So i just found out my best friend is Bi......

[acidvoodoo]

...........and i am extremely freaked out. I would NEVER have guessed this. I mean, he doesn't show amazing interest in girls OR guys. he didn't actually tell me, i just heard from a few of my other friends saying "did you know fran is Bi" and i kept responding with "shut the fsck up as if he is".

so low and behold tonite i say on msn "people are saing you are Bi, is it true etc" and too my amazement he responds with "i'm suprised you didn't know"

i am shocked, but not discusted or anything. i have nothing against gays or Bi's, just that i would NEVER have guessed.

He's currently telling me about the fact that he's not tried things with people in my grade (btw i am only 16, he's 15) because he didn't 'like' anyone.

this is weird

 

[Skel]

At 15 I'm surprised that he even knows what he wants..

 

[notfred]

Besides the fact that my general sentiment is, "he's 15 and may not be entirely sure what he is yet", who really cares? I mean, if he doesn't date anyone at all, he might as well be neuter.

 

[acidvoodoo]

Originally posted by: Skel
At 15 I'm surprised that he even knows what he wants..

exactly what i though. But i will paste something he said


its quite hard to explain, but i have alway had a really open minded veiw of homosexuality, and really had a big hate for homophobes. . . . and then i reallised that i wasn't just someone with an open mind, i actually thought that it . . . interested me. . . . but eventually i realised, i definatly wasn't gay. . . . . .

 

[Zim Hosein]

Originally posted by: Skel
At 15 I'm surprised that he even knows what he wants..

Yep, he sounds Either way it's his choice and his life, be supportive

 

[notfred]

Originally posted by: acidvoodoo

Originally posted by: Skel
At 15 I'm surprised that he even knows what he wants..

exactly what i though. But i will paste something he said


its quite hard to explain, but i have alway had a really open minded veiw of homosexuality, and really had a big hate for homophobes. . . . and then i reallised that i wasn't just someone with an open mind, i actually thought that it . . . interested me. . . . but eventually i realised, i definatly wasn't gay. . . . . .

So basically, he's 15 and curious? I don't think that even quailfies him as bisexual.

 

[Angrymarshmello]

As long as he doesn't try to mount you or something you should be supportive of his decision

 

[acidvoodoo]

ye, like i said i don't have anything against it, so i will try to remain as normal as i can, but it's a COMPLETE shock, i would never have guessed:Q

 

[acidvoodoo]

Originally posted by: notfred

Originally posted by: acidvoodoo

Originally posted by: Skel
At 15 I'm surprised that he even knows what he wants..

exactly what i though. But i will paste something he said


its quite hard to explain, but i have alway had a really open minded veiw of homosexuality, and really had a big hate for homophobes. . . . and then i reallised that i wasn't just someone with an open mind, i actually thought that it . . . interested me. . . . but eventually i realised, i definatly wasn't gay. . . . . .

So basically, he's 15 and curious? I don't think that even quailfies him as bisexual.

kind of what i thought. The reason i would never have guessed is because he has none nothing with a guy or acted like he wanted to :S

 

[Moonbeam]

What other people are never surprises me, but if I were to wake up one moring and find out I was bi, that would really be a shock.

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: Moonbeam
What other people are never surprises me, but if I were to wake up one moring and find out I was bi, that would really be a shock.

Lol,you never fail to crack me up!

 

[SlowSS]

As long as your friend is cool to hang out with, then his sexual orientation shouldn't matter.

 

[waggy]

If he is a good friend then he knows you are not gay or bi. so i wouldnt worry about him hitting on you.

I would be supportive of him. He is going to need all the real friends he can.

anyway is his sexual prefrence something to lose a good friend over?

 

[acidvoodoo]

yea, i'm not gonna like stop hanging with him or anything, it just camea s too much of a suprise. We talked for ages, and he answered all my 'questions' fully which was good, as i didn't expect him to, but overall things shouldn't be too different

 

[Moonbeam]

Geekbabe: Lol,you never fail to crack me up!
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Moonbeam clamps hand on mouth and struggles for control.

For a moment there I was ready to lapse into confuciun, er a confusion.

 

[ROTC1983]

My best friend turned out to be bi after he told me when we graduated. He thought by telling me he would ruin the friendship, but after I got over the initial shock, I said it was cool and he is still my best friend...

 

[WinkOsmosis]

Originally posted by: Skel
At 15 I'm surprised that he even knows what he wants..

I dunno about you but when I was 15 I was pretty sure I was straight...

 

[thomsbrain]

why would you have had any reason to guess? most bi people don't walk around with big signs that say "I AM BI." if you're not homophobic, why would this be shocking? it's not any different than finding out he likes chocolate ice cream.

 

[Mrfrog840]

i would say something here but i would get banned for life.....