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so i left a $0.25 tip today

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Aharami

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Originally posted by: Whisper
Unless the waiter/waitress was a complete a$$, I'll leave a tip...especially in your situation, where the delay likely wasn't her fault. But that's just me.

I understand. I probably would have left her a better tip if she'd brought us the non-lost meal on time and had been upfront with us, instead of having one prepared meal wait and get cold for the other lost meal.

By the time time the cold meal came back to us re-prepared, we'd already been there for an hour and had finished the quesadillas. We didnt even eat 7/8th of the nachos
 

mugs

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Originally posted by: Aharami
I understand. I probably would have left her a better tip if she'd brought us the non-lost meal on time and had been upfront with us, instead of having one prepared meal wait and get cold for the other lost meal.

Bringing both out at the same time is normal since the appetizers were your meals. It's rude to eat before everyone at the table has been served, so they bring everyone's meal at the same time.
 

compuwiz1

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Cheap bastige!

Not all her fault, but c'mon man, 25c? You have must have a subhuman mean streak. I'm sure her sore feet that she has been on for her shift will thank you for that quarter, man. :(
 

Aharami

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Originally posted by: KarenMarie
At the very least she should have had a manager at your table. No matter what went wrong, she could have salvaged your neg experience by trying to make it right. WITH THE MANAGER

But, problem or not... one of the first things I learned while being a GM was that ... manangers are supposed to sweep the dining room every so often to speak to guest. Ask how everything is and etc.

You got ****** service all around.

the manager did come out to bring us the re-prepared nachos. but the damage had already been done by then. This was an hr after we were seated
 

Aharami

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Originally posted by: compuwiz1
Cheap bastige!

Not all her fault, but c'mon man, 25c? You have must have a subhuman mean streak. I'm sure her sore feet that she has been on for her shift will thank you for that quarter, man. :(

you do know that the tip doesnt go straight to her, right? all the tips are combined and shared amongst the hostesses, waitresses, busboys, and chefs. I know cuz gf's sister used to work at another applebees as a hostess.

subhuman mean streak? did you not read the part of the OP where I said I rarely tip below 15% for any acceptable service?
 

preslove

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Originally posted by: Aharami
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
At the very least she should have had a manager at your table. No matter what went wrong, she could have salvaged your neg experience by trying to make it right. WITH THE MANAGER

But, problem or not... one of the first things I learned while being a GM was that ... manangers are supposed to sweep the dining room every so often to speak to guest. Ask how everything is and etc.

You got ****** service all around.

the manager did come out to bring us the re-prepared nachos. but the damage had already been done by then. This was an hr after we were seated

He didn't comp your meal? Damn, I wouldn't go back there again.
 

TheGizmo

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ya straight up, i woulda left after 45min, no way they'd have kept me waiting that long... i could be doing better things.

i woulda left a buck too, but whatever its the same thing, b/c a buck sucks as a tip too, but 25 cents just makes you look bold, and thats what you were goin for... so.. success!
 

Aharami

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Originally posted by: TheGizmo
ya straight up, i woulda left after 45min, no way they'd have kept me waiting that long... i could be doing better things.

i woulda left a buck too, but whatever its the same thing, b/c a buck sucks as a tip too, but 25 cents just makes you look bold, and thats what you were goin for... so.. success!

yea. i was trying to make a statement. I wanted them to know that I knowingly left a bad tip. A bad tipper might leave a buck as his usual tip. But noone leaves 25 cents as a tip. I wanted them to know that Im not a bad tipper in general - that Im leaving this bad tip for a reason
 

daveymark

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Originally posted by: Aharami
Originally posted by: sandmanwake
That's 25 cents more than I would have left.

i think leaving a ultra crappy tip like 1 cent or 25 cents makes more of a statement than leaving no tip at all.

Only if you're white. If you're not white, the sevrer will just think "Oh I did great, their kind is known for being crappy tippers, that's why I concentrate on giving the white tables better service. The good tips from whitey will offset the bad tips from colored folk. I'm the best server here."
 

Maximilian

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Lemme get this straight... you got subpar service but you LEFT a TIP??? Why?? Screw tipping!
 

mugs

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Originally posted by: daveymark
Originally posted by: Aharami
Originally posted by: sandmanwake
That's 25 cents more than I would have left.

i think leaving a ultra crappy tip like 1 cent or 25 cents makes more of a statement than leaving no tip at all.

Only if you're white. If you're not white, the sevrer will just think "Oh I did great, their kind is known for being crappy tippers, that's why I concentrate on giving the white tables better service. The good tips from whitey will offset the bad tips from colored folk. I'm the best server here."

:D
 

Vic

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Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: Vic
And WhoTF would want to go back to Applebees? Yuck...

Restaurant snobbery never gets old.

Oh wait...

It's the usual sub-par corporate fare. Like going to Olive Garden and expecting real Italian food. What gets old is that people still patronize these establishments.
 

Aharami

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Originally posted by: daveymark
Originally posted by: Aharami
Originally posted by: sandmanwake
That's 25 cents more than I would have left.

i think leaving a ultra crappy tip like 1 cent or 25 cents makes more of a statement than leaving no tip at all.

Only if you're white. If you're not white, the sevrer will just think "Oh I did great, their kind is known for being crappy tippers, that's why I concentrate on giving the white tables better service. The good tips from whitey will offset the bad tips from colored folk. I'm the best server here."

haha. Im indian, and indians are known to be cheap! I think I just reinforced the stereotype.

Funny thing is, I wouldnt say I'm cheap though (cheap people know they're cheap...and they're proud to be cheap)
 

preslove

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Originally posted by: Vic
Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: Vic
And WhoTF would want to go back to Applebees? Yuck...

Restaurant snobbery never gets old.

Oh wait...

It's the usual sub-par corporate fare. Like going to Olive Garden and expecting real Italian food. What gets old is that people still patronize these establishments.

Applebees is much less expensive. It's more like good fast food.
 

Aharami

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Originally posted by: Vic
Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: Vic
And WhoTF would want to go back to Applebees? Yuck...

Restaurant snobbery never gets old.

Oh wait...

It's the usual sub-par corporate fare. Like going to Olive Garden and expecting real Italian food. What gets old is that people still patronize these establishments.

I know what you man. Gf and I have been frequenting little italy in NYC recently. I dont think I could ever enjoy olive garden again. They make their food too rich and put too much salt.

Olive garden is good if you want something simple like spaghetti with meatballs
 

mugs

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Originally posted by: Vic
Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: Vic
And WhoTF would want to go back to Applebees? Yuck...

Restaurant snobbery never gets old.

Oh wait...

It's the usual sub-par corporate fare. Like going to Olive Garden and expecting real Italian food. What gets old is that people still patronize these establishments.

Again with the snobbery. If people didn't like the food, they wouldn't eat there. Apparantly not everyone shares your taste in food.
 

andylawcc

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Originally posted by: DeviousTrap
That's definately subpar service, but I would't have left that small of a tip, especially if I felt it wasn't the waitress' fault.

ftw
 

AgaBoogaBoo

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The last time I had an issue with food being cold, I told the waitress. She got the manager who came over and told that the meal is on them, it was as simple as that.

OP: Did you say anything about the cold food? If you don't let them know of an issue, you can't ever expect to have things improve.
 

yhelothar

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Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: Vic
Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: Vic
And WhoTF would want to go back to Applebees? Yuck...

Restaurant snobbery never gets old.

Oh wait...

It's the usual sub-par corporate fare. Like going to Olive Garden and expecting real Italian food. What gets old is that people still patronize these establishments.

Again with the snobbery. If people didn't like the food, they wouldn't eat there. Apparantly not everyone shares your taste in food.

People go there not because it's good. It might not suck, but most often mainly go there because they bought into the coporate america hype. I know plenty of people that wouldn't dare to try pizza that didn't come from a chain. They believe in playing it safe, going to an established place. Heck, I doubt many even has enough experience with enough restaurants to even know what good is. The typical american are easily swayed by bullsh!t advertisements.
 

compuwiz1

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Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: Aharami
Originally posted by: daveymark
Originally posted by: Aharami
Originally posted by: sandmanwake
That's 25 cents more than I would have left.

i think leaving a ultra crappy tip like 1 cent or 25 cents makes more of a statement than leaving no tip at all.

Only if you're white. If you're not white, the sevrer will just think "Oh I did great, their kind is known for being crappy tippers, that's why I concentrate on giving the white tables better service. The good tips from whitey will offset the bad tips from colored folk. I'm the best server here."

haha. Im indian, and indians are known to be cheap! I think I just reinforced the stereotype.

Funny thing is, I wouldnt say I'm cheap though (cheap people know they're cheap...and they're proud to be cheap)

Ahhhh, now it's clear. ;)

But dude, I could never stiff someone, unless they called my wife, children, or mother nasty names. Maybe I just have too much compassion for working people.

 

saymyname

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If it's the Pizza delivery person, then no tip. :D

I suck at tipping bad service. I simply can't do it. I'm with you on this. I once gave a waitress a ruble. I've stiffed them when they pissed me off enough. I'm pretty sure I left the lint in my pockets once when I was drunk. I know it sucks for them since they have to pay taxes on money they never got but they shouldn't be waiting on people if they're going to ruin the whole experience. Eating out isn't exactly cheap, especially if you order some drinks.

Sometimes though it's nice to put things in perspective. After a trip overseas you really learn to appreciate the good service we have in the USA. Even our bad service is better than most country's good service.
 

BoomerD

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I'm not a fan of Crapplebees. The menu doesn't do much for me, (I don't like chicken...one of their mainstays), the rest of the menu doesn't really appeal to me, and service, while usually OK, never seems to be good. There are just far too many other choices here to have to "settle" for the big name chains...(although we DO occasionally go to Marie Callender's or Chevy's.
That being said, I agree the service was crappy, and I'm one of those assholes who hold the server responsible for the quality of the food served. If it's cold, not prepared right, or even overcooked, it's on the server. MAYBE not always their fault that it was that way, but it IS their fault if they bring it to me that way...WHY would a server deliver a meal/appetizer that is SUPPOSED to be served hot...but has sat there so long that it is actually cold? Ka-Ching! Sit there for an hour waiting on an appetizer? Ka-Ching! and not only would I have left 2 pennies for a tip, I'd have stopped and let the manager know what happened, and why I left a crappy tip...Let HIM explain it to the server...