I think I understand what you are saying. In college, I dated a cheerleader who was also into muscle building. Her body was perfect, but she was the typical ditsy blonde. Because she was very skinny and muscle built, well, she was a bit uncomfortable to be with. Buns of steel hurt! No two ways about it! I wanted soft and smooth, not hard with muscles! We finally broke up and I then began a hunt for a larger/softer woman. Wow, there are thousands of them out there! Basically everywhere! Soft and smooth was easy to find and I have never regretted it. The body builing women like Chyna might be fun to look at, or even dream about, but they are nothing compared to soft and smooth. One study I read was that men who like skinny, muscle built women are repressing a homosexual urge. Hmmmmm......