35' is pretty big
I'd recommend figuring out if you love it long before dropping 90k on a 35' money pit.
I've got a 23' down in commencement bay and it costs more to keep than I can really justify.
I took a sailing class from a community college before buying and i'd say that was well worth it -- so take a class.
I'd also recommend looking at casual racing. Lake union has the Duck Dodge races, which I've never been in but seem fun. Also, there are races at whatever that marina is right after you pass the ballard locks.
If you love racing, there's Widbey Island race-week that I've heard is a big party. (never been)
West Marine has a free magazine in their store (i forget what it's called) with a lot of the details about races.
If you don't know anybody -- just find out when races are, show up, and offer to crew for someone. Someone is usually short-handed and would likely take you.
I regret not buying a race-able boat -- and I also regret buying a boat with wood seats and hatch.
Looks pretty when it's all new -- but deteriorates VERY quickly in the harsh weather.
edit: If I lived in seattle and had a place to store it, I'd probably buy a Laser and get into racing.