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Should I send this? YAFP

The Batt?sai

Diamond Member
this girl that used to be my friend sent me this message this morning.

Hey, things arent straight between us and you'll probably have deleted this before I can even send it but, I thought Id send you a message.
I dont have any apologies for you, althought Ive already tried that. But we both work in very insecure, hard-headed ways.

Your still alive right? Send me a message or something. Sometime. When your ego allows you to.

If we were ever really friends. . .you'd make as much of an attempt.

Thanks.

Kris




This is what I'm about to send to her. Should I add anything else? (i think she was jealous i was interested in another girl, which is bizarre, cause she has a boyfriend. WTF? 😕


i don't really know why u contacted me but i don't think we should talk. i don't really trust you anymore. no matter if u feel like u apologized or not for it, i was going to tell her about it. me and her were going to wait on the sex because its what she wanted and its what i wanted. we were both jaded on the whole sex thing. there's more to life than sex. i was gonna let her get to know me a little better before i told her, so she could be like, well u were with someone that had that, but u are clean so i'm not going to let it bother me.

it wasn't your place to drive a wedge between me and her. me and her don't talk anymore at all. thats mostly your fault. (not that i'm mad. it just proved she was a shallow person)

i don't care what the reason was that you did it. thats the kind of thing that ends a friendship and it ended ours. i wish you the best in life and i hope you respect my wishes to leave me be. i think we've both outgrown each other. we should just let it be how it is, done. goodbye kris






cliffs for the lazy 😛

1. friend tells girl i'm interesting in something untrue about me
2. this drives girl away from me
3. i don't speak to said friend in months
4. said old friend sends me email today
5. i'm sending a goodbye email to her so she'll leave me alone. should i add anything else?
 
I was just going along with the crowd before, but now, all on my own I can say:

I hate you. Die in a fire.

I wish there was some ironic way that your own horrible posts could kill you.
 
How can you expect us to tell you if there's anything else to add if you won't even tell us that your email means? I have no idea whether or not you should add anything because I have no idea what's going on between you and "her" and "Kris".
 
Originally posted by: Nebor
I was just going along with the crowd before, but now, all on my own I can say:

I hate you. Die in a fire.

I wish there was some ironic way that your own horrible posts could kill you.

u mean diaf? 😛

yes there is some ironic way. we'll all die of heart disease from being lazy and neffing all night long! 😛
 
Originally posted by: chuckywang
How can you expect us to tell you if there's anything else to add if you won't even tell us that your email means? I have no idea whether or not you should add anything because I have no idea what's going on between you and "her" and "Kris".

kris is a woman too. the girl i was interested in was amanda. i don't talk to amanda anymore cause kris told her something about me that wasn't true and amanda was real upset about it. i don't know why kris did it, she acted jealous or something, but she had a boyfriend. so thats just damn weird
 
Originally posted by: chuckywang
How can you expect us to tell you if there's anything else to add if you won't even tell us that your email means? I have no idea whether or not you should add anything because I have no idea what's going on between you and "her" and "Kris".

Originally posted by: chuckywang
Oh, btw, you write like a middle schooler....if that.


nice one. newb
 
Originally posted by: Nebor
I was just going along with the crowd before, but now, all on my own I can say:

I hate you. Die in a fire.

I wish there was some ironic way that your own horrible posts could kill you.
FTW! :beer:
 
Meh, if she knew you had slept with someone with AIDS or Gonorrhea or something she was justified in warning the other girl. The other girl could then make sure she saw your test results (and that the proper amount of time had passed for an accurate test).

(Edit just as you posted, heh. Undid.)
 
Originally posted by: sunase
Meh, if she knew you had slept with someone with AIDS or Gonorrhea or something she was justified in warning the other girl. The other girl could then make sure she saw your test results (and that the proper amount of time had passed for an accurate test).

it wasn't aids 😛. it had been 8 months after and my tests were all clean. it wasn't necessary of her to "Warn" her because I was going to anyways. read the original post.

i still think some people should mind their own business.
 
1) You hadn't told her. The other girl did the right thing to make sure since you were hiding it so far.

2) It must have been a very close call since you are so sensitive about it.
 
Originally posted by: sunase
Meh, if she knew you had slept with someone with AIDS or Gonorrhea or something she was justified in warning the other girl. The other girl could then make sure she saw your test results (and that the proper amount of time had passed for an accurate test).

(Edit just as you posted, heh. Undid.)

lol why edit? 🙂
 
Originally posted by: sunase
1) You hadn't told her. The other girl did the right thing to make sure since you were hiding it so far.

2) It must have been a very close call since you are so sensitive about it.

how did she do the right thing? i wasn't hiding anything. i was going to tell her. but if u tell someone something too fast, it drives them away. ya dig?
 
Edit was just writing it out more. ^^ Being so coy about it, just like you are in this thread, makes it sound much worse than it really is. That's all. If you'd had worked mentioning it in early with the girl, you'd be better off now.

edit: missing word ^^
 
Originally posted by: sunase
Edit was just writing it out more. ^^ Being so coy about, just like you are in this thread, makes it sound much worse than it really is. That's all. If you'd had worked mentioning it in early with the girl, you'd be better off now.

what i should have done was not told the friend, or not told her about the girl i liked. she was fvcking jealous or something of it, but thats weird cause she had a boyfriend. i called her today to ask her what she wanted, and she was like 'omg i love you!!' WTF 😕 and saying i should come up there to see her. i don't want to see her. she acted like a total ass to me. u don't be sharing all your secrets like the 6 oclock news.

the funny thing?

the girl i liked is the one that told me about her telling her. weird eh? oh well. maybe u were right. i was gonna tell her and i was close to telling her. i just didn't want to drive her away thats all. i wanted her to know me a little better before i go and bring up the past. thats all
 
Originally posted by: sunase
Edit was just writing it out more. ^^ Being so coy about, just like you are in this thread, makes it sound much worse than it really is. That's all. If you'd had worked mentioning it in early with the girl, you'd be better off now.

i can't tell u what the thing was here on these forums. i'd never hear the end of it :laugh:

i would pwn myself forever if i did 😉
 
Originally posted by: essasin
Don't burn any bridges unless she is a total nut case.

she already burned them. yes i think she is a total nut case. besides, why wait around for that extra .01% to be sure, when i'm already 99.9% sure? :laugh:
 
Originally posted by: The Battosai
Originally posted by: sunase
1) You hadn't told her. The other girl did the right thing to make sure since you were hiding it so far.

2) It must have been a very close call since you are so sensitive about it.

how did she do the right thing? i wasn't hiding anything. i was going to tell her. but if u tell someone something too fast, it drives them away. ya dig?

:thumbsdown:
 
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