So this girl wants to take me swing dancing tomorrow night...

2Xtreme21

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Yeah. I kinda o_O 'd at the offer, but hey whatever, I have nothing going on tomorrow night. Anyone ever go swing dancing before? Any big expectations about it? Haha... I'm a terrible dancer so I think the whole night will be me making a fool of myself.

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OK if anyone ever wants to go swing dancing with someone else, don't do so as a date. You've been warned. It's an unspoken rule there that everyone dances with everyone else... and even from the get-go at the mini lesson they taught before the dance, you were split up and partnered with some random person of the opposite sex. Then you rotated through partners every dance or so.

And that's pretty much how it went. Danced with my date the first song (I'm absolutely terrible I found... she's real good and I think she was getting frustrated with me, so I had a pretty bad night in that regard). Every subsequent song you should see it... it's like a race to ask someone else. Like you spend the song you're dancing with both talking to your partner and scoping out your next one. It's an excellent way to meet people as you won't get turned down to dance with someone. Even the hottest chick in the place will say yes to you provided you ask her before someone else does.

Unfortunately that means squat, as you spend the dance talking to said chick (where they go to school, etc.) and when the song ends, it's on to the next person. Very little intimacy. It's a good confidence builder though if anyone has any trouble asking girls to dance or out or what not because no one will say no. (unless they're on their way out or already with someone obviously).

All in all I had fun though. It really wasn't a date whatsoever because I was with my date maybe for 15 minutes all night (danced for 3 hours). I'd like to see if I can get into it though... it seems easy enough and with a bit of practice I'm sure I could get the hang of it.

:thumbsup: interesting experience that I think everyone should try.
 

thehstrybean

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Originally posted by: 2Xtreme21
Yeah. I kinda o_O 'd at the offer, but hey whatever, I have nothing going on tomorrow night. Anyone ever go swing dancing before? Any big expectations about it? Haha... I'm a terrible dancer so I think the whole night will be me making a fool of myself.

Pic up the basics. Every dance has one step that is the underlying move. Swing has a step. Pick it up (it's easy), then you can add in some twists and spins...

:camera:s?
 

DAGTA

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Swing dancing is something I would like to learn. It looks like a lot of fun.
 

KarmaPolice

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there is a swing dance club at my school i would go to once and a while...relaly fun and some cute girls!

The basic swing dance is quite easy and i doubt she would expect you to do anything special. Jus thave fun!
 

JS80

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don't do it. my ex is a swinger dancer. and i can say most swing dancing girls have mental problems.
 

KarmaPolice

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Originally posted by: JS80
don't do it. my ex is a swinger dancer. and i can say most swing dancing girls have mental problems.

lol strangly..i have to agree.

I said the girls were cute...not sane.
 

JS80

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Originally posted by: savoyboy
Originally posted by: JS80
don't do it. my ex is a swinger dancer. and i can say most swing dancing girls have mental problems.
I'm sure your ex represents all swing dancers.

the only friends she had were swing dancers, and they were all pretty much weirdos. not only that, she made swing dancing a HUGE part of her life, and it was the same with all her friends.

like i said, most of them are effed in the noggin.
 

MazerRackham

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Originally posted by: JS80
Originally posted by: savoyboy
Originally posted by: JS80
don't do it. my ex is a swinger dancer. and i can say most swing dancing girls have mental problems.
I'm sure your ex represents all swing dancers.

the only friends she had were swing dancers, and they were all pretty much weirdos. not only that, she made swing dancing a HUGE part of her life, and it was the same with all her friends.

like i said, most of them are effed in the noggin.

I dated a Lindy Hop-crazed girl for a year, and I have to agree. I was into swing (Lindy) too, but not nearly as much as she was, and it did get weird after a while.

But she was hot, and her swing dancing friends were cute too. Great way to keep in shape! Just watch out!
 

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Originally posted by: KarmaPolice
Originally posted by: JS80
don't do it. my ex is a swinger dancer. and i can say most swing dancing girls have mental problems.

lol strangly..i have to agree.

I said the girls were cute...not sane.

Oxymoron?

 

JS80

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Originally posted by: MazerRackham
Originally posted by: JS80
Originally posted by: savoyboy
Originally posted by: JS80
don't do it. my ex is a swinger dancer. and i can say most swing dancing girls have mental problems.
I'm sure your ex represents all swing dancers.

the only friends she had were swing dancers, and they were all pretty much weirdos. not only that, she made swing dancing a HUGE part of her life, and it was the same with all her friends.

like i said, most of them are effed in the noggin.

I dated a Lindy Hop-crazed girl for a year, and I have to agree. I was into swing (Lindy) too, but not nearly as much as she was, and it did get weird after a while.

But she was hot, and her swing dancing friends were cute too. Great way to keep in shape! Just watch out!

did she go to Camp Hollywood every year? Did she perform on weekends for zero money and leave you high and dry? Was she unemployed and all she cared was lindy hop? My ex had the trifecta.
 

MazerRackham

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Originally posted by: JS80
Originally posted by: MazerRackham
Originally posted by: JS80
Originally posted by: savoyboy
Originally posted by: JS80
don't do it. my ex is a swinger dancer. and i can say most swing dancing girls have mental problems.
I'm sure your ex represents all swing dancers.

the only friends she had were swing dancers, and they were all pretty much weirdos. not only that, she made swing dancing a HUGE part of her life, and it was the same with all her friends.

like i said, most of them are effed in the noggin.

I dated a Lindy Hop-crazed girl for a year, and I have to agree. I was into swing (Lindy) too, but not nearly as much as she was, and it did get weird after a while.

But she was hot, and her swing dancing friends were cute too. Great way to keep in shape! Just watch out!

did she go to Camp Hollywood every year? Did she perform on weekends for zero money and leave you high and dry? Was she unemployed and all she cared was lindy hop? My ex had the trifecta.


LOL!! Sorry man, I think my ex went to Camp Hollywood before I started dating her. I know EXACTLT what you mean though... there's nothing that will stop them from promoting/living/dying for the Lindy/Swing. I think the slight diff was that my ex had been into swing for like 10 years before I met her, so she was a bit worn out.

Did you go dancing with her? I did enough of that to keep my ex happy... for a while. Then she started cheating on me (I suspect) with some rat faced bozo she met at a goddamn coffee shop.

I still hate coffee.
 

Googer

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I bet the chances of them playing a few Glenn Miller tunes are quite high.
 

angminas

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Wow, swing dancing is still popular? I remember wanting to get into that with my then-gf about 10 years ago when it was hot, but we never got around to it.

As for the girl sitch...really, in anything like this, you have to examine yourself. How much do I hate this kind of dancing? How much of my hating it is because I'm a closed-minded wimp? How much do I like this girl apart from the dance thing? etc etc. I say don't be a wimp...but that means both don't do something you despise for no good reason, AND don't pass up something you only mildly dislike if it's a girl worth having. If that makes any sense.

I don't recommend the path I took- just avoiding and forgetting till you regret not doing something.