Originally posted by: Syringer
Racist comments are dumb.
Those who take them personally/seriously are even dumber. Why should you let the ignorance/idiocy of someone who has to resort to racial slurs affect you?
Reminds me of this article.. http://heelpress.com/article.php?id=29 Long but well worth it.
People cannot conciously choose what is painful, it's as simple as that. One can internalize what hurts and try to bottle it, or find ways of deflecting it, but the initial pain will always exist.Originally posted by: chambersc
If a well educated man is that emotional over a few casual words then he's obviously not as smart as we make him out to be.Originally posted by: Brackis
Originally posted by: virtualgames0
He's a moron if he feels insulted by some random guy saying crap at him."I am not going to take that. He was insulting my race, my family, my integrity. For him to call me a monkey ... that should not happen today," Mutombo said.
There's no justification for what he did.
But that's the thing, Dikemebe Mutombo is a brilliant man who speaks over half a dozen languages fluently and went to Georegtown on an academic merit scholarship....
Sticks and stones may break your bones, but which has a lasting effect? Broken bones heal, but words and feelings will live on.
BTW, words are what you make them. Their only power is the emotions they inflict upon you. If you choose not to let them bother you, they won't.
Originally posted by: Whisper
Originally posted by: Beachboy
They are supposed to be professionals. They should ignore the taunts or direct security to deal with people who harrass them.
Agreed.
However, in the Artest situation, while I don't agree with the response, it's a bit more understandable in that position, seeing as how the fan crossed the line and physically accosted him as well.
Originally posted by: Andyb23
That kid had no balls at all. It was pretty much him rolling over for a bunch of yokels making veiled comments towards him.
Originally posted by: miri
Originally posted by: Andyb23
That kid had no balls at all. It was pretty much him rolling over for a bunch of yokels making veiled comments towards him.
Im korean as well and i think that dude overreacted
I grew up in the south as well, Texas, NC, VA and experienced what he experienced nearly every day. White people hardly made fun of me though, it was usually mexicans or blacks. But if i were to fight everytime someone made a comment like that to me, i would have gotten in a few thousand fights during school. I just got used to the comments and they didnt really bother me anymore. Only time I really reacted was when these hispanic kids were making fun of my mom and another time when I got a padlock thrown at my head.
My highschool graduating class had nearly 1000 students, there were only 2 asians in that class
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: miri
Im korean as well and i think that dude overreacted
I grew up in the south as well, Texas, NC, VA and experienced what he experienced nearly every day. White people hardly made fun of me though, it was usually mexicans or blacks. But if i were to fight everytime someone made a comment like that to me, i would have gotten in a few thousand fights during school. I just got used to the comments and they didnt really bother me anymore. Only time I really reacted was when these hispanic kids were making fun of my mom and another time when I got a padlock thrown at my head.
My highschool graduating class had nearly 1000 students, there were only 2 asians in that class
that said, could you have effectively reacted?
Many that say they accepted something, had no other way around it.
Originally posted by: miri
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: miri
Im korean as well and i think that dude overreacted
I grew up in the south as well, Texas, NC, VA and experienced what he experienced nearly every day. White people hardly made fun of me though, it was usually mexicans or blacks. But if i were to fight everytime someone made a comment like that to me, i would have gotten in a few thousand fights during school. I just got used to the comments and they didnt really bother me anymore. Only time I really reacted was when these hispanic kids were making fun of my mom and another time when I got a padlock thrown at my head.
My highschool graduating class had nearly 1000 students, there were only 2 asians in that class
that said, could you have effectively reacted?
Many that say they accepted something, had no other way around it.
i think i did effectively react my doing nothing
i was outnumbered and outsized (malnourished as a child)
I could have gotten into fights every day, but what would that have accomplished? suspension? I would have had to fight larger and more numerous opponents. I did take tae kwon do, but we all know that martial arts is more a exercise than anything else
nothing anyone says gives you the right to strike them. any fans who shout out racist remarks should be removed from the premises by security.Originally posted by: Brackis
http://sports.yahoo.com/nba/news;_ylt=A...-rockets-mutombo-fan&prov=ap&type=lgns
Do you think players should acknowledge fans who taunt them and yell back, fight back, grit their teeth and ignore it? Should they refuse to continue playing in the match (been done more than once in european soccer) Beehive of discuss begins now!.......
Originally posted by: moshquerade
nothing anyone says gives you the right to strike them. any fans who shout out racist remarks should be removed from the premises by security.
if someone called out racist things to me or any other kind of insult it would spurr me on to play even harder to show them.
That is the job of Security. It's not the role of the athlete to police the stands.Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: moshquerade
nothing anyone says gives you the right to strike them. any fans who shout out racist remarks should be removed from the premises by security.
if someone called out racist things to me or any other kind of insult it would spurr me on to play even harder to show them.
Security is then taking on the physical role. Why not allow them to stay and voice their opinion?
Originally posted by: Andyb23
I don't think many white people here know what its like to be an a mostly white crowd and have someone say something that offensive to you. Especially when you are as intelligent as Dikembe Mutombo.
Originally posted by: hypn0tik
Why the hell should the just 'grit their teeth and ignore it?'
Give those idiots a beat down.
I agree completely with what Ron Artest did a few seasons ago in Detroit. He was minding his own business when an idiot fan decided to throw his beer at him. Stupid fan got a beat down, as he should have.
Originally posted by: hypn0tik
Why the hell should the just 'grit their teeth and ignore it?'
Give those idiots a beat down.
I agree completely with what Ron Artest did a few seasons ago in Detroit. He was minding his own business when an idiot fan decided to throw his beer at him. Stupid fan got a beat down, as he should have.
Originally posted by: JackBurton
These fans are all weak pvssies. They yell out all this crap that they would NEVER say to a person's face. Why? Because they are in a crowd (and most likely drunk). I think they should be escorted out of the building and beaten severely in a closed room. If anyone asks what happened, the guy fell...many times. I really don't give a sh!t if a player runs up into the stands and beats someone's ass. I just feel sorry for the athlete because he is going to get the sh!t sued out of him.
Originally posted by: krunchykrome
Originally posted by: broon
Name calling is no reason to resort to violence. Ron Artest should have been banned from basketball for attacking a spectator. If I got into a fight with a co-worker or customer (a spectator is a customer) I would be fired on the spot.
Yea, but someone did more than call Ron Artest a bad name, they actually threw a beer at him. He's a human being like the rest of us. Im not sure what you would do if someone threw a beer at you, but Id react in a similar way Ron did.
Originally posted by: chambersc
Originally posted by: JackBurton
These fans are all weak pvssies. They yell out all this crap that they would NEVER say to a person's face. Why? Because they are in a crowd (and most likely drunk). I think they should be escorted out of the building and beaten severely in a closed room. If anyone asks what happened, the guy fell...many times. I really don't give a sh!t if a player runs up into the stands and beats someone's ass. I just feel sorry for the athlete because he is going to get the sh!t sued out of him.
People like you are what are wrong with society. An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.
