can anyone attest to whether or not the 55nm 9800GTs are capable of doing SLI with an 8800GT? if not, i havent seen hardly anyone selling new 8800GTs in ages, everything has moved to 55nm G92 and my understanding was that support for these configurations is limited at best, though it is possible with other cards to some extent so im going to let someone more familiar chime in (a 9800GTX can SLI with a 9800GTX+, and a 9800GTX+ can SLI with a GTS250 (new or old power design, but you cannot SLI a 9800GTX with a GTS250).
as for my recommendation, look at putting your money away for a whole new system, most video card options from the next gen will probably start to realize the full potential of 16x PCI-e 2.0 better than they did in the past, and im not one to recommend creating system bottlenecks unless you cant help it. your CPU will start to become a bottleneck soon as more games take advantage of multicore configurations, and with newer cards + new driver sets, the cpu will become a bottleneck as well in relation to keeping the GPU fed with instructions as much as the pci-e 1.1 bus would, unless you want to buy into current gen hardware (GTX275 or HD4890) with next gen ATI only a month out at the earliest, 2 at the latest.