so... who wears the pants in your relationship? you or your gf(bf)?

LOLyourFace

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My gf is passive-aggressive and I'm direct-aggressive.

I'm usually the one making calls and expressing my opinions outloud (with manner). I consider myself a leader in many group situations. (I currently 'lead' 3 group assignments + sunday school teacher + campus ministry teacher among peers). I usually plan where we go out, what we do, etc...

but I gotta tell you.. i think my gf wears the pants when it comes to more serious things.. she gets very focused when it comes to her priorities and she can get very aggressive about it. And what's more scary is that as being passive-aggressive, her indirect leadership is more intense then how i am.

when she's set in what she wants to do, I usually just... whimper.. what a crazy biach.. :X

so here i am, I stand before you, admitting that my gf wears the pants...

:(
 

amnesiac

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WHat is it with these YAGT posters and not having any balls? Are there REALLY that many eunuchs running around these days or does ATOT somehow collect them as a ship collects barnacles?

Seriously dude, if you let your g/f walk all over you -- with a passive-agressive attitude, no less, then you have issues. I see a very happy* future for you.

*miserable


In my relationship, both my g/f and I delegate things 50/50. Though I hate making decisions. She's having me get better at that, however.
If we fight, it's usually over a misunderstanding or something stupid, and we have never stayed mad for more than a few hours.
 

EyeMWing

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She does. She also took possession of my testicles. ATOT: Home of the submissive twits.
 

Yax

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Originally posted by: LOLyourFace
My gf is passive-aggressive and I'm direct-aggressive.

I'm usually the one making calls and expressing my opinions outloud (with manner). I consider myself a leader in many group situations. (I currently 'lead' 3 group assignments + sunday school teacher + campus ministry teacher among peers). I usually plan where we go out, what we do, etc...

but I gotta tell you.. i think my gf wears the pants when it comes to more serious things.. she gets very focused when it comes to her priorities and she can get very aggressive about it. And what's more scary is that as being passive-aggressive, her indirect leadership is more intense then how i am.

when she's set in what she wants to do, I usually just... whimper.. what a crazy biach.. :X

so here i am, I stand before you, admitting that my gf wears the pants...

:(

You're agressive that's why you have a gf, you let her wear the pants, that's why she'll leave you.
 

isaacmacdonald

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I'm passive aggressive. Or at least I used to be. My gf is even more passive aggressive (and asian, which may or may not be complementary), which has driven me to be more outspoken than I would like to be. I'm wearing the pants, though I wouldn't mind abdicating :D
 

JoLLyRoGer

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We're both pretty strong willed people. We generally make a lot of compromises so I'd say we share our pants...;)