I totally agree what's wrong with that picture; I just don't see a more practical solution. We have no way to verify whether a welfare mother feeds her kids other than by a very expensive and dehumanizing virtual enema for each of them, so if we don't feed them they simply won't get fed and we won't know it. I'm all for ripping children away from parents who are so trifling that they can't even be bothered to feed them if we provide the money for the food, but I can't think of a system I'd support which could identify these parents among the much larger welfare/food stamp/low income parent population. You can't use participation in the program, because then you get the people who have car repairs that month, or some other expense that exceeds their means, as well as those parents needy and otherwise who are simply showing up for the socialization (i.e. my kids like it) and after busting a few of the true deadbeats, those parents who won't feed their own children will simply go back to not feeding them at home. "Hungry child, no threat to Momma" is a lot different from the father who is desperately trying to repair his car to keep that minimum wage job, or the single mother who is thanking G-d she can now spend some of that food stamp money on Janie's OTC allergy medicine or afford that pizza party Johny wants to throw just like his friends. How do you separate out those horrible individuals from those desperate folk who would sacrifice to make sure their children are fed, but are taking advantage of this program to fill other pressing needs? I don't think it's possible even for people much smarter than I to create such a discriminating system which costs less than the feeding. Especially not in our federal government which operates everything like a sledgehammer even when a scalpel is needed.
The NEED for such a program pisses me off greatly. The program itself is probably the most sane solution to the problem, even though it flies directly in the face of my ideals. But ideals so rigid as to allow hungry American children are not a good thing. I'd say that allowing these parents to spend what we give them for their children on themselves instead is a lesser evil than allowing their children to go unfed.
Hey, at the least it's getting them out of the house and mixing with other children in a safe environment. That's got to be worth something too.