So... my brother has an attitude problem... Update: He came home and...

[Actaeon]

My brother has the weirdest attitude problem, he gets angry over everything!

Heres an example, tonight...

My car is in the shop, so I needed a ride home from work. I was supposed to call him, and he was supposed to pick me up. We had to do this before I got my car.

The phone wouldn't accept any phone calls. "The circuits are busy", "Message could not be sent". I tried from 3 different phones, work, my friends work, and my friends cell. I'm going to assume this is from my mom's change in phone policy. She called the phone company and said no long distance. Apparently my job is "long distance", 12 miles away.

I couldn't not get a call across no matter what. I wasn't sure if he was going to forget, or if he fell asleep, or still waiting for me to call. So I asked my friend to take me home, and drive by the parking lot to make sure he didn't try and pick me up. I didn't see his car, so he took me home. I get home and he isn't here, so he went to go pick me up, but he doesnt' have a cell or anything so I can contact him.

He just came home right now, my mom went to try and talk to him to tell him what happened with the phone, and he just pulled out, floored it, and left.

Hes always had a pissy attitude about everything, Espically stupid things, and when he doesn't get his way. I can understand being a little angry about this, but hes clearly overexgerating this whole deal.

Bleh.

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[xEDIT409]

As my friend once said about a teacher we once had,

"He needs to take the buttplug out of his ass, and take a look around."

 

[Turkish]

Originally posted by: xEDIT409
As my friend once said about a teacher we once had,

"He needs to take the buttplug out of his ass, and take a look around."

rofl

 

[Spoooon]

My younger brother can be a little bitch at times. Somehow, the same environmental variables that gave me things such as due consideration for others only gave him a selfish, bitchy attitude.

I feel for you.

 

[Lithium381]

Originally posted by: Actaeon
My brother has the weirdest attitude problem, he gets angry over everything!

Heres an example, tonight...

My car is in the shop, so I needed a ride home from work. I was supposed to call him, and he was supposed to pick me up. We had to do this before I got my car.

The phone wouldn't accept any phone calls. "The circuits are busy", "Message could not be sent". I tried from 3 different phones, work, my friends work, and my friends cell. I'm going to assume this is from my mom's change in phone policy. She called the phone company and said no long distance. Apparently my job is "long distance", 12 miles away.

I couldn't not get a call across no matter what. I wasn't sure if he was going to forget, or if he fell asleep, or still waiting for me to call. So I asked my friend to take me home, and drive by the parking lot to make sure he didn't try and pick me up. I didn't see his car, so he took me home. I get home and he isn't here, so he went to go pick me up, but he doesnt' have a cell or anything so I can contact him.

He just came home right now, my mom went to try and talk to him to tell him what happened with the phone, and he just pulled out, floored it, and left.

Hes always had a pissy attitude about everything, Espically stupid things, and when he doesn't get his way. I can understand being a little angry about this, but hes clearly overexgerating this whole deal.

Bleh.

sounds a lot like my brother, temper like none-other.....every little thing RUINS his day, sometimes even his entire week

 

[bleeb]

kick has arse and teach him who's boss.

 

[Actaeon]

Yeah, I havn't talked to him yet. I knew he was going to be pissed just because he always is.

I remember one time, I got a ride home from work, because I didn't want him to drive up here and pick me up when my ride doesn't live too far away, and could just drop me off. He was pissed off because I didn't call him to tell him I got a ride, so he was "Busy, waiting for me, when he could be doing other things". He was jobless at the time, and he really doesn't go out. So, I really wonder what "those other things" were.

Hes probally not going to talk to me for about a week. Hes done it before. Oh Nos!

 

[KarenMarie]

You should not have left work until you knew for sure whether or not he was coming to get you!!

tsk tsk tsk!!

KarenMarie

 

[Zebo]

Originally posted by: bleeb
kick has arse and teach him who's boss.

Yup. A good as whippin is attitude adjustment quick.

 

[Actaeon]

Originally posted by: bleeb
kick has arse and teach him who's boss.

I did last time when he had another temper tantrum.

We were outside, and he was supposed to cut this tree we cut down into pieces, so the garbage man can take it.

IIRC, (this was about a year ago), I was holding it, and he was going at it with the chainsaw. He was telling me to hold it. I told him I am holding it. He said "Hold It" very loud/angerly/whatever, I replied "I am!" louder, and he got angry and tried to take a swing at me. I ended up giving him a bloody nose. I got out of there untouched.

Pissy attitude huh? Hes 24, and I'm 17.

 

[Actaeon]

Originally posted by: KarenMarie
You should not have left work until you knew for sure whether or not he was coming to get you!!

tsk tsk tsk!!

KarenMarie

Mall closes at 9:30. I was there at 10:15, and he wasn't there. Was I supposed to ditch my only ride at the time to just wait for another, ride that wasn't certain to come? If my friend didn't take me home, and he forgot, how else was I supposed to get home?

 

[shimsham]

cut him some slack.


its called puberty:beer:

 

[Actaeon]

Originally posted by: shimsham
cut him some slack.


its called puberty:beer:

Hes 24! I'm sure hes past puberty...

Bleh, I wonder if theres anything I can do to fix his attitude problem.

 

[bleeb]

The brother is 24. And Acteon is 17.

 

[shimsham]

LOL sounded like he was sixteen or something.

 

[AgaBoogaBoo]

Originally posted by: Actaeon

Originally posted by: bleeb
kick has arse and teach him who's boss.

I did last time when he had another temper tantrum.

We were outside, and he was supposed to cut this tree we cut down into pieces, so the garbage man can take it.

IIRC, (this was about a year ago), I was holding it, and he was going at it with the chainsaw. He was telling me to hold it. I told him I am holding it. He said "Hold It" very loud/angerly/whatever, I replied "I am!" louder, and he got angry and tried to take a swing at me. I ended up giving him a bloody nose. I got out of there untouched.

Pissy attitude huh? Hes 24, and I'm 17.

lol, I thought were you the older one, he should act his age, not his shoe size, hehe

 

[pinoy]

if i were u, i'll just let it go and concentrate on getting your car fixed. with an attitude like that, talking to him will prolly make it worse. if he starts talking to you, fine, if not, so be it. at least you're not at each other's throat.

 

[obiwaynekenobi]

Originally posted by: Lithium381

Originally posted by: Actaeon
My brother has the weirdest attitude problem, he gets angry over everything!

Heres an example, tonight...

My car is in the shop, so I needed a ride home from work. I was supposed to call him, and he was supposed to pick me up. We had to do this before I got my car.

The phone wouldn't accept any phone calls. "The circuits are busy", "Message could not be sent". I tried from 3 different phones, work, my friends work, and my friends cell. I'm going to assume this is from my mom's change in phone policy. She called the phone company and said no long distance. Apparently my job is "long distance", 12 miles away.

I couldn't not get a call across no matter what. I wasn't sure if he was going to forget, or if he fell asleep, or still waiting for me to call. So I asked my friend to take me home, and drive by the parking lot to make sure he didn't try and pick me up. I didn't see his car, so he took me home. I get home and he isn't here, so he went to go pick me up, but he doesnt' have a cell or anything so I can contact him.

He just came home right now, my mom went to try and talk to him to tell him what happened with the phone, and he just pulled out, floored it, and left.

Hes always had a pissy attitude about everything, Espically stupid things, and when he doesn't get his way. I can understand being a little angry about this, but hes clearly overexgerating this whole deal.

Bleh.

sounds a lot like my brother, temper like none-other.....every little thing RUINS his day, sometimes even his entire week

Sounds like My Ex wifes mom. She's a Drama queen to the letter. (Even her family can't stand her) Drives us bonkers.

Think she knows everything.

 

[gwlam12]

Originally posted by: Actaeon
Yeah, I havn't talked to him yet. I knew he was going to be pissed just because he always is.

I remember one time, I got a ride home from work, because I didn't want him to drive up here and pick me up when my ride doesn't live too far away, and could just drop me off. He was pissed off because I didn't call him to tell him I got a ride, so he was "Busy, waiting for me, when he could be doing other things". He was jobless at the time, and he really doesn't go out. So, I really wonder what "those other things" were.

Hes probally not going to talk to me for about a week. Hes done it before. Oh Nos!

i can see how that can be a problem. u took a ride home from work without telling him. he comes by anyway. so how did you getting a ride home help him? i think the little things add up, and eventually, he becomes overly sensitive with everything.

he has his own life to live, so thats what he probably meant when he said he could be doing other things.

my reasoning only works with this situation though

 

[Actaeon]

Originally posted by: gwlam12

Originally posted by: Actaeon
Yeah, I havn't talked to him yet. I knew he was going to be pissed just because he always is.

I remember one time, I got a ride home from work, because I didn't want him to drive up here and pick me up when my ride doesn't live too far away, and could just drop me off. He was pissed off because I didn't call him to tell him I got a ride, so he was "Busy, waiting for me, when he could be doing other things". He was jobless at the time, and he really doesn't go out. So, I really wonder what "those other things" were.

Hes probally not going to talk to me for about a week. Hes done it before. Oh Nos!

i can see how that can be a problem. u took a ride home from work without telling him. he comes by anyway. so how did you getting a ride home help him? i think the little things add up, and eventually, he becomes overly sensitive with everything.

he has his own life to live, so thats what he probably meant when he said he could be doing other things.

my reasoning only works with this situation though

He didn't drive to pick me up. He was still at home when I got my ride home. He never left the house.

I understand that I probally should have told him I didn't need a ride before hand in that situation, but he was seriously angry about that. I can understand being a little fustrated.... but not shouting and screaming and stuff.

 

[gwlam12]

Originally posted by: Actaeon

Originally posted by: gwlam12

Originally posted by: Actaeon
Yeah, I havn't talked to him yet. I knew he was going to be pissed just because he always is.

I remember one time, I got a ride home from work, because I didn't want him to drive up here and pick me up when my ride doesn't live too far away, and could just drop me off. He was pissed off because I didn't call him to tell him I got a ride, so he was "Busy, waiting for me, when he could be doing other things". He was jobless at the time, and he really doesn't go out. So, I really wonder what "those other things" were.

Hes probally not going to talk to me for about a week. Hes done it before. Oh Nos!

i can see how that can be a problem. u took a ride home from work without telling him. he comes by anyway. so how did you getting a ride home help him? i think the little things add up, and eventually, he becomes overly sensitive with everything.

he has his own life to live, so thats what he probably meant when he said he could be doing other things.

my reasoning only works with this situation though

He didn't drive to pick me up. He was still at home when I got my ride home. He never left the house.

I understand that I probally should have told him I didn't need a ride before hand in that situation, but he was seriously angry about that. I can understand being a little fustrated.... but not shouting and screaming and stuff.

eh..must be irritating.

 

[Actaeon]

Originally posted by: gwlam12

Originally posted by: Actaeon

Originally posted by: gwlam12

Originally posted by: Actaeon
Yeah, I havn't talked to him yet. I knew he was going to be pissed just because he always is.

I remember one time, I got a ride home from work, because I didn't want him to drive up here and pick me up when my ride doesn't live too far away, and could just drop me off. He was pissed off because I didn't call him to tell him I got a ride, so he was "Busy, waiting for me, when he could be doing other things". He was jobless at the time, and he really doesn't go out. So, I really wonder what "those other things" were.

Hes probally not going to talk to me for about a week. Hes done it before. Oh Nos!

i can see how that can be a problem. u took a ride home from work without telling him. he comes by anyway. so how did you getting a ride home help him? i think the little things add up, and eventually, he becomes overly sensitive with everything.

he has his own life to live, so thats what he probably meant when he said he could be doing other things.

my reasoning only works with this situation though

He didn't drive to pick me up. He was still at home when I got my ride home. He never left the house.

I understand that I probally should have told him I didn't need a ride before hand in that situation, but he was seriously angry about that. I can understand being a little fustrated.... but not shouting and screaming and stuff.

eh..must be irritating.

His attitude is really irritating. He'd say stuff that doesn't bother me too much, because I'm a carefree person, but I know If I said the same things back, he'd get angry over it.

Gosh, thankfully he isn't married or dating or whatever, I'd feel bad for his woman/wife and kids for having to put up with his garbage.

 

[HonkeyDonk]

Originally posted by: Actaeon


He just came home right now, my mom went to try and talk to him to tell him what happened with the phone, and he just pulled out, floored it, and left.

Bleh.

AHAHAHA, HE ACTUALLY PULLED OUT AND FLOORED IT? LOL...I can see it now, he's kinda teary eyed cuz he's so angry he's about to cry, but he hasn't cried yet, so his eyes are getting watery, and he has a pouty look to his face, and he just grips his steering wheel so tight that you can see the veins bulging out of his forearms and he just floors his car so that there's a screeching sound an rubber left on the ground and a cloud of smoke is all that you see.

 

[Eli]

Originally posted by: Actaeon

Originally posted by: gwlam12

Originally posted by: Actaeon

Originally posted by: gwlam12

Originally posted by: Actaeon
Yeah, I havn't talked to him yet. I knew he was going to be pissed just because he always is.

I remember one time, I got a ride home from work, because I didn't want him to drive up here and pick me up when my ride doesn't live too far away, and could just drop me off. He was pissed off because I didn't call him to tell him I got a ride, so he was "Busy, waiting for me, when he could be doing other things". He was jobless at the time, and he really doesn't go out. So, I really wonder what "those other things" were.

Hes probally not going to talk to me for about a week. Hes done it before. Oh Nos!

i can see how that can be a problem. u took a ride home from work without telling him. he comes by anyway. so how did you getting a ride home help him? i think the little things add up, and eventually, he becomes overly sensitive with everything.

he has his own life to live, so thats what he probably meant when he said he could be doing other things.

my reasoning only works with this situation though

He didn't drive to pick me up. He was still at home when I got my ride home. He never left the house.

I understand that I probally should have told him I didn't need a ride before hand in that situation, but he was seriously angry about that. I can understand being a little fustrated.... but not shouting and screaming and stuff.

eh..must be irritating.

His attitude is really irritating. He'd say stuff that doesn't bother me too much, because I'm a carefree person, but I know If I said the same things back, he'd get angry over it.

Gosh, thankfully he isn't married or dating or whatever, I'd feel bad for his woman/wife and kids for having to put up with his garbage.

Hmm... Maybe he has sexual identity issues.

 

[Actaeon]

Uh oh...

Garage door is opening... hes back after about an hour since he drove off.

I'll keep you updated... haha.