Study: Women may fake orgasm simply because they want it to end as soon as possible.

[Analog]

It is news that will undoubtedly be met with great scepticism by the fairer sex.
But scientists claim the real reason why women fake orgasms in bed is because they are riddled with insecurities and have a fear of intimacy.

While 60 per cent of women claim to have faked ecstasy during intercourse or oral sex, researchers believe this has little to do with protecting their partner's sensitive feelings.

Instead, according to a study, many girls pretend to climax due to their own fear of intimacy; or because they feel insecure about how their bodies react during intercourse; or simply because they want it to end as soon as possible.




Lead researcher Erin Cooper, of Temple University in Pennsylvania, told LiveScience: 'This is something that we talk about happening in popular culture, in the movies and magazines.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencet...asm-insecure-fear-intimacy.html#ixzz1OgSIv4hb
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[Cogman]

How can you "study" this?

 

[shortylickens]

When she's screaming herself hoarse and sweating bullets I stop wondering. Even better indicator is if she lays there for 15 minutes and wont let anyone touch her.

 

[Texashiker]

But scientists claim the real reason why women fake orgasms in bed is because they are riddled with insecurities and have a fear of intimacy.

Yep, that is something I have seen first hand.

I have known women that had serious hangups about sex. They were told all their life that sex was nasty, gross, and something you only do to please the man.

Once someone is programmed to think a certain way, that programming does not go away overnight.

I think a lot of it has to do with the religious right, and their attempts to scare girls into not having sex before marriage.

 

[dud]

No!

This is shocking news!!!

 

[highland145]

How can you "study" this?

Where can I sign up to study this?

 

[Wyndru]

This didn't require a study, I think most men with half a brain already knew this.

 

[DesiPower]

Atleast its in UK... I for one would have hated to see my tax dollars wasted another crappy "research"

 

[Bignate603]

Atleast its in UK... I for one would have hated to see my tax dollars wasted another crappy "research"

Lead researcher Erin Cooper, of Temple University in Pennsylvania

Research wasn't done in the UK.

 

[actuarial]

When she's screaming herself hoarse and sweating bullets I stop wondering. Even better indicator is if she lays there for 15 minutes and wont let anyone touch her.

Is there usually more than one person around afterwards?

But yeah, it's pretty obvious when a girl has an orgasm in my experience, especially afterwards.

 

[SagaLore]

When she's screaming herself hoarse and sweating bullets I stop wondering. Even better indicator is if she lays there for 15 minutes and wont let anyone touch her.

Uh, maybe that's because she's in so much incredible pain from that "technique" you tried. :hmm:

 

[CVSiN]

Yep, that is something I have seen first hand.

I have known women that had serious hangups about sex. They were told all their life that sex was nasty, gross, and something you only do to please the man.

Once someone is programmed to think a certain way, that programming does not go away overnight.

I think a lot of it has to do with the religious right, and their attempts to scare girls into not having sex before marriage.

and this is why I date women that love sex.. tired of the religious programming this country programs into people.

give me the slutty chick any day.. at least they are more fun =P
you can keep the goodie 2 shoes church girls.. I don't want one.

 

[Wyndru]

Sure, slutty chicks might be more fun...at the risk of them willing to do it with way more people though. In my experience slutty chicks are either the cheating type, or just plain crazy.

 

[Whisper]

and this is why I date women that love sex.. tired of the religious programming this country programs into people.

give me the slutty chick any day.. at least they are more fun =P
you can keep the goodie 2 shoes church girls.. I don't want one.

I don't know that it's so much the "religious programming" as it is the general sense of insecurity and dissastification many women have with their body/body image. I've known quite a few women who appeared very confident in most situations, but when it came to sex, they would feel very uncomfortable being nude or would stop themselves short of having an orgasm simply because they were embarassed.

 

[JulesMaximus]

When she's screaming herself hoarse and sweating bullets I stop wondering. Even better indicator is if she lays there for 15 minutes and wont let anyone touch her.

So, you married a porn star?

 

[Jeeebus]

I orgasm 100% of the time. Not really seeing the problem here.

 

[FDF12389]

I orgasm 100% of the time. Not really seeing the problem here.

:thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup:

 

[BTA]

When she's screaming herself hoarse and sweating bullets I stop wondering. Even better indicator is if she lays there for 15 minutes and wont let anyone touch her.

Sounds like you are describing a rape scene.

Especially with the anyone part.

 

[JohnOfSheffield]

When she's screaming herself hoarse and sweating bullets I stop wondering. Even better indicator is if she lays there for 15 minutes and wont let anyone touch her.

It REALLY isn't, it's just overplaying, perhaps they feel sorry for you since you have such an extremely small dick?

 

[mmntech]

How can you "study" this?

There's an ATOT, or Trident joke in here somewhere. ^_^

 

[Avalon]

It REALLY isn't, it's just overplaying, perhaps they feel sorry for you since you have such an extremely small dick?

Why were you looking at his dick?

 

[Macamus Prime]

Increased heart beat, sweat & trembling are all signs that she has finished. If you don't get that, she is faking it.

 

[rasczak]

and this is new because?

 

[JohnOfSheffield]

Why were you looking at his dick?

He has explained a multitude of time how small of a dick he has, one does not have to watch it to know it, one only has to be able to read.

 

[JohnOfSheffield]

Increased heart beat, sweat & trembling are all signs that she has finished. If you don't get that, she is faking it.

Anyone can fake that too, it's as simple as holding your breath and tensing up which is what any woman would do to fake it.

So faking would produce just exactly those results.

If she wants to fake it and you are willing to please her, let her, it's that fucking simple.