Science of Attraction

[phantom309]

Originally posted by: Koing
You just have to think YOUR THE SH!T. If your not confident in yourself who the hell is going to be confident FOR YOU?! Got to love yourself before others will start.

It also comes to that if you think your ugly/ no self esteem (no matter how good looking you are) you have no chance. Well actually if you were really good looking you'd be getting dates but you will sooner come a cropper with your negative self...

Koing

There was a fascinating thread here a week or so ago that dealt with pick-up artists and the website fastseduction.com. While some of their attitudes toward women were incredibly destructive and cynical and a good 50% of the website was BS, there were a few pearls of truth that came out over and over:

1. If you know how to talk to women, your looks don't matter that much. If you don't know how to talk to women, your looks are all that matters.
2. Don't just be "confident" or try to act like an arrogant badass if you're not. Women don't necessarily go for badasses. Women go for men who know what they want and know how to get it.
3. If you like her, talk to her. NOW. Don't hesitate, don't apologise, don't deliberate. You know what you want. She knows what you want. Relax, smile, look her straight in the eye, and get to know her.
4. Wherever possible, take the lead. If you get a date, know where you want to go, know what you want to do. At a restaurant? Don't order for her, but be ready to suggest something she might like if she's never eaten there before. Never, never put yourself in a position to say "Shoot, I dunno....what do YOU wanna do?" You have your whole married life for that. ;-)
5. A certain number of women will sleep with you, no matter what you say or do. A certain number will never sleep with you, no matter what you say or do. Learn to identify those two types of women, and disregard them.

Again, I'm not endorsing anything else in that thread or on that website - but the basic concepts REALLY WORK and you don't have to be a smarmy, woman-hating "playa" to use them.

 

[LeadMagnet]

Originally posted by: HBalzer
So I was watching the national geographic channel last night the show was Naked Science and they where talking about the science of love and attraction.

So here are some interesting things I learned that might help you single people:
1. Fear increases the love drive - So make the first date a scary one or try meeting someone in a scary place the test they did was on a high bridge.
2. This one is somewhat well known the bigger the pupils are shows their interest so second date should be with candle light
3. Impress them with your physical abilities ? so play a sport (and I don?t think extreme gaming counts)
4. When a woman sees a photo of someone they love their brain pumps blood to the memory part. They said the woman is trying to think back on all the things you have done that would make you a good father. So be nice, keep promises, and show your brain power.

Try nude aligator wrestling while reading her poetry in the dark.

 

[Fireball77]

another thing that would work......get the Damien Rice cd "O"
I have had numerous lady friends call that Panty Dropping music.