Ya know, I read threads like this and I realize how chain stores and government agencies lose so much customer data via simple network hacks.
In the event somebody outside your network is trying to hack your box two conditions exist; (1) they already know you are there and what your static IP is, and from that they can deduce what they need (2) it's a bot / malware running an a search algorithm via brute force.
In either condition, nobody gives a sh_t if your ports are stealth or not. Ironically the only time the condition is verified is when you check an outside service (or read amatuer security sites like GRC). My opinion is that 'stealth' ports and not respondiong to a basic ping is like turning your porch light off to try and hide your house from a burglar. If you are on the internet, you have an IP address and you have ports.
Also, the potential attacks coming from outside *aren't* attacking your firewall (except in some very rare instances). The vulnerability is the *applications and OS services* listening to those ports. If those layers are blocked from the internal or external side, and/or patched sufficiently, I could care less if a port says 'f-off' to an automated bot or doesn't respond at all.
If you want to have some fun sometime get a good firewall that shows realtime connection attempts and set up some 'honey pots' like a fake open port 25 relay, or unpatched windows web server. Watch the bot nets swarm to you like crazy and look up the countries of origin of the IPs.