since people been asking questions in the matter of luv i thought i would too

kumanchu

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hehe last night i took an acquaintance out clubbing. bad club, wierd atmosphere, and well we left after about an hour or so. cold like crazy with freezing rain / and the likes while we were dressed a bit on the cooler side. we then went to a coffee shop.

in any case, she is this REALLY attractive (mentally and physically) filipino girl, and to say the least she can rock my world any time.

when i was calling her to go out in the first place she asks "give me one good reason why i should go" and i was like crap... does she KNOW i like her already? the best thing i could think of was "yur c00l as sh!t and i wanna chill with you". in line to get into the club, it was c0ld as knutz and windy, so she leaned against me and whatnot, and i was like C00l!. later in the club she told me that she used to like this guy i met once. i asked "and then", she says "not any more" and smiles at me. i was like WOAH. in anycase, we left after a short while and went to a late nite coffee shop, and had a nice conversation etc. oh and i forgot to mention a good friend of mine (a guy) came with us, so it was a party of three; he is MUCH better looking than me, but it seemed she was paying a lot more attention to me than him (i think thats good ^_^). in the convo we had at the coffee shop, she brought up the fact that she liked to play mind games. i was thinking greaaat. so then i started to wonder if she was just messing with my head.. and then she told me i HAVE to take her to a rave ( it seems to be well established on campus that i am a raver, why? i have no clue) so i was like sure; and we have already made plans to goto at least one party ( she wants me to take her to another one before hand as i have connections to the so called "underground").

in the end, my question is: does she want to make something between the two of us, or is she just looking for a friend?
 

Noriaki

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Try it, you'll regret it if you don't.

Let me tell you a little story of my own:

It's mid november at the infamous Cole-House-November-Pary (we had about 10 people with november birthdays so it was customary to get together mid november with a whack of people and celebrate them all at once).

So I'd been chatting with this girl from a city an hour away online, just for kicks we invited her. You don't need the details of what happened, but at any rate, she got a bit scared over something, and I was her best friend there, so she ended up sitting on my knee, and a bit later we were cuddling on the couch. Then we had to go back to where we were staying the night (we were both staying with one of my best friends) and she kept holding my hand on the walk back, and then we were doing something on the computer and I was standing behind her, she kept leaning back against me and grabbing my hands more and stuff like this.

Later that night she went to bed, she asked me if I would "lay wit her for a bit while she went to sleep" (not sex or anything like that, she just wanted to cuddle more).


Now, at this point I'm asking myself, is she just scared and needing a friend, or does she like me? But I just left it alone...

Well my friend, this was 3.5 years ago, and I have since fallen fully in love with her, but I missed my chance, she's had many other boy friends since and none me. I very much regret not asking her if she liked me the next day. I was close, but I didn't. Ever since I've asked a few mutual female friends what they thought and they said I should definately have asked her out, but now my opportunity is long since passed by and I'll never know for sure :(

Don't miss yours my friend.
 

kumanchu

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:confused:

eh. see the thing is, i'm a wimp. certified and 100% guaranteed not DOA. well i'm a wimp when it comes to girls. second, she is good friends with a few of my friends (just chance) and well, if i embarrased myself i dunno... i'm being a wimp...

/me screams in frustration with a side of confusion garnished with a touch of "i've haven't been with a girl in anyway in a long time"
 

Noriaki

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I'm a wimp too, that's why I didn't say anything to her. I chickened out.

But I regret it fully. It's hard to tell her you like when you have no idea if she'll tell you back, and I bailed...I can't say I'd grudge you the bailing either...but try man...I thnk you'll come to regret it later...
 

gooseman

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kumanchu, go for it man. When you get to be my age you'll realize that the worst thing she can do is say no but if you don't try you'll always wonder if she would have said yes!!!
 

kumanchu

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/me gets ready to go for it.
/me picks up his fone (there is an underground party tonite)
/me dials the number
/me hangs up.

:(
 

Azraele

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Just ask her. If you don't, you'll wonder what could have been the rest of your life, which is ten times worse than a simple "no." Good Luck. :)
 

Azraele

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Bobby Ribs: there's nothing funny about kumanchu's predicament.
:disgust:
 

DDCSpeed

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this is easy. Just go ask her. get in and get out. if she plays mind games with you then just forget about her.
 

troglodytis

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Got to kill the wuss in me
Change my moped into a motorcycle with a banana seat
Give me reliefe with Rolaids
Make the cartoons in my head noth'n but Johnny Quest
It's 80 degrees and i haven't touched the caffine, yet i'm cold and i've got the shakes
Destroy the ceiling fan
Got to do someth'n
Got to kill the wuss in me




Got to kill the wuss in ME!


--Corn Mo & Mauve Oed