single people: do you enjoy being single?

zanejohnson

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do you guys enjoy being single?

how do you embrace your singleness, like what are some good activities for single people?

you dont ever get lonely?
 

Leros

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Being single is great IF you have a good group of guy friends.

Being single sucks if you spent all of your time with your previous girlfriend. Because now you're alone.
 

Kromis

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Originally posted by: Leros
Being single is great IF you have a good group of guy friends.

Being single sucks if you spent all of your time with your previous girlfriend. Because now you're alone.

:thumbsup:
 

IGBT

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has a lower litigation risk then marrage. divorce is extremely expensive. you may never recover financially depending on your age.
 

zerocool84

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There's nothing a single person can do that a married person can't do. Being single doesn't mean you are alone. You can still have the love of your life with you. Marriage is just a contract between two people now-a-days. It's practically meaningless.
 

Kroze

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Being single is great if you got money and go out all the time.
 

rockyct

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Originally posted by: zanejohnson
do you guys enjoy being single?

how do you embrace your singleness, like what are some good activities for single people?

you dont ever get lonely?

ex-gf leave you again?
 

edro

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Apr 5, 2002
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The pool of quality people in your age group declines quickly after your 20s.
You better get a good one while you can or you'll be down to whores and widows in your 30s.
 

Possessed Freak

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Women are time and money. I enjoy both too much to even start to date. Plus, as a very selfish person I believe the first decent fight we got into I would just call the thing off. I can't stand arguments and if a relationship becomes anything approaching work it is not worth my care free lifestyle I enjoy right now.
 

PottedMeat

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10+ posts in a zj thread and not one of these:?!?!

"don't you get more drugs to yourself"
"more time to do drugs"
 

nageov3t

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depends.

most times, it's nice. but sometimes it sucks coming home to an empty apartment or having to scrounge around to find someone to go to a wedding/party with.

lately I've kinda been feeling the urge to want to settle down with someone for awhile.
 

nerp

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I prefer not being single. That's probably because I have a great partner. Single time is fun but after a while catering to every selfish whim gets boring. At least it did for me.
 

Spineshank

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I enjoy being single but its about 2 years now and its starting to get old. But i could probably do it the rest of my life and not really care.
 

polarmystery

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Originally posted by: edro
The pool of quality people in your age group declines quickly after your 20s.
You better get a good one while you can or you'll be down to whores and widows in your 30s.

I'm almost 30! :(

 
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Originally posted by: edro
The pool of quality people in your age group declines quickly after your 20s.
You better get a good one while you can or you'll be down to whores and widows in your 30s.

Hmmm, 37 now, and I'd happily settle for a good whore. :cool:
 

Ktulu

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My ex-wife was a straight up bitch so after that shit being single and lonely is actually pretty awesome no matter how lonely i get.
 

meltdown75

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starting to finally see the benefits. takes a while to see the bright side, and a lot of work. getting separated was the worst thing that ever happened to me, but i'm turning it into the best thing.
 

Platypus

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in between relationships it's kind of nice to be free to do what you want to do whenever but in the end I'm all about settling down with someone.

currently not single and hoping to spend a great more deal of time with him
 

amdhunter

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May 19, 2003
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No I hate it. I cry myself to sleep every night because of it. I cry everytime I rub one off. I cry when I post on ATOT about it. I need a woman bad. :(

Preferably one of the hot ones that post on this forum. :thumbsup:
 

Beev

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I love being single. I have no responsibilities or commitments other than ones to myself, not to mention I have a lot of money that I wouldn't if I had a woman.

Disregard females
 
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SlitheryDee

There are drawbacks and advantages. I'd probably be as happy if I weren't single, but for different reasons.
 

Chrono

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Recently became single again, however not by choice, hah. So far, it's not bad at all. I've been hanging out with a lot of friends that I did not hang out with prior, but it is difficult since it seems that everybody I know is in a relationship. I do love the fact that I now have time and more money to myself now. The ability to choose and do as I please is awesome too.