Sad to hear about your broken cpu and mobo. First time I've heard about the mobo being broken too, I'm used to cracked cores (hearing about 'em, have installed more than 20 T-birds myself without a shim and never cracked one, must be lucky).
The cooler sounded very promising, I can understand why you got one. At least you were one of the first to try using that type of cooler. That's a pretty serious design flaw, wonder if they did not test it.
May your cpu and mobo rest in peace.