She broke up with me (again)

[GrantMeThePower]

This kinda blows. She and I were together for like a year and a half. Then she broke up with me at new years becuase she felt she really needed to "find herself". After a month she wanted me back. It was a tough choice because I'd just started moving on but I loved her so much that it was worth it. Its been a hard couple of months while she's invovled with her church groups and social activism people and class and work, so we only really got together one or two days a week. But it seemed like the effort would pay off in the end.

She emailed me and said she was really excited to see me. Then she got to my place and we had'the talk'. Not really what I was expecting.

Anyway, just pretty bummed out and sad. Its a long relationship and a lot of love invested. Its always hard to find someone you connect with THAT well.

 

[Cadop]

Are you still in high school?

 

[Safeway]

She was excited to see you to break your heart? That b!tch.

Edit: Maybe it is April Fools, and she'll call you laughing? :beer:

 

[Gooberlx2]

You're better off.

 

[MazerRackham]

Shens April 1.

 

[Shadowknight]

Any time someone says they need a break, or need to find themselves, it's over man, let it go.

 

[Whoozyerdaddy]

Link

 

[winr]

Best wishes :sun:

I have been there....we all have been there....


I hope you feel better soon.

 

[sandorski]

If true(not April Fools) and she comes back again, refuse to take her back. She's not worth the headache/heartache.

 

[thirdlegstump]

"find herself"

Why do girls always get lost within themselves? Pretty disorganized if you ask me.

 

[jinduy]

almost all girls go through this stage

i'd say 9 out of 10 times the girl doesn't come back because they can never resolve this 'search' other than find some new tail

 

[clamum]

You're definitely better off without her. There'll be others.

 

[cherrytwist]

Unless you're ready to get married, it's probably for the best :beer:

 

[jpeyton]

Pics?

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: deathkoba
"find herself"

Why do girls always get lost within themselves? Pretty disorganized if you ask me.

It's a euphemism for "she found someone else with whom she wants to have sex".

 

[RaistlinZ]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: deathkoba
"find herself"

Why do girls always get lost within themselves? Pretty disorganized if you ask me.

It's a euphemism for "she found someone else with whom she wants to have sex".

So true. And since after a month she wanted you back it means she didn't vibe with the guy she was f*cking for that month and didn't want to be left out in the cold, so she "took you back".

I'd just move on. Don't call her, don't text her, don't e-mail her, don't "hook up". Just move on.

 

[Compton]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: deathkoba
"find herself"

Why do girls always get lost within themselves? Pretty disorganized if you ask me.

It's a euphemism for "she found someone else with whom she wants to have sex".

QFT. If she says she needs "time off" "time apart" or "space", then it usually means she wants to fsck someone else too.

 

[Mucho]

Looks like she gave you the old 'its not you its me' routine.

 

[mrrman]

never get back with an ex....period....thats why they are ex's

 

[Howard]

She fvcked a guy and he dropped it like it was hot.

 

[Anghang]

Originally posted by: GrantMeThePower
Its always hard to find someone you connect with THAT well.

wrong, obviously in her mind you two didn't connect as well as you thought...you want closure? find out what was lacking for her...

 

[Accipiter22]

Originally posted by: GrantMeThePower
This kinda blows. She and I were together for like a year and a half. Then she broke up with me at new years becuase she felt she really needed to "find herself". After a month she wanted me back. It was a tough choice because I'd just started moving on but I loved her so much that it was worth it. Its been a hard couple of months while she's invovled with her church groups and social activism people and class and work, so we only really got together one or two days a week. But it seemed like the effort would pay off in the end.

She emailed me and said she was really excited to see me. Then she got to my place and we had'the talk'. Not really what I was expecting.

Anyway, just pretty bummed out and sad. Its a long relationship and a lot of love invested. Its always hard to find someone you connect with THAT well.

I got the perfect way to rebound: here buddy

 

[Boo Boo]

once i saw again i was like whens the boy gonna grow a pair. i guess in a week youll be doing it again

 

[eits]

fvck that bitch, son!

 

[backseatmidget]

that girl sounds like she sucks