Freejack2
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Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Originally posted by: Freejack2
Ask yourself these questions should a potential relationship turn serious.
1) Do you want to be a father to a child, not even thinking about the fact the child is not yours, you'll be 68 when the kid goes off to college.
2) Will you be able to keep up with her in lovemaking. From what I understand women reach their sexual peak around 30. At 55 will you be able to meet her physical needs?
3) Being half your age would you be able to treat her as an equal, or when arguments come up would you be quick to point out her age. And would she be just as quick to point out your age? Nothing will piss her off quicker than telling her she knows nothing just because she is younger than you.
4) Sometimes people from a military background have certain ways and mindsets that might clash with your lifestyle. Are you willing to meet her halfway on these ways and mindsets?
#1 Doesn't really bother me that much.
#2 Well I DID think about this. They DO have drugs for this now though don't they? 😉
#3 I have been there and done that. I have dated quite a few women younger than myself in the past. It didn't come up often, but it DID come up. However my LAST girl friend was very close to my age and we STILL had argument because I knew more than she did. I guess that's just the price you pay foe being somewhat intelligent. 😉
#4 Not really a problem since I'm ex military as well. Now the fact that she was a Squid and I was a Marine on the other hand... 😉:shocked:
Sounds like you have it all in hand, if you get to date her I wish you the best of luck. 🙂