Room Mate issue...

hpkeeper

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This whole quarter, my room mate and I have been living in temporary housing at our school, we currently live in a study lounge.

Yesterday I was notified about two or three hours before my room mate that we were going to be moved from our lounge, and into our permanent rooms. However, my room mate and I won't be rooming together. There are only two options, one of us gets to live in a single, the other gets to live in a double, like our current situation, only in a slightly larger room.

So the debate is, who gets the single? We both want it.

-My room mate had a tough time finding the money to pay for this quarters bill, and it obviously costs more to have a single. However, the way he sees it, it costs an extra $400 onto a bill that already costs somewheres in the $10,000 range, so he says, "what's an extra $400?"

-My arguement is, if he gets the single room, and he can't pay for next quarter, which means he can't come back... then he'll have to move out of that single and I will still be stuck in a double because someone else who is temporary housing will have priority over that single, I won't have first dibs on it like I currently do. Whether or not I like it or not, I'm going to be here next semester, I have the money ready to go, and even if I didn't, my parents would re-mortgage our house to send me back to school next quarter, so I WILL be here next quarter.

With my arguement stated, I feel that I should have the lock on the room. But it's not all peaches, the rooms are both in my current building, one floor up. I really like living on my current floor and I would do anything to stay here... including trading away a single to move into a double with one of my friends on the floor. The difficulty is finding someone that is willing to spend the extra buck to live in a single... or to find someone that is willing to move out of their current double to live in another double.

So I do want the single, but I don't.


So that's the debate... any ideas? who should have priority? ...just an interesting read...? comments? questions? Profanity?
 

hpkeeper

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why? screw a coin toss, if I presented my arguement to housing I'm sure I would get priority over the single. Who knows where my room mate will be next quarter with his financial status... so if he didn't show up next semester, I would essentially be screwed by the toss of a coin twice. Once because I lost the first time, and if he didn't show up next quarter, I'd lose because there is no way I could get the single at that point.
 

hpkeeper

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Originally posted by: loki8481
Originally posted by: Orsorum
Originally posted by: SarcasticDwarf
Have the RA toss a coin.

:thumbsup: It may just come down to that.

yeah. seems like the fairest way.

How's that fair? it might be fair when it comes down to the next few days... but long term I could see it not being fair.
 

mflacy

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Originally posted by: hpkeeper
Originally posted by: loki8481
Originally posted by: Orsorum
Originally posted by: SarcasticDwarf
Have the RA toss a coin.

:thumbsup: It may just come down to that.

yeah. seems like the fairest way.

How's that fair? it might be fair when it comes down to the next few days... but long term I could see it not being fair.

If you are too stupid to understand the percentages of a coin toss, then perhaps you shouldn't be in college.
 

SaturnX

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Buddy you've really got to stop emphasizing this whole "financial status" bit that seems to make up your entire argument. If your roommate REALLY wants to be there... he'll come up with the money regardless, end of story, and $400... come on! You're only kidding yoruself, and you know it. And go ahead, present your argument to Housing... they probably won't even care, they'll just pass it off to your RA to deal with. Chances are it'll probabaly come down to your RA tossing a coin. Life isn't always fair, so suck it up, and stop complaining and make the best of whatever situation you end up in.

--Mark
 

Aharami

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first you gotta decide for yourself...do you want the single or not. if you'd rather live in your current floor then give the single to ur roomie. if u want the single, then fight for it (coin toss)
 

dman

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You should do something more elaborate, like throw competing keg parties, and whoever gets the most folks (or hot chicks) to visit gets the room. Have someone document the actives. Then make a movie script out of it, even if not part of the event, include gratuitous naked chicks. Then make a movie about it (even if you lose) and be rich, and then you won't have to worry about college or finding single rooms anymore.

/Just watched a few college-movie flicks recently... sorry they seem to do well with stupid stuff like that. :)






 

GasX

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You both want the room, so you both have an equal right. You don't have priority because he might not be able to afford school next year you ass. If you want to use your money as an excuse to get a good room, do it the old fashioned way and go bribe someone at the housing authority...
 

Injury

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Why don't you see if you can offer the single to the guy in the double right now then both of you take the double... since you seem to be cool with each other already. That would settle the issue of either of you possibly being stuck with a roommate you hate.
 

hpkeeper

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Originally posted by: Injury
Why don't you see if you can offer the single to the guy in the double right now then both of you take the double... since you seem to be cool with each other already. That would settle the issue of either of you possibly being stuck with a roommate you hate.

that idea seems to work, and also has come up in conversation in this discussion. However, I don't really like my room mate, I live with him. Like him... that's a bit of a stretch, the kid is a slob. I'm sick of kicking his crap out of my way on the floor to get to my half of the room. Not to mention, I'm all about the open door, I like having my friends walk by and stop by my room because the door is open to say hello, but not with my room mate, he closes the door behind him, sits at his computer and plays games.. as if the open door would bother him when his headphones are on.

Little stuff like that bothers me... of course, I guess that's the troubles of living with someone else... the benefits are almost the same as the downfalls. When I ask him to clean up... he at least tries... and because he's playing his computer games that means he's not out drinking and puking all over himself and my stuff when he returns to the dorm.

But based on what the haters on this forum have said, your idea looks the most likely to happen. Which I guess is fine.

 

Tiamat

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I was in a somewhat similar situation except it was this:

Both of us lived in small singles in a dorm and were moving into an apartment with 2 single rooms, 1 double the size of the other.

It was settled on a D20 roll. I rolled a 14, he rolled a 6. I got the larger room and we have never though again about it since. Rent is split 50/50
 

UnderScore

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Wow, room mate issues at RIT is so 1996. :) I was a freshman and I was tripled. Yeah thats 3 guys in one double dorm room. Oh and it was a all male floor too. I lived on Gleason Tower (the one with the clock) 6th floor northside. Oh and that was before they renovated all the dorms & got new furniture , which took place in 1997-2000. My advice to you, which was given to me, is to suck it up. I'm sorry but there isn't wany other way to say it. Saying "RIT sucks!!" (which I did a lot) just isn't enough to get by. You either need to make a decision and say "Here you take the room." or "I will take the room."
Anyhow, don't sweat it too bad. Based on your past posts, I gather you are a 4th year student. If so then you have 5 months left & BOOYAH!, its over. Enjoy your time while it lasts.
:) <- RIT grad May 2002
 

HonkeyDonk

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Originally posted by: hpkeeper
Originally posted by: loki8481
Originally posted by: Orsorum
Originally posted by: SarcasticDwarf
Have the RA toss a coin.

:thumbsup: It may just come down to that.

yeah. seems like the fairest way.

How's that fair? it might be fair when it comes down to the next few days... but long term I could see it not being fair.

you just said it yourself that you want the single and you don't...so wouldn't that make a coin toss the best way for you to decide? LOL you're pretty stupid.
 

SaturnX

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Originally posted by: Mwilding
You both want the room, so you both have an equal right. You don't have priority because he might not be able to afford school next year you ass. If you want to use your money as an excuse to get a good room, do it the old fashioned way and go bribe someone at the housing authority...


Thank you.

--Mark