Have to have one damn trustworthy waiter/waitress for that.. besides... I don't think I'd let them walk off to the kitchen with my ring... even if they don't take it, they could lose it... or someone else could take it. In my possession, then hers, at all times.. 🙂 I'm not spending that much money on it otherwise! 🙂
Do you guys always go for the platinum band? Some people say friends (etc.) don't look at the band, just the diamond... what did you spend the money on?