Sexual Performance Anxiety?

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Anghang

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i prefer Lifestyles Extra Sensitive brand condoms...they feel superthin...almost like wearing nothing at all...but yea...if problem persists...there's always the blue pill ;)
 

CTrain

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Damm, the whole thread and no one have mentioned the V word ??
Pop in a pill. wait 30 mins and for the rest of the night, you'll wish you never woke up little Jason.
 

aphex

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Originally posted by: JasonXtreme
No problems alone. I guess the problem was problems staying erect. Maybe it was the shltty condoms :eek:

This can be true.

Not to get too graphic, but when i was in Europe all they had available was Durex. Not to be tooting my own horn, but those suckers were cutting off circulation.

When i got back to the US i picked up some trojans again and was smooth sailing.

Man, talk about ring around the dick :D
 

Atomicus

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Originally posted by: bradruth
Originally posted by: JasonXtreme
No problems alone. I guess the problem was problems staying erect. Maybe it was the shltty condoms :eek:

I'd say it's something psychological. Just try to relax a little next time.

...but not in teh wang, 'cuz that's the problem. :D

Shhh, my last name is "Wang", don't use it so loosely :eek:
 

aphex

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Originally posted by: Atomicus
Originally posted by: bradruth
Originally posted by: JasonXtreme
No problems alone. I guess the problem was problems staying erect. Maybe it was the shltty condoms :eek:

I'd say it's something psychological. Just try to relax a little next time.

...but not in teh wang, 'cuz that's the problem. :D

Shhh, my last name is "Wang", don't use it so loosely :eek:

I once knew a guy who's first name was Wang. :)
 

computerABUSER

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The next time your having a bad day imagine this:

Your a Siamese twin.
Your brother is gay.
You're not.
He has a date coming over tonight.
You only have one ass.

STOP IT!!!!!!!! stop it, right now :) I haven't laughed this hard on this site in a while...
CA
 
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Originally posted by: aphex
Originally posted by: Atomicus
Originally posted by: bradruth
Originally posted by: JasonXtreme
No problems alone. I guess the problem was problems staying erect. Maybe it was the shltty condoms :eek:

I'd say it's something psychological. Just try to relax a little next time.

...but not in teh wang, 'cuz that's the problem. :D

Shhh, my last name is "Wang", don't use it so loosely :eek:

I once knew a guy who's first name was Wang. :)

I got you beat - Long Wang.

No, seriously, that's his name.

- M4H
 
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BTW, the "Think of other things" might work to keep you from going off "half-cocked", but it'll do bad things to Mr Winky in the future - specifically, his staying power. :Q

- M4H
 

bootymac

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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: aphex
Originally posted by: Atomicus
Originally posted by: bradruth
Originally posted by: JasonXtreme
No problems alone. I guess the problem was problems staying erect. Maybe it was the shltty condoms :eek:

I'd say it's something psychological. Just try to relax a little next time.

...but not in teh wang, 'cuz that's the problem. :D

Shhh, my last name is "Wang", don't use it so loosely :eek:

I once knew a guy who's first name was Wang. :)

I got you beat - Long Wang.

No, seriously, that's his name.

- M4H
There's a guy at my school who is named Harry Wang. Seriously.
 

stonecold3169

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I used to have (likely still do) an issue similar, except mine was caused by my manic depression/anxiety. I'm not on any meds, so it wasn't a side effect of those, I found that the solution was getting to better know, trust, and get close to the amazing girl I'm dating. Until I feel secure being with them I have issues like you described, now I have no problems at all. Maybe you've "jumped the gun" a bit and should lay off of it for a while (assumign she understands and all of that.

Hell, most important thing? Talk to her about it (assuming this isn't just a hookup and you are pursuing things with her). If she understands and tries to help you out, even more signs that she's a keeper.
 

Murphy Durphy

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Had to be the condoms. I can last for hours without one and with the right ones. But just last night I had to borrow a "Ultra Pleasure" trojan from someone (Ran out of the magnums :p) and I figured they'd be crap. And they were. I found myself loosing my e-rection halfway through. Ended up quitting without really finishing. I see where the Ultra Pleasure comes in, although they really need to specify. While I pumped away like an acrobatic madman for 30 minutes the girl was enjoying every moment. Grrr...
 

cerebusPu

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okay..need pics here. we need to judge if she's really hot. cause maybe she aint and thats why your flaccid. lol. well in all likelihood it was probly because of the roommates in the house.

i couldnt orgasm the last three times. thats sucks when youre a guy, and youre getting tired of pounding away.
 

raanemaan

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Originally posted by: computerABUSER
The next time your having a bad day imagine this:

Your a Siamese twin.
Your brother is gay.
You're not.
He has a date coming over tonight.
You only have one ass.

STOP IT!!!!!!!! stop it, right now :) I haven't laughed this hard on this site in a while...
CA

LMAO :laugh:
 

cronos

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UNCjigga

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It used to happen to me, back when I was in a college dorm and the roommate wouldn't/couldn't make himself scarce. My solution--I know this sounds lame and not very romantic, but headphones and some loud music usually helped me out. Not pansy-ass makeout music, but the kind of hard rock/metal that I normally don't listen to. Girls don't like getting tangled in the wire though...very not cool.