Sexual Performance Anxiety?

[JasonXtreme]

This may be a real harsh topic, even for here. Recently I met a very attractive girl. One problem I have been having is some sort of Sexual Performance Anxiety. I don't know if it's because I get nervous around her or what exactly the problem is. We have only had two encounters so far. First time wasnt bad at all it was the latest encounter I was having problems. What does everyone think? Maybe I was just nervous the second time because her roomates were home. Are their any foods that can help? As weird as it sounds, LOL.

 

[bradruth]

Any problems when you're "alone?"

 

[Nebor]

You didn't really say what your problem exactly is. And I'm not sure that you should.

 

[Kadarin]

My suggestion: Quit masturbating and cut down on the porn.

 

[JasonXtreme]

No problems alone. I guess the problem was problems staying erect. Maybe it was the shltty condoms

 

[shimsham]

flacid? try a drink or two before hand to help you relax. youre just nervous.

pics of the girl might help us give you better advice

 

[JasonXtreme]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
My suggestion: Quit masturbating and cut down on the porn.

Haha. The sexual ecounters with her were like day apart. Maybe too soon, so I had problems?

 

[fredtam]

Jerk off before the deed, excersise, drink a little, bite your lip, desensitizing gel, think of golf or nascar, count backwards from a high number, take stuff apart in your head.

 

[bradruth]

Originally posted by: JasonXtreme
No problems alone. I guess the problem was problems staying erect. Maybe it was the shltty condoms

I'd say it's something psychological. Just try to relax a little next time.

...but not in teh wang, 'cuz that's the problem.

 

[fredtam]

Oh I thought you had lost staying power.

 

[erikiksaz]

I don't think so. You should have been able to have an encounter within another hour.

 

[Ronstang]

No matter how good looking she is, someone, somewhere is tired of her sh!t, which stinks just like everyone else's, and she doesn't fart marshmellows so what the hell is the problem? She is just another girl......stand tall, stand firm.....and hit it!!!!!!!!

 

[erikiksaz]

Originally posted by: fredtam
Jerk off before the deed, excersise, drink a little, bite your lip, desensitizing gel, think of golf or nascar, count backwards from a high number, take stuff apart in your head.

:thumbsup:

 

[flxnimprtmscl]

Are you having problems when you go to put the rubber on or when you're... uh, inside?

 

[JoeKing]

Originally posted by: JasonXtreme
No problems alone. I guess the problem was problems staying erect. Maybe it was the shltty condoms

yeah caps do that to me also. Get the sensative type and stay away from Durex as I have come (hehehe) to the conclusion they are the crappies.t

 

[Alchemist99]

HA ha well the only thing you can do is to try and relax. talk about it might help and try not to put pressure on yourself. Trust me you're not the first guy this has happened to

 

[JasonXtreme]

desensitizing gel? thats the last thing I want! the condoms had like no feeling. That was probably it. Some brand I never heared of. Next time Im getting a good brand

 

[fredtam]

Have her play with it and put the condom on.

 

[fredtam]

Originally posted by: JasonXtreme
desensitizing gel? thats the last thing I want! the condoms had like no feeling. That was probably it. Some brand I never heared of. Next time Im getting a good brand

As I said I thought your problem was staying power.

 

[cremator]

Talk to your local drug dealer, buy a rock or two of crack, cut it, snort it / smoke it. Go for it.

 

[JasonXtreme]

Originally posted by: fredtam
Have her play with it and put the condom on.

That worked for a while. Im almost sure its the condoms. I couldnt feel anything w/them.

 

[boomdart]

I don't get anxious around women, but I'm willing to say that thinking off topic thoughts would probably help you keep the jolly jingler down and keep it not so aroused. Think about things like what you've posted on anandtech, how you're going to beat that boss on Kingdom Hearts, or about what you're going to do when you win $1,000,000 dollars. Doing so while in bed also helps you to last longer, in my own experience. Also, don't think about how nice it would be if she did this, or that. Do not set yourself up and/or fantasize about what may or may not happen.

Also, try polishing the bishop (claim to need to use the bathroom) before intercourse and wear a condom; releaves any anxiety and if you're still well fitted you will be able to maintain an erect state.

 

[DainBramaged]

I take it that it doesn't have anything to do with the size of said instrument???

 

[Nebor]

Originally posted by: boomdart
I don't get anxious around women, but I'm willing to say that thinking off topic thoughts would probably help you keep the jolly jingler down and keep it not so aroused. Think about things like what you've posted on anandtech, how you're going to beat that boss on Kingdom Hearts, or about what you're going to do when you win $1,000,000 dollars. Doing so while in bed also helps you to last longer, in my own experience. Also, don't think about how nice it would be if she did this, or that. Do not set yourself up and/or fantasize about what may or may not happen.

Also, try polishing the bishop (claim to need to use the bathroom) before intercourse and wear a condom; releaves any anxiety and if you're still well fitted you will be able to maintain an erect state.

I don't think thinking about doing 2 chicks at the same time will help the situation.

 

[Eli]

Originally posted by: fredtam
Jerk off before the deed, excersise, drink a little, bite your lip, desensitizing gel, think of golf or nascar, count backwards from a high number, take stuff apart in your head.

LMAO.. WTF? :Q