The girl i'm seeing is going to Rosarito... This worries me... Should i be?

[WayneTeK]

Ok, the girl i'm seeing right now is going to Rosarito Mexico in 2 weeks. This troubles me because:

#1,it's not that i don't trust her, but i don't trust other guys when alcohol is involved.
#2er group of guy friends, when she was drunk one time, he tried taking her clothes off... she just says, "he was drunk. it's ok.." she forgives him for that.. I don't believe it. I know guys and that guy using this excuse saying he was drunk is ridiculous. I'm worried because he is going too...
#3, when she gets drunk, she gets crazy.. i mean WILD crazy.. all the repressed feelings she is feeling, she lets them out.. e.g. sexual tendencies.

So guys, should I be worried or not? This is driving me crazy.... I pray pray pray she will understand not to get so drunk when other guys are around because guys = vultures... they prey on the weak...

I hate GUYS that are like this... taking advantage of girls.......... >,<

 

[Pacfanweb]

Where exactly is she going to be? I feel a vacation coming on.

 

[Eli]

If my girlfriend was like yours, yes.. I would be worried.

Fortunately, she's not.. so I wouldn't.

However, as easy it is to pin it on the guys, it's still her. All single men are vultures, as you put it. It's up to the women to take control.

If she can't say "No" when she is drunk, then she probably shouldn't be going alone, eh?

 

[WayneTeK]

Oh no you dont!!! :|

 

[MichaelD]

So...she's like 22 years old. Am I close?

Sorry dude. You're at that age (and your GF is too) that broken hearts are a common occurence.

Why are bitter old fvcks like me bitter?

B/C I was once in your shoes.

Welcome to the beginning of your true Life Education.

It's going to be very awkward when she gets back; you SHOULD be wearing a rubber, but you won't b/c you don't now.

I hope you don't catch anything that isn't curable w/a shot to the ass.

Good luck to you.

 

[WayneTeK]

Originally posted by: MichaelD
So...she's like 22 years old. Am I close?

Sorry dude. You're at that age (and your GF is too) that broken hearts are a common occurence.

Why are bitter old fvcks like me bitter?

B/C I was once in your shoes.

Welcome to the beginning of your true Life Education.

It's going to be very awkward when she gets back; you SHOULD be wearing a rubber, but you won't b/c you don't now.

I hope you don't catch anything that isn't curable w/a shot to the ass.

Good luck to you.

you are correct.. 22 yrs old... dood, if she cheats on me, it's over.. i wouldn't want to evven touch her because just thinking of another man going at it with her really breaks my <3.

 

[Eli]

Originally posted by: WayneTeK

Originally posted by: MichaelD
So...she's like 22 years old. Am I close?

Sorry dude. You're at that age (and your GF is too) that broken hearts are a common occurence.

Why are bitter old fvcks like me bitter?

B/C I was once in your shoes.

Welcome to the beginning of your true Life Education.

It's going to be very awkward when she gets back; you SHOULD be wearing a rubber, but you won't b/c you don't now.

I hope you don't catch anything that isn't curable w/a shot to the ass.

Good luck to you.

you are correct.. 22 yrs old... dood, if she cheats on me, it's over.. i wouldn't want to evven touch her because just thinking of another man going at it with her really breaks my <3.

Does she understand? I mean..

Why is she going? Why is she putting herself into this situation?

Being drunk isn't an excuse for anybody. She should be commited enough to you that, nomatter how drunk she is, she can still say "No, I have a boyfriend".

Even my earlier post is the wrong direction. You shouldn't have to babysit her. You can't blame the guys. She still has to spread her legs. So, the truth is that you don't trust her.

Why is she putting herself into this situation?

 

Not to make you feel worse but a good friend of mine was raped in Rosarito (chick).
From the sounds of it, if i were you, id get as much p00ntang as i could before she left then forget about her.

 

[spidey07]

yep, forgone conclusion that she's going to fool around. 'WOOO!! MTV spring break and body shots!!!! woooo!"

that's whay they do, especially when they go on vacation.

good luck with the awkardness when she gets back...the guilt will drive her nuts.

 

[chrissyo4]

Like Eli said, Why is she putting herself in this situation?
Remember, it takes two to tango. Alcohol shouldn't be an excuse.
So to answer your Q, yes, I would be worried.

 

[Eli]

Originally posted by: spidey07
yep, forgone conclusion that she's going to fool around. 'WOOO!! MTV spring break and body shots!!!! woooo!"

that's whay they do, especially when they go on vacation.

good luck with the awkardness when she gets back...the guilt will drive her nuts.

From the way it sounds, I'm kinda doubting that...

It sounds like he is much more commited to her than she is to him.

 

[RagingBITCH]

You should have spent $250+ on her and not held her hand.

 

[Eli]

Originally posted by: RagingBITCH
You should have spent $250+ on her and not held her hand.

 

[isekii]

Originally posted by: RagingBITCH
You should have spent $250+ on her and not held her hand.

lol

 

[thirdlegstump]

Sounds exactly like my EX-GF. Is her name Cindy by any chance? Note: EX-GF....

 

[Imyourzero]

Originally posted by: Eli
Why is she putting herself into this situation?

Because a lot of 22 y/o girls like to party and are willing to go wild at the beach/spring break/Mardi Gras/etc. even if their boyfriends can't be there.

This is why I like dating older women who are settled down and past the partying phase. My last relationship (with a girl my age--24) was severely lacking in trust and communication and I don't need the headaches or the stress of crap like that. My current GF is 29 and we trust each other very much. We know we only want to be with each other and make it clear that we are off-limits to others when we are flirted with. I am going to Jamaica in January and you better bet I'm not going to screw her over just because I'm away to play...

 

[Eli]

Originally posted by: Imyourzero

Originally posted by: Eli
Why is she putting herself into this situation?

Because a lot of 22 y/o girls like to party and are willing to go wild at the beach/spring break/Mardi Gras/etc. even if their boyfriends can't be there.

This is why I like dating older women who are settled down and past the partying phase. My last relationship (with a girl my age--24) was severely lacking in trust and communication and I don't need the headaches or the stress of crap like that. My current GF is 29 and we trust each other very much. We know we only want to be with each other and make it clear that we are off-limits to others when we are flirted with. I am going to Jamaica in January and you better bet I'm not going to screw her over just because I'm away to play...

I agree. It is the same way between my girlfriend and I.

But my girlfriend is 19. I'm 23.

3 years and it's better than ever! Damn, I miss her. She's up visiting her Dad for the month. She returns next weekend.

I should give her a call; she should be pretty pickled about now.. Family BBQ.

 

[RagingBITCH]

Originally posted by: Eli

Originally posted by: RagingBITCH
You should have spent $250+ on her and not held her hand.

Do you not remember the other thread?

 

[Eli]

Originally posted by: RagingBITCH

Originally posted by: Eli

Originally posted by: RagingBITCH
You should have spent $250+ on her and not held her hand.

Do you not remember the other thread?

I guess not.. lol

I probably do, but am not able to tie it in with the OP...

 

[isekii]

Originally posted by: RagingBITCH

Originally posted by: Eli

Originally posted by: RagingBITCH
You should have spent $250+ on her and not held her hand.

Do you not remember the other thread?

"Janet I'm gonna try something........."

 

[Eli]

Originally posted by: isekii

Originally posted by: RagingBITCH

Originally posted by: Eli

Originally posted by: RagingBITCH
You should have spent $250+ on her and not held her hand.

Do you not remember the other thread?

"Janet I'm gonna try something........."

Yeah, I remember that one.. was that a thread by the OP?

And the girl he's talking about is the girl he tried to hold hands with?

LOL........

 

[RagingBITCH]

Originally posted by: Eli

Originally posted by: isekii

Originally posted by: RagingBITCH

Originally posted by: Eli

Originally posted by: RagingBITCH
You should have spent $250+ on her and not held her hand.

Do you not remember the other thread?

"Janet I'm gonna try something........."

Yeah, I remember that one.. was that a thread by the OP?

And the girl he's talking about is the girl he tried to hold hands with?

LOL........

Yep Our good buddy here also claims he's an senior consultant with some university as well as drives a S2K, last I remember him making up.

 

[KarenMarie]

Originally posted by: Eli

However, as easy it is to pin it on the guys, it's still her. All single men are vultures, as you put it. It's up to the women to take control.
*****
Being drunk isn't an excuse for anybody. She should be commited enough to you that, nomatter how drunk she is, she can still say "No, I have a boyfriend".

Even my earlier post is the wrong direction. You shouldn't have to babysit her. You can't blame the guys. She still has to spread her legs. So, the truth is that you don't trust her.
*****
It sounds like he is much more commited to her than she is to him.

100% true, correct and on the money!!

 

[Eli]

Originally posted by: RagingBITCH

Originally posted by: Eli

Originally posted by: isekii

Originally posted by: RagingBITCH

Originally posted by: Eli

Originally posted by: RagingBITCH
You should have spent $250+ on her and not held her hand.

Do you not remember the other thread?

"Janet I'm gonna try something........."

Yeah, I remember that one.. was that a thread by the OP?

And the girl he's talking about is the girl he tried to hold hands with?

LOL........

Yep Our good buddy here also claims he's an senior consultant with some university as well as drives a S2K, last I remember him making up.

They sure "progressed" fast.

It sounds like he's become much more attached than she has.

 

[HappyPuppy]

What a maroon! :roll:

Your "girlfriend" is going to Rosarito to bang as many guys as she can and you still "trust" her. :Q You are her manboy bitch! She owns you!

When she gets back you will be calling her incessantly, begging to see her just so you can lick the ......er.....stuff from her thighs. :thumbsup:

This sounds like the kind of woman I would want to marry and have my children. Yep, sure does.:roll: