what I'm saying is that it took me 10 minutes of use to determine that they desperately need to
-decrease the DPI setting in build.prop
-come up with a solution for the bobbing textbox + word-suggestion issue (exists with Swype also, rendering default android keyboard as the only choice), and
-make the keyboard shorter (vertically)
But you see, that is your thoughts of what needs to be changed that are greatly influenced by the iPhone.
For some people, the higher DPI and one inch icons are a good thing. My wife's grandmother LOVES my SGS2 over any iPhone because she can easily see what to do on the screen. Plus it is not completely within Samsung's control- Google controls the market and sets the DPI standard for phones.
And not everyone likes a shorter keyboard. Heck, you would flip if you saw the keyboard I use (thumb keyboard)- it
adds extra vertical rows for directional keys on portrait mode. The honest truth is that I don't need to see what was written before to respond. Sure coming from an iPhone that was a change, but I find it is not hard to look at a message and then bang out a response without looking at it again. I couldn't go back to iOS's keyboard without directional keys now.
Basically it all comes down to preferences, and your preferences have been shaped by the iPhone. That is your standard. But it you had never seen and iPhone before, maybe you would have preferred the SGS2 defaults.
Or not, I get what you are saying that the iPhone has more overall polish. Problem is that the man behind that level of OCD is gone, and it remains to be seen if there is another human on the planet that can do what he did. MS has never approached Apple's level of polish despite many more resources for a long time, and Google hasn't even tried to get near Apple's level. Basically that level of polish is something you can't buy, you have to be born with it.
Who knows, without Jobs eventually in something like 10 years maybe Apple won't be so polished.....