This is a lack of education on your part. You just don’t understand how the world works.That is the key point from the Russian viewpoint.
Historical education is lacking here. NATO promised to Russia (Soviet Union back then) about not expanding in the early 90s but then totally did the opposite. It kept expanding more and more. This has always made Russia angry. Them not trusting NATO after that is understandable.
Russia has had NATO on its borders for decades. They might not like it but they don’t care that much. This is about Russia attempting to return a former vassal state to the fold.
I do wish people were better educated though, yes. Russia lies about everything but so many people believe them.