Someone explain something to me.... my ex calls me up last night..

[phatcow]

and tells me that she hates me... what should i do...

 

[Viper GTS]

Say "thank you," & go about your business. Why do you care if he/she/it hates you?

BTW, if he/she/it falls into the "it" category, you need help.

Viper GTS

 

[Yeeny]

Well, I would have said something to the effect of "Ah yes, now I remember why your my ex." and hung up. But thats just me.

 

[TheAvenger]

"Ah yes, now I remember why your my ex."

GirlFriday- Thats really funny, was thinking something along those lines but nothing that funny..

 

[DAM]

<< and tells me that she hates me... what should i do... >>




do you want something with this x of yours? if you want to keep the friendship or maybe rekindle the romance, perhaps you should call her back and tell her how he call made you feel, or what was wrong? perhaps she is having problems and projecting them onto you.


if you dont give a damn about her ass, then just block her number.

dam()

 

[phatcow]

See.. i dunno... i mean.. i dont want to cut her off, but then i dont wanna take this crap.


for anyone that has time, read my aa pageclick here

it has basically what she told me yesterday and a conversation her and i had..

 

[Russ]

<< and tells me that she hates me... >>



Translation....

I'm still desperately in love with you. Get over here now, and give me some of that phatcow lovin'!

Russ, NCNE

 

[DAM]

<<

<< and tells me that she hates me... >>



Translation....

I'm still desperately in love with you. Get over here now, so I can cut off your manhood!

Russ, NCNE >>





dam(either way)

 

[Russ]

DAM,

That would be &quot;boyhood&quot;.

Russ, NCNE

 

[Killbat]

 

[DAM]

<< DAM,

That would be &quot;boyhood&quot;.

Russ, NCNE >>





LOL, ouch talk about a low blow.




dam()

 

[db]

Sounds like a common case of a manipulator and someone who is too sensitive (to his own detriment).

 

[GL]

Next time she calls, very quietly put the phone down and wander off. She'll go nuts talking but not getting an answer. She's just pissed she no longer has control of the relationship. Let me guess. She had you wrapped around her finger?

 

[Muadib]

OUCH! You don't beat around the bush, do you Russ?

phatcow
Does she have a reason to hate you? Why did you break it off?

 

[Mday]

call her, and say, &quot;my ass itches&quot; and hang up

 

[phatcow]

she told me that she expected her to whoop me.. (to be her slave and what not)

that did not happen

 

[phatcow]

I broke it off because she whined and bitched about small petty stuff

 

[db]

phatcow, you have two options:
1. ignore her
2. play games.
3. ok, there's 3 options. You could be crazy and go back with her. A big mistake.

#1 is both the worst and best thing you could do. Why? B/c it's honest real-world feedback for her behavior.
#2 which I don't recommend b/c then you are like her: since she knows how you react, she expects certain responces from you when she says certain things. If you want to be a game-playing a$$hole, give her a responce that she would not expect.
#3 you will be sorry and go thru all this again, possibly no smarter.