That's it, I am moving on, but ...HOW ?

The Linuxator

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Really how do you move on ? After observing myself for a while , it's easier said than done, the reason why I can't take this girl of my mind is because she is the only one that was actually able to enter that area, well to solve the equation I said to myself it's time to let more enter that area, lately I let a couple of my friends introduce me to about half a dozen of girls over this 3-day weekend, so I speant the past 3 days talking to a variety of girls, but as cute and funny as they were, the more I talked to those girls, the more that I realised why I liked the first girl that I used to like and just didn't see any point from the meeting the rest of the girls my friends wanted to introduce me to.

And I think an even more important question is, how do you prevent a previous negative experience from affecting current ones ?
Everytime I see a girl that there might be some nice potential for something happening I just remember my last experience and just retreat before anything starts up, it's just frustrating :(
 

JDrake

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Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Eeezee
Kill the ex. Don't worry, it will work

I am sure it must have worked for you , I will not question you I will just have to take you word for it I guess.
It does work...
 

Skunkwourk

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Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Come on guys, some serious answers here ?

hmm, you need to think clearly and make up your mind when you act. Seems like you liked her, then hated her, and now you like her again.
 

EyeMWing

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This is something you can only answer for yourself. Perhaps it's time for a bigger overall change to give yourself a clear division between "now" and "then". That's what worked for me - went off to college, bam, out of nowhere, it's easier to forget the past. And here I am now, with a much healthier, much more fun relationship than I ever had before. Maybe, for you, it's time to install Microsoft products?
 

loup garou

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Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Zaitsevs
well, how did you two break up?

Let's say we were never together to begin with we were just playing a little match of mind games ;)
Translation: I'm a stalker who's been served a restraining order.