IronWing
No Lifer
- Jul 20, 2001
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He stated he isn't comfortable driving with lots of passengers. How u gonna feel when your peer pressure drives him to drive and he kills all those people?
PottedMeat
Lifer
- Apr 17, 2002
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spaceman
Lifer
- Dec 4, 2000
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Chaotic42
Lifer
- Jun 15, 2001
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Well the OP could be 20 and the other guy could be 19. That's not weird. Anyway, it's your car. If you don't want to drive a bunch of people, that's your prerogative. If someone wants to let that ruin your friendship, I'd argue that you weren't really friends anyway. Let him be pissed.
Maximilian
Lifer
- Feb 8, 2004
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Three options:
- Drive your goddamn friends and stop complaining <- the suck it up and deal with it option
- Be a whiny bitch and "exclude" the guy <- the female option
- Drive your goddamn friends, halfway through the trip pull over and throw the one you don't like out, drop the rest of your friends off <- the real man option
- Drive your goddamn friends and stop complaining <- the suck it up and deal with it option
- Be a whiny bitch and "exclude" the guy <- the female option
- Drive your goddamn friends, halfway through the trip pull over and throw the one you don't like out, drop the rest of your friends off <- the real man option
Chaotic42
Lifer
- Jun 15, 2001
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Mixolydian
Lifer
Capt Caveman
Lifer
- Jan 30, 2005
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When you lose your car, you find out who your real friends are.
:biggrin::biggrin::biggrin:
PS. They are using you for your car....
:biggrin::biggrin::biggrin:
PS. They are using you for your car....
W.C. Nimoy
Senior member
- Apr 7, 2013
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Your deadbeat friends are in the wrong. It's your car and if the guy doesn't like it then he can find gainful employment and buy his own.
xanis
Lifer
- Sep 11, 2005
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No one should ever complain about you driving (or not), since none of them have cars and none of them can even drive. If they want more freedom with transportation, tell them that they're welcome to get their own cars and drive themselves to future events.
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JTsyo
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- Nov 18, 2007
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HeXen
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- Dec 13, 2009
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Selfish is having to rely on other people for your wants and needs and expecting them to say yes all the time. Favors are one thing when it's returnable, but you have to know where to draw the line with people.
OP situation is not a favor and doesn't sound like the other guy would probably ever drive him around at his whim wither.
Murloc
Diamond Member
- Jun 24, 2008
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it's really stupid that he's getting angry over this since there is public transportation to go there. He's using you.
Also how comes no one has a driving license and can't borrow their parents car? Jeez, I thought getting a license was the top priority for any 18 years old.
Just go with them on public transportation and not your car though because that would be stupid and look egoistical.
If you want to go there by car, carry them all and suck it up about your "friend".
The not being comfortable thing can be solved if they aren't a-holes and understand that you need to focus. Just stop and act psycho if they're noisy.
Make them pay for the added gas expense due to their weight and for the favor (since they can't return it because they're deadbeats), e.g. by paying for your entrance or a drink at whatever place you're going to.
If they can't be mature about it, then Vdub is probably right.
Also how comes no one has a driving license and can't borrow their parents car? Jeez, I thought getting a license was the top priority for any 18 years old.
Just go with them on public transportation and not your car though because that would be stupid and look egoistical.
If you want to go there by car, carry them all and suck it up about your "friend".
The not being comfortable thing can be solved if they aren't a-holes and understand that you need to focus. Just stop and act psycho if they're noisy.
Make them pay for the added gas expense due to their weight and for the favor (since they can't return it because they're deadbeats), e.g. by paying for your entrance or a drink at whatever place you're going to.
If they can't be mature about it, then Vdub is probably right.
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