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Taking a chick out just as friends.

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platinumike

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MY friend Paul works at starbucks, I met his co-worker, and us 3 kicked back a few times and chilled. Only thing is, my friend wont be at work today, and says he has plans tonite, so... That leaves me with nothing to do tonite, i figured im gonna get so bored that I'll just go into sbux, and ask if she wants to do anything. Only problem is, me asking her 1 on 1 will give her an indication that i wanna make it a date. How should i go about doing this? and what should we go do? a movie maybe? keep in mind alcohol is outa the question.
 
just ask her ....
I have 3 girls that are just very close friends...
we just go out ride motorcycles... go get coffee play pool karaoke etc etc etc...
just treat her like one of the guys...

the minute you start planning and wondering it is a date...
friends dont worry about that crap they just do...
 
Nah, this isnt a question of testicular density. MY balls are grown and quite large, I just dont wanna give her the wrong idea, and dont wanna take her out and she considers it a date.
 
its a date if you want it to be. the way you act and do stuff will prolly keep her in the right. unless she's in lust (love?)
 
Originally posted by: platinumike
Nah, this isnt a question of testicular density. MY balls are grown and quite large, I just dont wanna give her the wrong idea, and dont wanna take her out and she considers it a date.
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Ask if she wants to do something tonight cause you're gonna be bored as sh!t. It tells her you only want to hang out cause you're bored. Then say... I'm glad we're friends. Then punch her in the uterus. (Just like one of the guys)
 
Originally posted by: Quasmo
Ask if she wants to do something tonight cause you're gonna be bored as sh!t. It tells her you only want to hang out cause you're bored. Then say... I'm glad we're friends. Then punch her in the uterus. (Just like one of the guys)
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:laugh:
 
Originally posted by: platinumike
Nah, this isnt a question of testicular density. MY balls are grown and quite large, I just dont wanna give her the wrong idea, and dont wanna take her out and she considers it a date.
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So then tell her it's not a date, but if she wants to go out to hang out, then she is welcome to.

You're giving me the impression that you don't want her to think it's a date, even though it is. Otherwise you wouldn't be acting so cautious about wrong intentions. If you two aren't friends enough for you to approach her to hang out, then maybe you should just avoid the 1-on-1 scenario altogether?
 
Originally posted by: mordantmonkey
Originally posted by: Quasmo
Ask if she wants to do something tonight cause you're gonna be bored as sh!t. It tells her you only want to hang out cause you're bored. Then say... I'm glad we're friends. Then punch her in the uterus. (Just like one of the guys)
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lol i'm dying right now.
 
Just say... "Hey, I was really wanting to go watch a movie tonight. I found that (insert that guys name) had other plans, so I figure I would ask if you would like to go instead."
 
Specifically ask her: "Hey, you wanna hang out tonight? Most of my other FRIENDS (key word) are busy." Word it like that. Works every time 😉
 
Don't burp in her face, fart, hog the chips, make armpit fart noises, play 'punch buggy', or something stuipd like that.
 
Don't be worried about what she thinks, that normally isn't the problem.

Be worried about what your friends and acquaintances would think. Thats where things get sticky.
 
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