So I prety much hate my grandparents....

Xionide · Dec 12, 2003

Here is a little timeline of my life:

Born in bellevue washington 1987

1989 moved to everett in nice little apartment in a good neighborhood, me=🙂

1990 my brother was born, great grandma died, grandparents inherit her house

1990 My whole family moves into my great grandmas house renting from my grandparents

1990-1992 We lived happily in the house, my life is perfect. I live in the country I have a dog tons of property friend accross the street. EVERYTHING IS AWSOME. through the whole time we were living there my grandparents would just show up out of nowhere and takeover. Eat all of our use our beds do whatever the fvck they wanted to because they owned it. My dad said something about it and my grandpa basically told us to get the fvck out.

1993 We move into everett, north everett (shltwhole) in a crappy little apartment. Meanwhile my grandparents are moving my aunt and uncle into the place we were at. THEY FVCKING RUINED THE PLACE! they are the trashiest shltiest people I had ever known.

Meanwhile I hate my life. Everybody in our family did. money got tight and my parents divorced. Over the next few years I went between my mom and dad in a state of total misery. I hated my life so much that I cant even remember it (I blocked it out).

1996 me and my mom and my brother move back to the old place where my grandparents are now living at. My grandfather is ranting and raving about how people use grants for there own personal stuff, my mom tells him him that if he were to get a grant he would be someone who wouldnt abuse it. He misunderstood it and gets all pissed off. My mom goes in the bathroom to go get ready to go to my brothers birthday party and he bursts in the door and tries to choke her, she fought him off. Cops come, dont do shlt. And they once again kick us out. Then my grandmother proceeds to tell everybody my mom slammmed the door in his face and that he needed to go to the bathroom or something.

Now they live down the street from us and act like everything is just peachy. I FVCKING HATE THEM. And I am sick of them acting like everything between us is ok. Its not ok. And they just moved into the house and ruined the place with farming geese. When we lived their it was a beautiful place. Now you cant walk one inch onto the property without getting goose shlt on your feet. And they baby the shlt out of everyone else in our family.

I hate them and I want to confront them about why. What do you think I should do.

-Xionide

FoBoT · Dec 12, 2003

join the military, don't see any of them for 4-6 years

Xionide · Dec 12, 2003

Suicide is definately an option before that.

-Xionide

Corporate Thug · Dec 12, 2003

thats some fvcked up $hit

FoBoT · Dec 12, 2003

i can't recommend that as a viable alternative, the military is a good option for many, perhaps not yourself, but i don't know you, so i had to throw it out there

the military really is a good way/place to get your sh!t together when you need to get away from things/get started in life, but that is just my opinion

good luck!

xEDIT409 · Dec 12, 2003

why? that's just stupid. get a life... literrally.

iwearnosox · Dec 12, 2003

I ate my grandparents too. Tasted like chicken.

Yossarian · Dec 12, 2003

how old are you? are they your mom's parents or dad's parents?

Rogue · Dec 12, 2003

Why? It's not that bad. Hell, maybe it's what you need. Maybe it's what everyone in your family needs. Think about it more. You gotta do something with your life.

Soybomb · Dec 12, 2003

So don't go over and step in the goosecrap then. If they come over leave.

Koing · Dec 12, 2003

Sh!t man this is fvcked:

That is wrong man. I'd be out for some beating, but considering his age it would not be wise. I don't know how the rest of your family not go with the police or pursue it further.

I'd be hella p!ssed if someone tried to do that to my mum.

It is tough but you can get through. How old are you? Work a part time job and help with the money.

Koing

flxnimprtmscl · Dec 12, 2003

No sh!t. If anyone did that to my mom they'd meet Mr. Fist. After Mr. Fist has sufficiently tenderized them they'd meet Mr. Baseball Bat, Mr. Pliers, and Mr. Blowtorch respectively. Fvcking cowards who pick on women :|

HappyPuppy · Dec 12, 2003

I was sympathetic until I saw that statement. You're just a self pitying dumbfvck. If you are stuck in a lose-lose situation in life the military is a fantastic place to get your head straigt. Too bad you already ruled it out at the ripe old age of 16. I sounds like you have life all figured out. I would say good luck, but you don't deserve it.

GalvanizedYankee · Dec 12, 2003

So your in a single parent household and you've had it rough. To bad.
As an age group more teenagers take their own lives than any other.
Read about it on line, check out pics at rotten .com. The pain you cause those
that love you will be long lasting. I know and won't tell how I know.

Finish HS, no matter what. Go into computers in the Air Force or Navy to get
further training. Talk to recruiters now, in order to take classes that will assist
your enlistment desires. After your hitch, you got a GI Bill for your education and
medical for the rest of your life. Not too shabby for 4 years or less. You might even
meet some of those European Chicks.

Or, drop out, do drugs & knock-up some slut. Then rob a liquor store & go to jail
for 4 years.

PS: I thought you were brighter than this from reading your past posts. I hope this is just a brain fart on your part. I'm just an old guy, so what have I seen or know?

Gravity · Dec 12, 2003

Make the confrontation in a respectful way. Don't be obnoxious or ingracious.

abracadabra1 · Dec 12, 2003

It's a damn shame that service and duty are passe nowadays.

Xionide · Dec 12, 2003

Jesus christ. I never said that I EVER would commit suicide. I am just saying I will never go into the millitrary. I love my life its not like I live in some shlt pit where my parents FORCE me to play nice with my grandparents. I only made that comment because I see it so much around here. Its either black or white with some of you. Its just something I never want to do in my life is there anything wrong with that?

-Xionide

GalvanizedYankee · Dec 13, 2003

Suicide is a powerful word. Its a long term solution to a short range problem.

Glad you recovered from the drama so quickly........:sun:

Rogue · Dec 13, 2003

Other than the statement generally being insulting to serving in the military? No, not at all.

My problem is, you sit here, spew out your admittedly $hitty life that you hate and when offered a perfectly reasonable option that at least SHOULD be considered, you slam the door in our faces and then choke us. That's my problem with it at least.

And don't try and give me that "you don't understand" teenage bull$hit either. My stepfather, after serving 20 years in the Army and having gone to war in Gulf War I, left his family for a younger woman than my mother after we traveled half way across the country for him to find his new life and abandon us. He worked 5 minutes away from my High School and couldn't even show up to my graduation. His family alienated us and as a young 18 year old, I took on a full-time job to save up enough money for a Ryder truck to move our possessions back to somewhere we could afford to live. Before we moved though, I joined the Army Reserve and have had a wonderful time doing so, despite the hardships associated with it. I was on track to attend Stanford or Pepperdine and gave that up to help my single parent mother. So don't give me that "suicide is an option" bull$hit, cuz I'm not buying it. Pick yourself up, stop your incessant whining on an internet message board and get on with life. Say your piece to them like I did and show them that you and what's left of your family can do without them. Nothing pisses off a controlling a$$hole more than taking away their control and smiling back in their face. Now stop this self-pity bull$hit and do something amazing in your life and never look back. There, I've said my piece. 😀:beer:

Xionide · Dec 13, 2003

Oh and I didnt want to make it seem like I wanted people to feel sorry for me. Mainly I wanted people to recomend ways to deal with the situation. I am 16 and I know I dont know everything, far from it really. My is a lot more easy then a lot of people. I know that the struggles in my life are basically pidlyshlt compared to a lot of other people. And I know this stuff from things I have read from you guys. So please dont judge me on a completely legit decision. I will try to word things differently as not to offend you for now on.

-Xionide

Xionide · Dec 13, 2003

I am sorry for portraying myself like I hate my life. I love my life. I was just stating the shlt that has happened before. I am sorry that I slammed the door in your face when you were trying to give me advice.

-xionide

nativesunshine · Dec 13, 2003

i only have one left...

and she is the sweetest thing to ever walk the face of this planet.

pretty damn good cook too. my grandmother is awesome.

Azraele · Dec 13, 2003

I think that your feelings should be talked about. Is it possible to do in in a non-confrontational way with them?

waggy · Dec 13, 2003

well then go blow your head off.

bleeb · Dec 13, 2003

Just flat out tell them, "YOU RUINED MY LIFE, I HATE YOU, THEN LIST ALL THAT IS BOTHERING YOU. Don't hold back, let it all out!"

So I prety much hate my grandparents....

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