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DanTMWTMP

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Well first off, MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!


k that said,


I'll tell you a story that just happened about half an hour ago. I'm Asian BTW (you'll understand later why i said this).

I was at AMC theatres 20 at Puente Hills, and watching House of Flying Daggers w/ my family. (great movie btw. Well not GREAT, but pretty entertaining, albiet a bit cheezy rofl, but still, i loved it).


There was a punk asian kid w/ his gf and family behind us. They were a bit loud and kept kicking our chairs. My dad was a bit upset about this and gave them warnings by tapping behind his chair and turning around and saying "please..." Well, they kept on doing it. They did it to my chair, but I wasn't THAT annoyed by it, but it was a bit rude of them to do it.


So after the movie ended, my dad stood up and said "why did you guys keep kicking the chairs?..fvck..goddamn ..." I mean my dad and I gave them fair amount of warning throughout the movie, so after the movie ended, he just said that. I thought at the time that was a fair remark to say to them. Of course I know I'm wrong.. :(


As we were walking out of the movie, that punk asian kid bastard guy said "what the fvck man, if you want something, then come back here and give it..or go shove yourself." My dad didn't hear it as he was on his way out, but I HEARD IT.

you can insult me all day, but NO ONE INSULTS MY DAD.

I ran up to him and i wanted to sock him. My fast acting brother stopped me in my tracks.. I spilled out expetives in return reallyh loudly and kept on trying to go up to him..my Dad and bro kept on trying to stop me.


My bro and dad said "it's ok, calm down." as they came out, i was ready to punch him, but my little bro was quick and stopped me again..my bro's buff!!

He kept saying expletives back, and my dad went on my side and whacked him on the head :Q
I ran up to him and shoved him and kept spilling expletives. He never attacked back. his family was there too :(


Sigh.

I friggin hate myself. I started it. It's christmas, and I had to do that to him. Punk kid or not, he shouldn't have deserved it. I'm not like this. I should've shrugged it off.
I KNOW I'M NOT LIKE THIS. why did I explode? even though he annoyed me, i usually would've walked it off..these recent yrs, i've always wanted the last word..for what? to make a fool out of myself in public?

sigh

:(

I sarcastically said "merry xmas" on the way out..sigh WTF.


Anyways, after that, i gave my bro and parents nice presents and recieved awesome present
merry xmas! :)




Cliffs:
We're watching movie
punk kid keeps kicking chairs (most likely inadvertently
after movie, dad complains to them.
kid talks back w/ expletives
I explode in theatre..attack him..only to be stopped by bro and dad.
after we get out of theatre...i shoved him, shouted out expletives, made a fool out of myself in front of everyone....because i looked like the aggressor, and his family was there :(


additional notes:
from exploding back, it only caused more trouble. Again, I don't want to be run over, but damn, i should've at least have done what white folks do...they talk sarcastically back in a VERY CALM MANNER...and still manage to piss his opponent off, but the opponent never does anything..

white folks, teach me this!
:(
 

Mo0o

Lifer
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Damn, just when i thought the story got good. Oh well, merry christmas
 

bsobel

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Punk kid or not, he shouldn't have deserved it.

IMHO, you did nothing wrong. If it was bad enough that your dad said somthing after the movie and he wasn't samrt enough to just apologize or leave....

Merry Christmas.
Bill

 

AgaBoogaBoo

Lifer
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Don't get caught up in the whole "you can insult me, but NEVER my mother/father"

Just move on with life, as long as they're fine physically, it's time to move on, life goes on
 

Aimster

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He started it.. he said come back.. you owned him.. enough said.

You are lucky he didnt act like he was brain damanged and sue your dad or get you guys arrested.
 

DanTMWTMP

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Originally posted by: LeetViet
So you have to take sh1t from strangers to not have an "anger" problem?

it was a small thing that could've gotten worse. These days, i always feel that i have to have the last word and talk back..

but it's xmas...i shoudln't have exploded. I shouldve just calmly talked back...
 

BannedTroll

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Originally posted by: DanTMWTMP
Originally posted by: LeetViet
So you have to take sh1t from strangers to not have an "anger" problem?

it was a small thing that could've gotten worse. These days, i always feel that i have to have the last word and talk back..

but it's xmas...i shoudln't have exploded. I shouldve just calmly talked back...
fvck that.......I'm the one that needs anger management because I would have (and have) started the beating no matter what the result while the movie was playing. Thank you liberals for putting cable in the county jail.
 

EvilYoda

Lifer
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I don't understand why you feel bad, lol...the fact that I'm a huge movie guy might have to do with how severely pissed off I get by seat-kickers, but sitting through a whole movie would drive me NUTS.

Remember, you don't have to beat the sh*t out of him, just make him look bad in public. Shove him, slap him around, see if he'll do something. :D
 

DanTMWTMP

Lifer
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Originally posted by: virtueixi
BTW what was his family doing when this was occuring?

just looking dumbfounded as their kid is being yelled at...his gf looked scared.


anyways, it's now officially christmas day here in the westcoast.

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

me and my bro is currently in charge of sweets (cakes, cookies) for tomorrow...so we have a busy night ahead.

i feel a better now. hehe
 

lavagirl669

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I would have done the same thing....

esp if it was directed at ANY of my family members or friends.

That is a no no.

You did the right thing....
 

Gunther

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Lol, I think he deserved it. Your dad asked the kid to stop and he didn't. You should have peed on him :)
 

Siva

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Just relax, its over. No need to stress now.

Just take a breath and think about what you're doing next time. If you know you're gonna end up regretting and lamenting your actions on the internet later that night, then maybe don't go running at a kid the next time he insults you or your family.
 

OS

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Don't beat yourself up over it. The bitchass had it coming. Better he learn his lesson now than later from a bunch of mexican guys giving him a curb job.