Should I send the stuff back?

[JohnCU]

Dated girl for 2 months. Girl broke up with me because she wants ex-bf back after telling me she loved me a few weeks before. Gave me a semi-nice watch and A&F shirt for christmas.

Should I mail those two items back to her in a box with no note, just the stuff?

 

[djheater]

Yes because it will be cleaner. You could also dump it in a chipper which IMHO would be more satisfying.

 

[Bryophyte]

Nah, she broke up with you.

 

[Bryophyte]

Well, if they still have the tags on (and she could return them) you probably should. But what is she going to do with them if she can't return them?

 

[JohnCU]

I mean, I've worn the watch and the shirt, but I'll never be able to wear them again without thinking about her, so I don't want them anymore. She can't return the stuff, but I just wanna make some kind of statement.

 

[jadinolf]

Take the tags off and send it back.

That'll teach her.

 

[FoBoT]

send it back to spite her

 

[Joker81]

thats what FS/FT is for

 

[Bryophyte]

Originally posted by: JohnCU
I mean, I've worn the watch and the shirt, but I'll never be able to wear them again without thinking about her, so I don't want them anymore. She can't return the stuff, but I just wanna make some kind of statement.

Give them to a brother or friend. Try not to be too much of a bitch over a 2 month long "relationship."

 

[conjur]

Hell no!

Give them to a homeless person or something.

 

Sell it.

Sending it back only means you are still thinking about her in some way.

 

[JohnCU]

Originally posted by: Bryophyte

Originally posted by: JohnCU
I mean, I've worn the watch and the shirt, but I'll never be able to wear them again without thinking about her, so I don't want them anymore. She can't return the stuff, but I just wanna make some kind of statement.

Give them to a brother or friend. Try not to be too much of a bitch over a 2 month long "relationship."

Probably right, just feel a little led on.

 

[Wuffsunie]

Hell no. She gave you those as gifts with all intent that you keep them. They are yours by all right and you can do whatever you want with them. And I'd sell them before I'd ever give them back if I were you

 

[Yossarian]

Originally posted by: djheater
Yes because it will be cleaner. You could also dump her in a chipper which IMHO would be more satisfying.

fixed that for you

 

[Thegonagle]

It's a fairly nice watch? Just put the stuff away. You'll be able to come back to them later when you no longer care about her or what she does, and when you do, hey, free watch!

 

[Ness]

Stop being a whinner and wear the watch.

The shirt you can give to your dog as a chew toy because A&F is annoying. That will help you get over it and make it easier to wear the watch.

 

[Bryophyte]

Originally posted by: JohnCU

Originally posted by: Bryophyte

Originally posted by: JohnCU
I mean, I've worn the watch and the shirt, but I'll never be able to wear them again without thinking about her, so I don't want them anymore. She can't return the stuff, but I just wanna make some kind of statement.

Give them to a brother or friend. Try not to be too much of a bitch over a 2 month long "relationship."

Probably right, just feel a little led on.

You probably were led on, but eventually she will grow up and learn to stop playing games with peoples' emotions. I'm sorry you were caught in the crossfire.

 

[Bryophyte]

Originally posted by: Thegonagle
It's a fairly nice watch? Just put the stuff away. You'll be able to come back to them later when you no longer care about her or what she does, and when you do, hey, free watch!

Ding, Ding, Ding! We have a winner!

 

[GtPrOjEcTX]

the rule is: the person who is broken up with gets to keep all the stuff given to them.

 

[dirtboy]

Originally posted by: JohnCU
I mean, I've worn the watch and the shirt, but I'll never be able to wear them again without thinking about her, so I don't want them anymore. She can't return the stuff, but I just wanna make some kind of statement.

Don't be a wuss. Just keep the stuff and wear it. C'mon, you were only with her 2 months.

Want to make a bigger statement? Send the stuff to me and I'll wear it. I'll even have a picture taken with those items on and you can just mail that to her instead.

 

[crumpet19]

I could sure use a watch....

 

[MaxDepth]

Just because you couldn't keep her satisfied doesn't mean you can't enjoy the gifts.

 

[AmericasTeam]

Originally posted by: MaxDepth
Just because you couldn't keep her satisfied doesn't mean you can't enjoy the gifts.

It always comes down to that.

 

[sillymofo]

Gifts are gifts, you don't ask for it back, you don't expect it back, and you don't give it back. Gifts are not loans.

 

[Wallydraigle]

One word: ebay.