she wants me to make a "move" UDPATED!! made a MOVE!!!

[ArkAoss]

Well, I'm pretty aware it's at that time of the relationship; Where I've got to make a "move" not like a one place to another move.

Dang, haven't made any moves in a while not sure if I've got the mojo to try anything.
She's been majorlee hinting that she'd like some play. I just need the jumption to get something going. And also have to arrange some time together. Would an invitation to hang out at a bookshop work? or maybe I should invite her out for coffee.

JEEZE. it's been 2yrs, and the last time was with an over eager freshman.(wasn't sex) It was a little easier then. but this time it's more serious, so I'm very afraid of scaring her away, doing the wrong thing.
gaaa! need a quick refresher course. aaarrgghh... also pretty sure I might not be able to get to see her this weekend.

oh btw, I am not talking sex, just showing my affection, in a serious manner. I.e. flowers, or "Play" just gotta make sure i get to see her this weekend, but I have to blow off my dad's plans. or somthing.


Got the ok from my pops, he don't need me around tonight!


UPDATE!!! WOOT !!!!

Mission was success full!! details below.

 

[MrAnderson]

Is she a hottie? YOU CAN DO IT!! You only live once

 

[ArkAoss]

is she a hottie?
hmm lemme see, perfect middle B cup, wieghs probly less than 110. if even 100. She wears size 2 or 0 jeans. And she's got short hair. I'm talking a very short, but not like a buzz. and well, i used to like long hair. But DANG, there's something about seeing the back of a girls neck now, i can't not check out short haired girls now.

 

[StageLeft]

Go for it - when you feel that "move" down low you know what time it is. Yeah!

 

A candle light dinner works everytime for me

 

[Tauren]

Is this the sweetie you've been telling us about? If so, it seems like you're smitten and anything you do, that has REAL emotion behind it, will come out just fine. Be yourself and mean what you do. It's all good!

 

[Emulex]

Go find a resort or nice mountain cabin, bring a 6 pack of rubbers, and propose to her!!

 

[ArkAoss]

hmm emulex, tempting idea. but well, she wants to finish college before she gets hitched. I'll keep it in mind though, switch the rubbers for a nice RING.

 

[MrAnderson]

ArkAoss- I know what you are saying, my fiance just cut her hair short end of last year and I have finally gotten used to it. I did ask her if she could grow it out a bit more for the wedding though and after that she can have it however she wants it!

 

[Elita1]

Think of something that you both enjoy doing and that makes you both comfortable. The romantic candlelit dinner sometimes makes people a little more uncomfortable than one would think You can add little details that she especially likes to the occasion and that will let her know that you really had her tastes and wants in mind, if you know what I mean.
As always, I recommend being a gentleman; and always speak from your heart and not your pants:Q There will be plenty of time for that in the future.
Do all that and she's yours!


P.S. Dang, that's a lot o' smileys...

 

[Azraele]

The first thing you have to do is make some time for her (note: if you do blow off your dad's plans, be sure to reschedule so he doesn't feel left out or shunned). Then plan an activity that you would both enjoy, whether it be a nature hike or a picnic or coffe amd then later a movie. If you go with the flowers, I think that would go over well. Enjoy the time you spend with her and take it slowly. Don't get nervous and do what feels natural, flowers, a hug, a kiss, or even hand-holding.

 

[ArkAoss]

hmmm... yes, I really like her hair mranderson
Elita1, smiley's are good, and i guess you missed the thread I made the other day, about being unable to eat with her around. I definitly won't be trying to arrange a dinner date

azreale, i really can't blow off my dad. He doesn't have a car, and i have to get him from work for an appointment tonight. We had talked last night, If i did some stuff, he'd let me do stuff tonight; as tomorow night he plans on having me do stuff around the house. But though i did most everything he asked, he still says I have to help him tonight, because my bro and him are meeting with a surgeon for some stuff. AAARGG.

 

[Azraele]

Ark: I'm sure she will understand about your dad. Shoot for next weekend if you have to. At least you'll have plenty of time to plan

 

[ArkAoss]

hey, talked with my dad, he says he don't need me tonight. Gotta give her a call.

 

[IcemanJer]

GO ArkAoss!!

 

[ArkAoss]

i'm gonna try to. I've been seeing signs for a while now, but was waiting for her, forgot I could make move's on my own.

 

[ArkAoss]

goin down to her house now, WML!!!

 

[Azraele]

Good luck

 

[Total Refected Power]

Watch the guy drop his draws and let Mr. Happy be free.

 

[ElFenix]

so shes the girl on the miller hi life commercial where theres a big party going on next door and dude notices that their bed is just bouncing up and down and would be really fun to "play" on? that girl is hot!

 

[ElFenix]

he should probably take konichiwa's advice... "sup, bitch. prom?"

 

[ArkAoss]

Well, I got ahold of her, and she's like, I'm kinda tired tonight, why don't ya come over for diner with me and the family.
And I'm like.. k, but I ate sooo... I ended up being a little fashionably late.
She'd banged her nose on somthing at work; she thought it might be broken. it looked a little swollen. But we uh played scrabble, footsie, stuff. Made her mom some tea in the kitchen, but basically got the message across, without doing anything that might bump her nose. Got her gigglin. Things where very good tonight.
very very good.
ArkAOSS got set up the groove. waa hoo
WooT

 

[amdskip]

Good Job Man