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So today i was offended at our work christmas party

sao123

Lifer
so every year our unit of about 15 people have a christmas party on the wednesday b4 christmas. Everyone cooks and brings in an item of your choise.
So last night, I spent about 3-4 hours making this excellent pot of broccoli/cheese soup, and baked fresh french bread baguettes.
I made everything completely from scratch with all fresh ingredients. Several people sampled it after it was done and said how excellent it was.

however at the party today, only 2 people out of 15 (besides me) even attempted to try it. I know this, because its easy to see how many people took styrofoam bowls. 1 of those 2 also told me how excellent the soup was... but I took 90% of what i made back home with me. Nearly all of everythign else that was brought in was completely gone.

fvck that party next year... bunch of ungrateful losers.




My responses...
1)It was a sitdown buffet style dinner. Granted the soup did require an auxillary bowl to eat, but it wasnt out of the ordinary with anythign else served... turkey stuffed with roasted red peppers, mini hot dogs in bourbon sauce new orleans style, pasta salad, etc. the only finger food was pumpernickel bread with spinach dip. What i found most insulting was that nearly every other item was 90-100% consumed adn the soup and bread was almost completely untouched.

2)I admit some people dont like broccoli. Everything there had cheese in some form in it. But i find it difficult to believe that 13 out of 15 people dont like broccoli.

3)The reason why partially im offended maybe due to the fact that that office has done this b4 to another employee. After seeing how this one lady had a lot of cats, no one would eat her dishes for fear of cat hair being a primary ingredient in her dish. understandably. (she has now been delegated to bring pop and cups - sealed items to the party) But i have no such cleanlyness problems, (I wash after I pee, etc) btu start to wonder if there is another rumor spreading about me im unaware of.

4)here is the recipe...

Wash and cut 2 fresh broccoli trees. Keep the trunk whole, but chop the ends up as chunky or large as you want.

In a large pot place 1/2 stick of margarin and melt it. Add 1/2 cup of flour and stir in completely. fry the butter/flour mixture for 4 minutes stirring continually to avoid sticking to the bottom.

Add 1 quart of half and half (milk/creme)and stir until the flour/butter mixture is dissolved.

Add 4 cups of chicken broth made from chicken soup base powder or boullion.
This is called making a rue. Season moderatley with pepper, onion powder, salt, and garlic.

Place the 2 whole broccoli trunks in the rue, bring to a boil and then lower heat. Slow simmer for 25 minutes constantly stirring.

Add all the chopped broccoli and 2 cups of large cut shredded carrots. Cook over medium heat for 20 minutes, still stirring. (the hardest thing about creme soups is to prevent the bottom from burning, requiring constant stirring.)

Remove the broccoli trunks (they were mostly for flavor)

Finally add 1 16 ounce pkg of shredded mild cheddar, and 1 16ounce pkg of shredded colbyjack. Add 1.5 tblspoon of ground nutmeg (more or less to taste.) and cook for 10 more minutes until creamy.

Serve with frenchbread slices. This recipe usually serves 4-6 people

Any leftovers will thicken over night in the refridgerator, so add milk when you re-heat.

 
Maybe it just didn't look appealing, who knows. Depends on the type of party, and what else was on the table, perhaps it was too much of a dish, the party was more light-fare?
 
don't feel bad man. i would have tried some myself. but most people don't like broccoli, and people will think that those are regular bread.

:beer: to you for knowing how to and spend the effort to make bread from scratch.
 
You are overreacting. Dishes that seem to work best at these potluck parties are the ones that are easily grabbable so you can sample the dish. You can't just take soup and throw some on the big plate that you're walking around with. Soup would require putting down that big plate, to grab. As such, it probably wasn't worth the effort to many people. Don't take offense to it tho'.
 
You were offended by that?

Since the principle ingrediants were brocolli and cheese, you should probalby be grateful your office didn't indulge too much in it. Crop-dusting FTL!
 
No need to take offense, but every party has that dish that is the "least eaten." This year it was yours.

Next year try not taking a soup, since that's more difficult to eat at a pot luck.
 
Originally posted by: cKGunslinger
You were offended by that?

Since the principle ingrediants were brocolli and cheese, you should probalby be grateful your office didn't indulge too much in it. Crop-dusting FTL!

That's what I was thinking.

Although I'd be a little disappointed that not more people tried it, I don't think I'd be offended.

I usually bring cookies. 🙂 Since my cookies are fameous at work. (Not really sure why..but they make a big deal out of 'em)

- TK
 
You're definitely over-reacting. It's nothing personal. I'm sure it was good - and in fact, you did get complimented on it - but people are going to eat what they want. Was it a sit-down deal or a walking around type event? Even if people sit down, if it's a buffet type serving arrangement it can be tough to balance a bowl of soup.

I personally like broccoli and cheese soup but I probably wouldn't grab some in that type of situation out of fear I'd spill it.
 
Originally posted by: Eeezee
No need to take offense, but every party has that dish that is the "least eaten." This year it was yours.

Next year try not taking a soup, since that's more difficult to eat at a pot luck.

agree.

Soups are not a pot luck kind of thing...too much effort and no chance to mingle and eat it at the same time.
 
Originally posted by: isasir
You are overreacting. Dishes that seem to work best at these potluck parties are the ones that are easily grabbable so you can sample the dish. You can't just take soup and throw some on the big plate that you're walking around with. Soup would require putting down that big plate, to grab. As such, it probably wasn't worth the effort to many people. Don't take offense to it tho'.

Winnar. I love cheese/brocolli soup, but at an office party, I wouldn't make the effort to have some, not when there are other easily accessible food items around.
 
I don't risk eating foods at buffet styl;e work functions that I might spill onto my clothing.Also, brocoli is a great food but for m,any people it also produces massive gas... not cool at the office.
 
was all of your bread gone?

if so, then it would help explain that the reason the soup wasn't as popular was because its hassle in eating.

 
Originally posted by: isasir
You are overreacting. Dishes that seem to work best at these potluck parties are the ones that are easily grabbable so you can sample the dish. You can't just take soup and throw some on the big plate that you're walking around with. Soup would require putting down that big plate, to grab. As such, it probably wasn't worth the effort to many people. Don't take offense to it tho'.

wiNNar. fingerfood > soups/liquid stuff especially when you don't know wtf it is. did other people know what it was? i probably would've looked at it and said, i'll pass

next time make some tamales or pigs in a blanket
 
Originally posted by: cKGunslinger
Originally posted by: isasir
You are overreacting. Dishes that seem to work best at these potluck parties are the ones that are easily grabbable so you can sample the dish. You can't just take soup and throw some on the big plate that you're walking around with. Soup would require putting down that big plate, to grab. As such, it probably wasn't worth the effort to many people. Don't take offense to it tho'.

Winnar. I love cheese/brocolli soup, but at an office party, I wouldn't make the effort to have some, not when there are other easily accessible food items around.

yeap you are not ment to eat everything. The idea is to mingle and have a good time. Soup kinda makes it hard to do.

Though one lady would always bring chili. It was always emtpy by the end of the night also heh.
 
well, screw them. i would get pissed too.

i bet all the stuff you made tasted awesome. more for yourself and family/friends who want it!
 
I wouldn't be offended, it's just that people tend to take the usual food that they are sure they will like, no matter how bad it really could be (chicken, mashed potatoes, corn, etc.). I wouldn't take offense to it, just made chicken and noodles or mashed potatoes next year 😛
 
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