This is a very touchy subject with very blurred lines, and one that makes sweeping generalizations.
First, we as a society have gotten into the habit of calling anything nude AND sexual under the age of 18 as "child porn", and those who look at it as pedophiles. We've tainted the word, really. There is a humungous difference in someone being sexually attracted to a 6 year old and a 16 year old. Like, not even in the same ballpark difference. This comes down to societal conditioning. There are so many countries with age of consents far below 18, and who's to say theyre wrong? Those countries sure dont.
That said, the other sweeping generalization that drives me batty is calling those involved in underage video production "victims" and "taken advantage of". This is complete bullshit. Again, obviously a 6 year old cant consent. A 16 year old CAN. Worlds of difference.
I dont seek out underage porn but one particular type I like often has it in it's portfolio. Cams. There is a new trend in cams where the two people having video sex give consent by flashing a peace sign...or holding 4 fingers up...something like that. Many videos Ive seen the girl will give the consent sign and proceed to do her thing for the cam. And many times they are OBVIOUSLY underage. They arent coerced. They arent tricked. They arent pressured. They willingly show their goods knowing it will be recorded.
And then theres the couples cams. Ive seen many where both participants couldnt be more than 15. Again, willingly and knowingly.
The point also should be made that even in the countries where AOC is under 18, its still illegal to video sexual encounters. If two residents of Spain one aged 13 one aged 40 want to have sex, thats fine and legal. They just cant video doing it.
Specifically to the OP, I get your point. But as others have said, the law is the law. I personally think the speed limit on I10 between Phoenix and the CA border should be 100. But its not.