friends left in our camp, haha.
 

Cruisin1

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Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: NFS4
Fellow Eagle Scout circa '98. I would have missed out on a LOT of trips/experiences/knowledge without the Boy Scouts.

If I have a son, he is DEFINITELY getting into scouts

Couldn't agree more.

If I have sons, their arse is going into scouting. Kicking and screaming.

I will NEVER force my kids into that organization of power hungry fathers... This is coming from an eagle scout. Scouting was the WORST experience of my life.
 

Cruisin1

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Originally posted by: ScottyB
Originally posted by: spidey07
My name is spidey, an eagle scout.

I can honestly say that scouting was one of the best things I ever did with my life and I am thankful that I was a part of it.

This is not a weblog. I only want to express just how GOOD scouting is:

1) I can start a fire anywhere, with just about anything. Yeah, the rumors are true.

I can teach my children this. And do I really want my kids buiding fires everywhere, with anything they find laying around?

2) First Aid - why this isn't taught in schools is beyond my comprehension. Saved two
peoples lives with what I learned from scouting.

Some schools do teach this.

3) Safety - sure playing with dangerous stuff is dangerous but if you learn about it and respect it the danger is minimized.

I can teach my kids this.

4) Drop a good scout out in the middle of nowhere and he'll be just fine, vs. dropping a kid off at a shopping mall. Scout still get's home quicker.

Why are my kids being dropped off in the middle of nowhere?

5) Citizenship - do what is right for your fellow man/women

Such as not allowing homosexuals and athiests to join your organization?

Scouts, It's a great thing to get you child involved in as it teaches/mentors so many good things.


I couldn't agree more with you. Why do you need an "organization" to do what parents SHOULD be doing? Its stupid...
 

pontifex

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i used to be in boy scouts when i was younger. i quit going because they never did anything. i remember my one friend who had moved away was still in scouts for a long time after i had quit. they were always doing stuff, going on trips and all that junk.

guess my group wasn't very well funded or something.
 

NFS4

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Originally posted by: Cruisin1
I couldn't agree more with you. Why do you need an "organization" to do what parents SHOULD be doing? Its stupid...

I guess you don't go to Church and home school your children as well, right?
 

DurocShark

Lifer
Apr 18, 2001
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Scouting has a religious orientation.

When I was a cub scout leader I had to swear I believed in God.

Keep that in mind...
 

Tobolo

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Originally posted by: GeekDrew
Originally posted by: NFS4
Gay bashing? WTH? Are they up on soap boxes preaching against gays? It doesn't really make sense at all.

It's not so much that they run around wearing their uniforms, holding rallies... it's more that the same people that participate in the scouts go to a particular church that is well known for bashing gays, driving them out of town. Those that aren't in the scouts generally aren't as fierce and homophobic as those that are.

Then, of course, there was the time that one of the most respected scout leaders stood up in front of a congregation at church, gathering a round of applause when he publicly made fun of several gay men that had been chased away from the church, and that he would do everything he could to make sure that "the queers" never came around again.

Yeah. I've not been back to that church again, nor have I spoken with anyone that participates in scouts in that area.

That kind of sounds more like a particular community than the scouts doing it. I mean is everyone that was cheering him in scouts?
 

radioouman

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I am an Eagle Scout and a Vigil member in the Order of the Arrow. Scouting was a great way to learn so many valuable principles in life. I had many great experiences in scouting, and I got to influence many young scouts when I worked at scout camp for four years. I wish that I were still involved. :(
 

Tom

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The good Scouting does is more than outweighed by their excluding perfectly good people from participating.

That is not a lesson that makes the world a better place.
 

spidey07

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For some reason I just knew a bunch of bigots would come and poo-poo on a feel good thread.

 

DurocShark

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Originally posted by: spidey07
For some reason I just knew a bunch of bigots would come and poo-poo on a feel good thread.

Bigots?

I'm not the one who said gays aren't allowed.
I'm not the one who said athiests aren't allowed.

Scouts have done both. OFFICIALLY.
 

vi edit

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Former Scout here...never made it to Eagle, only a "Lifer".

I agree that it was a very good program to help build morals, bolster teamwork, and help make you a more rounded and resourceful person.

At the age that most scouts are, they really aren't old enough to really *get* the whole God thing so it's not that big of a deal IMHO. I was raised Catholic and went through all the paces, but have since changed my beliefs after getting older.

The principals are still very good, as are most of the moral teachings. Even being a non-church going person I feel that it is better environment than most others.

Scouts have received a lot of bad publicity and the whole gay thing is really blown out of proportion IMHO. It was never an issue when I was in school and is largely escalated by very outspoken people on BOTH sides of the issue. The vast majority just shrug their shoulders and deal with it when/if it comes up.

The gay/god sensitivity and hysteria is an exception, not the rule.
 

Supermercado

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Another Eagle chiming in. I had a great time going camping and canoeing and to the 1997 Jamboree and all sorts of stuff. Both my brother and I were in Scouts from Tiger Cubs to Eagle Scout. Definitely glad that I did it and if I ever have a son, would encourage him to join, as well.
 

NFS4

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Boy Scouts ban female scouts too (last time I checked). BIGOTS!!!! OMG!! BIGOTS!!!!