Stupid Family STuff

[kgokal]

<RANT>
So basically my cousin goes off an marries some dude from a different background, in another state. Family doesnt invite any one else to wedding because they maybe ashamed of the guy?
So just the other day my cousin emails my mother, accusing her of spreading rumors that she married because she got knocked up. We didnt even know she was preggers! Moms extremely distraught about the email and nerve of her to accuse her. I retaliate and email/call the cuz numerous times. She doesnt respond or answer.

I tell mom to go to said cuz' parents and inform them of their childs disrespect. Mom wont go says it wont help, they will ignore and not answer door! What does the almighty ATOT think?
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[Beev]

I think you should 100% ignore said cousin. Cut off all contact with the worthless piece of trash.

 

[CPA]

1.5/10 rant.

 

[Anubis]

you could just like let it go

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: Anubis
you could just like let it go

but...but...they'll lose the respect of the trailer park!

 

[OutHouse]

stay out of it.

crap like this is why i have a wall up and keep to myself. I do not involve myself in drama like this, it does me no good or anybody else. I have and i hope you have more important stuff to worry about. move on and just forget it.

 

[jandrews]

who gives a crap, personally I would just ignore that situation and move on with my life. Then again I dont spend much time my relatives anyway because I dont really care for them.

 

[nakedfrog]

Ignore it and go on about your business as normal.

 

[D1gger]

Crap like this is why I have almost no contact with my family. I choose to associate with people I like and respect, not people that cause grief.

 

[crystal]

Asian?

 

[AmpedSilence]

Honestly, it's your cousin. Unless you are a crazy tight family, i would say forget about it and move on. If this were your brother or sister, then i might be more inclined to say something.

 

[MattCo]

Originally posted by: kgokal
Family doesnt invite any one else to wedding because they maybe ashamed of the guy

Sounds like neither side is being rational.

 

[Chryso]

Don't make a liar out of your cousin. Start some rumors.

 

[Gibson486]

I stay out of all family problems, including ones that involve closest family. You should do the same.

 

[Vonkhan]

"different background"

lemme guess - you're Indian

 

[kgokal]

lol, yup we are indian. Damn the cast system to hell!
I can 100% ignore it, if i could only convince my mom to!

 

[theknight571]

Mau-ry....Mau-ry....Mau-ry

j/k

I agree with the ignore it / let it go option.

What is the cast system? If you don't mind me asking... I suppose I could google it... maybe later... it's lunch time.

 

[crystal]

Originally posted by: theknight571
Mau-ry....Mau-ry....Mau-ry

j/k

I agree with the ignore it / let it go option.

What is the cast system? If you don't mind me asking... I suppose I could google it... maybe later... it's lunch time.

Basically it means - try to marry into a richer family not poorer one.


trader, farmer, royalty, etc. etc. and you should only trader <-> trader and trader <!>farmer.

 

[Felisity]

Shouldn't this be in the Love and Relationships forum ? Since family stuff is about relationships? Just a thought.

For a minute, I did a double take thinking I accidentally clicked into L&R