So sad. Drunk driver wipes out Groom, Best Man, Groomsman on way to wedding ceremony

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Wow, just wow. I nearly had tears in my eyes watching the story on WRAL (probably because I'm getting married June 20). Of course, the drunk driver survived :|:|:|

None of the people three killed were wearing a seatbelt :|:|:|:|:|:| -- although they wouldn't have made it anyway because of the impact according to the story.

Sunday evening update; see comment from fiance - Three young males ? the groom, best man and groomsman headed to a 4 p.m. wedding ? were killed in a head-on wreck Saturday afternoon, 51 minutes before the ceremony when a Whiteville man veered his convertible into their lane on N.C. 214 between Hallsboro and Lake Waccamaw.

Brandon Tedder, 23, of Slippery Log Road, Whiteville, was the front-seat passenger in a red Honda Prelude traveling east ? at a speed estimated to be 65 mph or higher -- when a silver Chrysler Sebring convertible, headed west, moved into the eastbound lane.

For details on the three funerals, click here.

The Honda slammed into the convertible at 3:09 p.m. and bounced to the right, turned completely around from the high-speed impact, and slid into an eight-foot ditch.

Tedder?s best man, Brandon Lee Mintz, 19, of Old Union Road, Delco, was the driver of the Honda, and he, Tedder and 13-year-old Daniel Sykes of Frank Norris Road, Tabor City, died instantly from the crushing impact, according to Coroner Linwood Cartrette and Highway Patrol Trooper Scott Floyd.

Headed to lake

The young males were headed to the Council Baptist Church where Tedder was to marry Angell Nicole Bonham of the Bladen County community of Kelly.

Sykes was ejected and landed in the same ditch near the Honda, owned by Mintz? father of Delco. None of the young males were using seat belts, Floyd reported.

They were on their way to Lake Waccamaw to the home of William Tedder, the groom?s father, where some family members were waiting. They were then to travel to the Council Baptist Church in the edge of Bladen County, north of Lake Waccamaw, for Tedder?s 4 p.m. wedding.

John Daniel Kelley, 43, of King Arthur Drive, Whiteville, was the driver of the Chrysler, and sustained critical injuries. Kelley, employed by Big Lots in Whiteville, was airlifted to New Hanover Regional Medical Center in Wilmington.

DWI charge

Kelley was charged with driving while impaired, Floyd said. A blood sample, taken from Kelley at the hospital here, will be tested in the State Bureau of Investigation?s lab as to any alcohol content.

Floyd found several empty glass bottles of alcoholic beverages in the front passenger area of Kelley?s convertible.

Kelley?s passenger was his youngest son, Michael Vincent Kelley, 17, a senior at Whiteville High School. An airbag deployed on the passenger side, and he was not seriously injured. Floyd said the airbag probably saved him from major injuries. Both the Kelleys were wearing seatbelts.

Tedder was the son of Mr. and Mrs. William Tedder of Lake Waccamaw, and Pamela Cribb Sykes of Tabor City, according to a March 16 engagement and wedding notice published in The News Reporter.

ECHS graduates

Young Tedder was a graduate of East Columbus High School, and was employed by Walmart. His intended bride is also a graduate of East Columbus, and graduated from Southeastern Community College. She is a phlebotomist at Columbus Regional Healthcare here.

Floyd said the Chrysler was moving at an angle when it crashed into the Honda, and the impact was so great it caused the Honda to bounce to the right and spin around before landing in the ditch, covering a distance of 150 feet.

Parts of the Honda were strewn along the right shoulder, and the entire exhaust pipe and muffler was thrown onto a grassed area in front of several homes on the south side of N.C. 214 just east of Jackson?s Crossing.

The trooper said the Chrysler moved backward at an angle 83 feet and came to rest on the westbound shoulder, still headed west.

The deaths raise Columbus County?s highway fatality toll for 2009 to six, as the county?s total this year tripled within 48 hours. A single fatality took place Thursday before the three Saturday deaths.

Floyd said the wreck investigation continues.

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Ns1

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See OP below.



death is too good for them (the drunk driver that is)
 

Saint Nick

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The drunk driver usually survives, I'm guessing, because their body is so unresponsive to anything that they just kind of absorb the shock of the impact. That and usually the car the drunk hits is going slow and feels the brunt of the force.
 

AstroManLuca

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Sometimes I wish paramedics could do a quick blood test on the scene and if the driver has a high BAC, they could just sort of take their time and not expend too much effort to save these douchebags.

(disclaimer: obviously I don't LITERALLY believe that, but I do think the world would be a better place if drunk drivers were to simply run into telephone poles and take themselves out a lot more often than they do)
 

imported_Imp

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What kind of asshole gets drunk at 3pm in the afternoon and goes out for a ride...

Story sucks, especially for the people who died, but them not wearing seatbelts makes a difference. To clarify, not wearing seatbelts combined with the age of the driver suggests that they were not super responsible.
 

S Freud

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That is truly sad.
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iamwiz82

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I just scoured the net for 5 minutes and no where did they mention an actual BAC. For all we know, those empty bottles/cans were in the back but got thrown forward.
 

SarcasticDwarf

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Originally posted by: ric1287
Originally posted by: Imp
What kind of asshole gets drunk at 3pm in the afternoon and goes out for a ride...

With his fucking kid too.

That "kid" was 17 and old enough to stop the driver and thus is equally responsible.

Hey, if someone who is 13 can be tried as an adult why the hell not?
 

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Floyd said the Chrysler was moving at an angle when it crashed into the Honda, and the impact was so great it caused the Honda to bounce to the right and spin around before landing in the ditch, covering a distance of 150 feet.

Parts of the Honda were strewn along the right shoulder, and the entire exhaust pipe and muffler was thrown onto a grassed area in front of several homes on the south side of N.C. 214 just east of Jackson?s Crossing.

The trooper said the Chrysler moved backward at an angle 83 feet and came to rest on the westbound shoulder, still headed west.




Guess we know which car was bigger and safer in a head-on impact huh?
 

MrWizzard

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Originally posted by: RoloMather

Floyd said the Chrysler was moving at an angle when it crashed into the Honda, and the impact was so great it caused the Honda to bounce to the right and spin around before landing in the ditch, covering a distance of 150 feet.

Parts of the Honda were strewn along the right shoulder, and the entire exhaust pipe and muffler was thrown onto a grassed area in front of several homes on the south side of N.C. 214 just east of Jackson?s Crossing.

The trooper said the Chrysler moved backward at an angle 83 feet and came to rest on the westbound shoulder, still headed west.




Guess we know which car was bigger and safer in a head-on impact huh?

Blaa sad story, wonder what would have happened if the wedding party had been wearing their seatbelts I have seen some people survive things experts say they should not have because of seatbelts. That being said DWI is BAD and the root cause of this accident.

I currently drive a little honda....makes me kind of wish I had kept my LR3 at 5000 lbs it was a very very safe car and had the most airbags of any car I had ever seen.

This story is sad and this will just happen over and over until the end of time probably. :(
 

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Originally posted by: NightDarker
The drunk driver usually survives, I'm guessing, because their body is so unresponsive to anything that they just kind of absorb the shock of the impact. That and usually the car the drunk hits is going slow and feels the brunt of the force.

Wearing seatbelts helps. The people who survived we wearing seatbelts. The people who died were not.

Clearly any anger needs to be directed toward the drunk driver (if he was drunk; either way it sounds like he caused the accident), but the lesson to be learned is that you should wear your seatbelt. You can't stop people from crashing into you, but you can do something to lessen the consequences of it happening.
 

AstroManLuca

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Originally posted by: iamwiz82
I just scoured the net for 5 minutes and no where did they mention an actual BAC. For all we know, those empty bottles/cans were in the back but got thrown forward.

Well, either he was drunk or he's just that bad of a driver. Either way, he deserves years in prison for this.
 

Gooberlx2

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Originally posted by: iamwiz82
I just scoured the net for 5 minutes and no where did they mention an actual BAC. For all we know, those empty bottles/cans were in the back but got thrown forward.

Or his 17 year-old was drunk from the night before and the father had to pick his hung-over ass up. Then they got in a fight and distracted during the drive home.

Like you said, lack of actual BAC info leaves a lot of possible explanations open.

Anyway, yeah, sad story. :( Kids should have been wearing their seat belts.
 

Red Squirrel

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I don't understand how people STILL drive drunk, regardless of all the stuff that happens on the news, the "don't drink and drive" ads constantly playing on the TV, Radio, etc.. Yet, people STILL do it.
 

Newbian

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Well that's one way to save yourself from making a huge mistake but I think there are easier ways. :(
 

zerocool84

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Originally posted by: RedSquirrel
I don't understand how people STILL drive drunk, regardless of all the stuff that happens on the news, the "don't drink and drive" ads constantly playing on the TV, Radio, etc.. Yet, people STILL do it.

Yep and there are anti-drug commercials and hell, even laws but people still do it.
 

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Seat-belts - the freshmaker.
 

Kelvrick

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How do three passengers die instantly from crushing impact when one is ejected out of the car?

I guess unless the dead body was flung out of the car as it fell into the ditch.
 

Rudee

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With the way most marriages are going these days, perhaps the drunk driver thought he was doing the groom a favor.
 

Fingolfin269

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Originally posted by: RedSquirrel
I don't understand how people STILL drive drunk, regardless of all the stuff that happens on the news, the "don't drink and drive" ads constantly playing on the TV, Radio, etc.. Yet, people STILL do it.

My biggest problem with this is the definition of 'drunk'. You've got some guy who just had two beers and has an accident and it's automatically because he's drunk (in no way referring to the guy in this story). However, he's probably no more impaired than some idiot out driving on no sleep at 7AM trying to get to work amongst a mass of other idiots in the same condition who just happen to be fucking with their make up, cell phones, radios, etc.

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to the families (and what would have been future family) of those affected by this.

 

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Originally posted by: Kelvrick
How do three passengers die instantly from crushing impact when one is ejected out of the car?

I guess unless the dead body was flung out of the car as it fell into the ditch.

I always wonder if they really know when they died. To say someone died "instantly" sounds to me like an attempt to let the family believe they didn't suffer.