Someone help me make sense of this...

[mztykal]

...right when I thought my life was going fine. It crumbles. Right when I thought everything was going good again with my g/f, she throws the past in my face. Right when I thought I had my future planned out, the plans fade away.

No matter how good my life gets, it's ruined the next.

And the funny thing is, no matter how hard I try, and no matter how far I run, I never get far.

 

[HappyPuppy]

Welcome to the real world, but don't let it get you down. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other.

Oh, another thing, any time you think you have it made in the shade watch out for a gigantic boulder to fall on your head. That's just life.

 

[Moonbeam]

There is a profound unconscious need to sabotage our happiness because inwardly we don't think we deserve it.

 

[mztykal]

For some reason it's not me thinking I don't deserve it, nor sabotaging myself. It's my g/f saying I don't deserve it and dragging me down...

 

[John]

There's plenty of fish in the sea.

 

[mztykal]

Originally posted by: John
There's plenty of fish in the sea.

My friends have been telling me this forever. But I can't let go...

 

[HappyPuppy]

Had I known your problem earlier I would have told you to just dump the b|tch. Don't ever let a woman bring you down. You are better than that.

 

[Chilled&Refined]

Originally posted by: HappyPuppy
Don't ever let a woman bring you down.

funny how u say that
That was my granpa's famous words
"dont ever let a women bring u down and u will have a happy life"
Words to live by

 

[mztykal]

For the long version of my original post, please check my "rant" site at...

http://www.endless-confusion.com

Thanks for all the replies.

 

[Muadib]

How long ago was this one time?

 

[mztykal]

About 30 minutes ago.

 

[Muadib]

Heh, OK. But you were the one who F'ed up. Be it 30 minutes, or 30 years, to her it's now, and buying her all the sh%$ in the world aint gonna change that. It takes time to earn trust again, lots of it. Only you can decide if she's worth it.

 

[tcsenter]

Welcome to the real world, but don't let it get you down. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other.

Exactly. You keep pluggin onward, one foot in front of the other.

It never hurts to take an inventory of your life's decisions to see whether you're on the right track or if you're somehow using counterproductive judgement, thoughts, behaviors, expectations, perceptions, etc.

As for your G/F, if you think that doing and saying all the right things will produce a desired response from another human being, I got news for you. They have their own will, their own thoughts, their own wants, needs, desires, and many times, their own agenda. People can only be cajoled for purposes of short term expediency.

 

[Koing]

dump the girl and you will be alrighit............

 

[BD231]

Originally posted by: mztykal
...right when I thought my life was going fine. It crumbles. Right when I thought everything was going good again with my g/f, she throws the past in my face. Right when I thought I had my future planned out, the plans fade away.

No matter how good my life gets, it's ruined the next.

And the funny thing is, no matter how hard I try, and no matter how far I run, I never get far.

You just described life man, it's a very sad truth but sh*t happens, day in, day out.