So...what should I do in this situation

[Burnt]

I went up to this girl after my history class and started talking to her (that was a first), well...I asked for her number and she didn't want to give it to me because her boyfriend had just broken up with her a week ago. So I apoligized (for some reason) and said that I would maybe talk to her sometime in class. Should I just ask if I can sit next to her next time in class? My class is pretty big and I always sat across the room from her. Would that be bad (as in pestering)?

 

[notfred]

normally "mind if I sit here" isn't bad, but she did refuse to give you her phone # already. I say ask, and if she says no, then back off for a month or so and try again. Then if she says no again, give up, she doesn't like you.

However, if she says yes, good for you

 

[pyonir]

sit where you always sit. she didn't want to give it to you....and she used the BF thing as an excuse. accept it and don't bother her again.

 

[Pepsei]

yes, you loose, thanks for playing...



try someone else, more fishes in the sea......

 

[StageLeft]

I'd probably give up. Chances of successful catch in this situation are bordering around the .8% range now. You didn't ask her to marry you. You asked for number and she said no

 

[Hammer]

That was a polite way of saying No. She's not interested.



<< I went up to this girl after my history class and started talking to her (that was a first), well...I asked for her number and she didn't want to give it to me because her boyfriend had just broken up with her a week ago. So I apoligized (for some reason) and said that I would maybe talk to her sometime in class. Should I just ask if I can sit next to her next time in class? My class is pretty big and I always sat across the room from her. Would that be bad (as in pestering)? >>

 

[notfred]

wow, I'm the only person who recomends a second try.....

 

[MichaelD]

<< sit where you always sit. she didn't want to give it to you....and she used the BF thing as an excuse. accept it and don't bother her again >>



Dingdingdingdingdingding!!!!!!! He wins the prize! That is your answer, Burnt. At least she was nice about it. She could have said "*rollseyes*I'd never date anyone like you...shoot, you don't even drive a Corvette!" Or words to that effect.

I asked a girl out back in highschool (early 1980's) she said "Go out with you? *snicker* You drive a Chevy Nova!" And she turned and walked away. Now THAT is a slap.

 

[Burnt]

yeah, well I guess I can't complain...it's most likely true. god damn it

 

[Pastfinder]

I'd try another. Then if that fails, try her again!

 

[Pepsei]

get a pic next time before you ask.

so we can add stuff like, "dang, she's skanky, you should be glad she didn't give you the number"

 

[cipher00]

You were lucky: she was nice about it. Time to move on.

 

[SCSIfreek]

when you're young trying never hurts, but when its time to settle down don't go for games or second guess.


--SCsi

 

[pyonir]

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<< sit where you always sit. she didn't want to give it to you....and she used the BF thing as an excuse. accept it and don't bother her again >>



Dingdingdingdingdingding!!!!!!! He wins the prize! That is your answer, Burnt. At least she was nice about it. She could have said "*rollseyes*I'd never date anyone like you...shoot, you don't even drive a Corvette!" Or words to that effect.q]

SOOOOOO....ummm what do i win??

 

[AreaCode707]

It does sound like she turned you down nicely. I'd say just be okay with that - if she's willing to get to know you better later on, she knows you're interested and she'll approach you, but it's not likely. Any other prospects for a Friday night date you can look up?